What Should I Know Before Requesting an Ex Parte Hearing?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

What Should I Know Before Requesting an Ex Parte Hearing?

Family law emergencies don’t always wait for regularly scheduled court dates. When urgent situations threaten your safety, your children’s well-being, or your financial security, California law provides a mechanism for immediate court intervention: the ex parte hearing. The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, led by Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger, has extensive experience handling ex parte matters and can provide swift, strategic representation for urgent situations.

Understanding Ex Parte Hearings in California

An ex parte hearing is an emergency court proceeding requested on shortened notice—sometimes with little or no advance notice to the other party. The term “ex parte” means “from one party,” indicating that these hearings can proceed even if the other side hasn’t had the typical amount of time to prepare a response.

Unlike regular motions that require 16 court days’ notice, ex parte applications can be heard within days or even hours of filing. California courts reserve ex parte hearings for genuine emergencies where waiting for a regular hearing would cause immediate harm or irreparable injury. Judges scrutinize ex parte requests carefully because they deviate from the normal process that gives both parties adequate time to prepare.

Ex parte hearings are not the appropriate venue for routine disputes or matters that have existed for weeks or months without creating immediate danger. Courts expect parties to use regular motion procedures unless circumstances truly qualify as emergencies requiring immediate judicial intervention.

When Ex Parte Relief Is Appropriate

California family courts grant ex parte hearings in specific urgent circumstances, including:

  • Immediate Safety Concerns: When domestic violence, child abuse, threats of harm, or kidnapping risks exist, ex parte hearings allow victims to obtain immediate protective orders, modify custody arrangements, or secure other safety measures without delay. These situations represent the clearest justification for emergency relief.
  • Child Custody Emergencies: Beyond safety threats, ex parte custody relief may be appropriate when a parent violates existing custody orders by refusing to return a child, when a parent plans to leave the jurisdiction with the child without permission, or when a child faces immediate risk of harm in their current placement.
  • Financial Emergencies: Ex parte financial relief addresses situations like a spouse draining bank accounts, hiding or destroying marital assets, failing to pay court-ordered support, causing imminent eviction or utility shutoff, or refusing to maintain required insurance coverage. The key is demonstrating immediate, irreparable financial harm.
  • Property Protection: When a spouse threatens to sell, transfer, or destroy significant marital property, ex parte orders can prevent these actions until a regular hearing addresses property division properly.

Information and Documentation You Need

Successfully obtaining ex parte relief requires thorough preparation and compelling evidence. Courts won’t grant emergency orders based on general allegations or unsubstantiated claims. You should gather:

Detailed Declaration Under Penalty of Perjury

Your declaration must clearly explain what emergency exists, why you couldn’t address it through regular motion procedures, when you learned of the emergency, what immediate harm will occur without court intervention, and what specific relief you’re requesting. Include specific dates, times, locations, and factual details that demonstrate the urgency.

Supporting Evidence

Gather all available evidence supporting your emergency claim: police reports, medical records, photographs of injuries or property damage, threatening text messages or emails, bank statements showing asset dissipation, witness declarations, and documentation of violated court orders. The more concrete evidence you provide, the stronger your case.

Notice Requirements Documentation

California law requires you to notify the other party of your ex parte request unless doing so would create danger or defeat the emergency relief’s purpose. You must document your efforts to provide notice, including when and how you notified the other party or explain why notice wasn’t possible. Failure to properly handle notice requirements can result in the denial of your request.

Proposed Orders

Prepare clear, specific proposed orders stating exactly what you want the court to order. Vague requests reduce your chances of success. Your proposed orders should be narrowly tailored to address the specific emergency.

Financial Information

For financial emergencies or requests involving support or attorney fees, provide current income and expense declarations, account statements, and documentation of the financial crisis.

Existing Court Orders

Bring copies of all relevant existing court orders, especially if your ex parte request involves alleged violations of those orders.

How the Ex Parte Process Works in California

The ex parte process moves quickly but requires strict compliance with procedural rules. Generally, you must notify the court and the other party by 10:00 a.m. on the court day before your requested hearing date. Some courts have specific ex parte departments or calendars, while others hear ex parte matters at designated times.

At the hearing, you’ll have limited time to present your case—often just minutes. The judge will review your written materials, hear a brief oral argument, and may ask questions. If the other party appears, they’ll have an opportunity to respond. The judge will then decide whether to grant temporary emergency orders.

Ex parte orders are temporary. If the court grants your request, it will typically schedule a follow-up hearing—called an Order to Show Cause hearing—within a few weeks, where both parties can fully argue the issues. The ex parte orders remain in effect until that hearing unless modified.

How Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger Can Help

Ex parte proceedings are high-stakes, fast-paced legal matters requiring sophisticated knowledge of family law and courtroom experience. Judy L. Burger’s certification as a Family Law Specialist by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization demonstrates her exceptional expertise in handling complex, urgent family law matters.

This certification, earned by fewer than 10% of California family law attorneys, requires extensive experience, passing a rigorous examination, ongoing education, and peer recognition. When facing a family law emergency, working with a Certified Specialist provides significant advantages.

Judy Burger and her team understand what constitutes a true emergency warranting ex parte relief versus situations better addressed through regular procedures. She knows how to craft compelling declarations that clearly articulate the emergency, marshal persuasive evidence, comply with technical notice and procedural requirements, and present effective oral arguments in the limited time available.

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger has successfully obtained ex parte orders protecting clients from domestic violence, preventing child abduction, stopping asset dissipation, and addressing other urgent matters throughout California. Judy’s experience includes representing clients at ex parte hearings and defending against improper ex parte requests.

Beyond obtaining immediate relief, Judy provides strategic guidance for the follow-up proceedings. Ex parte orders are just the first step; you need representation for the subsequent hearings where the court will determine whether to extend, modify, or terminate the emergency orders.

Frequently Asked Questions About Ex Parte Hearings

What happens if my ex parte request is denied?

If the court denies your ex parte request, you can still file a regular motion or Request for Order addressing the same issues through normal procedures. The denial doesn’t prevent you from seeking relief; it simply means the court didn’t find sufficient emergency circumstances to justify shortened notice. Your attorney can help you understand why the request was denied and develop an alternative strategy.

Can I request an ex parte hearing without an attorney?

While you can represent yourself in ex parte proceedings, doing so is risky. Ex parte hearings involve complex procedures, strict deadlines, and high stakes. Mistakes in paperwork, notice, or presentation can result in the denial of your request, potentially leaving you without protection in an emergency. The compressed timeline makes it especially difficult for self-represented parties to prepare effective requests.

How much does an ex parte hearing cost?

Costs vary based on case complexity and attorney fees, but ex parte matters typically require fewer attorney hours than regular motions due to the shortened timeline. Some ex parte requests include asking the court to order the other party to pay your attorney fees, especially in financial emergency situations.

What if the other party violates the ex parte order?

Violating court orders can result in contempt of court findings, fines, jail time, and other sanctions. If the other party violates an ex parte order, document the violations thoroughly and immediately inform your attorney. You may need to file an Order to Show Cause regarding contempt or request additional enforcement measures.

Can an ex parte order be overturned?

Yes. At the follow-up Order to Show Cause hearing, the responding party can present their full case, and the court may modify or terminate the ex parte orders based on complete information from both sides. This is why ex parte orders are temporary—they’re based on limited information presented in an emergency context. The subsequent hearing provides full due process for both parties.

Get Immediate Help for Your Family Law Emergency

When you’re facing a genuine family law emergency requiring immediate court intervention, time is critical. The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger provides experienced, strategic representation for ex parte matters throughout California.

Contact Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger immediately if you need emergency court relief. Our team understands the urgency of these situations and can quickly assess whether ex parte relief is appropriate, prepare compelling documentation, and provide effective representation at your emergency hearing.

Call us now or visit our website—when emergencies arise, every moment counts, and expert legal guidance can make all the difference in protecting you and your family.

Does Domestic Violence Increase During the Holidays?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

Does Domestic Violence Increase During the Holidays?

The answer is a troubling yes. While the holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, family togetherness, and celebration, for many individuals living with domestic violence, it represents a period of heightened danger and fear. Understanding this reality is critical for protecting vulnerable family members and knowing when and how to seek help.

The Statistics Tell a Sobering Story

Recent data confirms what domestic violence advocates have long observed: domestic violence spikes every year during the holidays. The numbers are significant and consistent across different regions.

  • An IPV study based on data gathered between 2005 and 2017 showed that 15% of all domestic violence-related visits to emergency rooms occurred during holiday periods, with New Year’s Eve having the highest incident rate.
  • San Antonio’s Metro Health reports domestic violence cases tend to rise by around 25% during the holidays. This trend isn’t isolated to one community. Police say several factors contribute to the increase in domestic violence during the holidays, including financial stress, alcohol and drugs, holiday shopping pressures, and family dynamics.
  • A 2024 report, “The Costs of Intimate Partner Violence in California,” reveals a cost of $73.7 billion to the state in health care, lost productivity and income, and criminal justice and response program spending for domestic violence cases in 2022 alone. This is about 2% of California’s gross domestic product. 

The pattern extends beyond just major winter holidays. Stress elevates, finances usually take a hit, alcohol and drug use tend to increase, and people are at home more with their family during various holiday periods throughout the year, creating multiple windows of increased risk.

Why Does Domestic Violence Increase During Holidays?

Several key elements create what some advocates call a “perfect storm” of risk factors.

Financial Stress and Economic Pressure

The expectation to buy gifts, host gatherings, and create picture-perfect celebrations places enormous financial strain on households. Financial stress is one of the most significant contributors to the rise in domestic violence during the holidays, as the pressure to buy gifts, host gatherings, and meet societal expectations can strain household budgets, often exacerbating existing tensions within relationships.

Increased Alcohol and Substance Use

The holiday season is often accompanied by increased alcohol consumption, which is a well-known risk factor for domestic violence, as alcohol can impair judgment and lower inhibitions, making it easier for underlying tensions to erupt into physical confrontations. Holiday parties and social gatherings often normalize excessive drinking, providing abusers with both opportunity and excuse for violent behavior.

Heightened Emotional Expectations

The cultural pressure to be happy, grateful, and family-oriented during the holidays creates additional stress for those in troubled relationships. The holidays can be emotionally taxing, as the expectation to maintain a cheerful demeanor, coupled with the stress of family interactions, can lead to heightened emotions, and for those already in volatile relationships, these emotional triggers can escalate conflicts into physical violence.

Increased Time Together and Isolation

With families spending extended time together, such as spouses or parents with school-age children back at home on a school break, the chances of violence within a household increase. Additionally, during the holidays, many support services like shelters and hotlines may have reduced hours or may be understaffed, making it more challenging for victims to seek help or escape abusive situations.

Control and Power Dynamics

While there are several factors that can fuel domestic violence during the holidays, the root cause usually involves one family member exerting control over another. The holidays provide abusers with additional opportunities to isolate victims from support systems, control finances, and manipulate family dynamics.

The Hidden Reality: The Honeymoon Phase

Interestingly, domestic violence shelters report a complex pattern during the holidays. Shelters actually see short dips this time of year, when survivors try to go back home, as the honeymoon phase kicks in with abusers saying, ‘I love you, I’m sorry, it’s the holidays. This cycle makes the holiday period particularly dangerous, as victims may return to unsafe situations hoping for change that rarely materializes.

How Judy Burger Can Help

If you’re experiencing domestic violence, taking legal action can be a critical step toward safety and protection. As a California Certified Family Law Specialist, Judy L. Burger has dedicated her practice to helping victims of domestic violence obtain the legal protection they need. This certification, held by fewer than 10% of California family law attorneys, reflects advanced knowledge and proven experience in family law matters, including domestic violence cases.

Judy can help you obtain a domestic violence restraining order, which can provide multiple layers of protection. In California, these orders can require the abuser to stay away from you, your home, your workplace, and your children’s schools. They can also address child custody and visitation, require the abuser to move out of a shared residence, and prohibit the abuser from possessing firearms.

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger understands the urgency of domestic violence situations. Judy and her team can guide you through the process of obtaining emergency protective orders, temporary restraining orders, and permanent restraining orders. They can also help you navigate related family law matters, including divorce, child custody, and property division, when domestic violence is a factor.

Beyond restraining orders, Judy can provide comprehensive legal representation if you’re going through a divorce involving domestic violence. She understands how abuse affects custody determinations, spousal support calculations, and property division. Her approach prioritizes your safety and your children’s safety while protecting your legal rights and financial interests.

Recognizing the Signs and Taking Action

Domestic violence takes many forms beyond physical abuse. In California, abuse can be emotional, psychological, verbal, or physical. It can include controlling access to money, isolating someone from friends and family, or engaging in coercive control that interferes with a person’s free will and personal liberty.

If you’re in immediate danger, always call 911 first. Once you’re safe, contacting an attorney who understands domestic violence can help you create a comprehensive safety plan and obtain legal protection.

The time when leaving or planning to leave an abusive relationship can be the most dangerous. Having a skilled attorney on your side ensures you understand your options, have proper legal documentation, and take steps that protect both your immediate safety and your long-term interests.

Holiday Domestic Violence FAQs

Can I get a restraining order during the holidays, even when courts are closed?

Yes. Law enforcement officers can request emergency protective orders from judges 24 hours a day, including holidays and weekends. These emergency orders last 5-7 days and go into effect immediately, giving you time to seek a longer-term domestic violence restraining order from the court when it reopens.

Does a domestic violence restraining order affect child custody during the holidays?

Yes. A domestic violence restraining order can include temporary custody and visitation orders that remain in effect during the holidays. The court prioritizes the safety of children when domestic violence is present, and holiday visitation schedules can be modified or supervised to ensure protection.

What if my abuser promises to change and wants me to drop the restraining order for the holidays?

You should never feel pressured to drop legal protection. The “honeymoon phase,” where abusers apologize and promise change, is a well-documented part of the cycle of violence. Consult with your attorney before making any decisions about modifying or dismissing a restraining order, regardless of promises made.

Can financial stress during the holidays be used as a defense for domestic violence?

No. While financial stress may be a contributing factor to increased tension, it is never an excuse or legal defense for domestic violence. California law protects victims regardless of the circumstances that may have contributed to the abuser’s behavior. Everyone has the right to live free from violence and abuse.

Is there a cost to file for a domestic violence restraining order in California?

No. There is no filing fee to request a domestic violence restraining order in California. The court process is designed to be accessible to all victims of domestic violence, regardless of their financial situation. Additionally, if your restraining order is granted, the court can order the abuser to pay your attorney’s fees and costs.

Take Action to Protect Yourself and Your Family

The holidays should be a time of safety, peace, and genuine celebration—not fear and danger. If you or someone you care about is experiencing domestic violence, especially during this high-risk holiday season, don’t wait to seek help.

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger is here to provide the legal guidance and protection you need. With offices throughout California and a deep commitment to helping victims of domestic violence, Judy Burger and her team understand the courage it takes to seek help and the urgency of your situation.

Don’t let another holiday season pass in fear. Call The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger now and learn about your legal options for protection. Your safety and your children’s safety are too important to wait. Reach out today—we’re ready to help you reclaim your life and build a safer tomorrow.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For confidential support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

What Can I Do If I Suspect My Ex’s New Partner Is Mistreating the Children?
California Divorce, Child Custody, Domestic Violence

What Can I Do If I Suspect My Ex’s New Partner Is Mistreating the Children?

Co-parenting after a divorce can be challenging, especially when new partners are involved. If you suspect that your ex-spouse’s new partner is mistreating your children, it becomes crucial to take action to ensure their safety and well-being.

Let’s explore the legal parameters of abuse under California law, provide steps you can take if you suspect mistreatment, and explain how The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger can assist you in navigating this challenging situation.

Understanding Child Abuse Under California Law

California law defines child abuse broadly, encompassing physical, emotional, and neglectful behaviors. The key statutes involved in child abuse cases include:

  1. Physical Abuse: This refers to any non-accidental physical harm inflicted on a child. It can include hitting, burning, or any act that results in physical injury.
  2. Emotional Abuse: Emotional abuse includes behaviors that harm a child’s emotional development or sense of self-worth. This can involve constant criticism, intimidation, or isolation.
  3. Neglect: Neglect occurs when a caregiver fails to provide necessary care, supervision, or emotional support, putting the child’s health or safety at risk.

California Child Welfare Services takes reports of suspected abuse seriously. When a child’s safety is at stake, taking immediate action is critical.

Steps to Take If You Suspect Mistreatment

Never hesitate to investigate and report mistreatment of your children. Here are the steps to take:

1. Document Your Observations

Keep a detailed record of any concerning behaviors or incidents that lead you to suspect mistreatment. This documentation should include dates, times, descriptions of events, and any remarks made by the children that indicate mistreatment. Photographic evidence of injuries or changes in behavior can also be helpful.

2. Talk to Your Children

Approach your children in a calm and supportive manner. Let them know they can speak openly without fear of repercussions. Ask them about their experiences with their new partner, but do so gently. Avoid leading questions that may suggest how they should respond.

3. Consult With a Child Psychologist

If your children display signs of distress or behavioral changes, consulting a child psychologist may be beneficial. A professional can provide insights into any underlying issues of mistreatment and may help document the effects of any abuse on your child.

4. Reach Out to Your Ex-Spouse

If you feel it is safe to do so, consider discussing your concerns with your ex-spouse. Communicate your feelings respectfully, focusing on the children’s well-being. If they are receptive, this may provide an opportunity to address the situation cooperatively.

5. Contact Child Protective Services (CPS)

If you have substantial reason to believe that your children are in imminent danger or that their new partner poses a threat, it is vital to contact CPS or your local law enforcement agency. They can investigate your claims. Be prepared to provide them with the documentation you have gathered.

6. Seek Legal Counsel

If you believe your children are being mistreated and you have reasons to act on your suspicions, it is essential to consult with a knowledgeable family law attorney. A legal professional can guide you through the necessary steps to safeguard your child’s welfare, which may include modifying custody or visitation arrangements.

How The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger Can Help

At The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we understand the emotional turmoil that accompanies concerns about a child’s safety. Our firm is committed to safeguarding children and promoting their well-being.

  • Legal Guidance: Judy L. Burger is a California Certified Family Law Specialist with extensive experience in family law matters. She can provide you with the legal knowledge and support you need if you suspect your children are being mistreated.
  • Custody Modifications: If the situation necessitates a change in custody arrangements, Judy can help you navigate the legal process of modifying custody orders to protect your children.
  • Protective Orders: We can also assist in drafting any necessary legal documentation, such as protective orders aimed at ensuring the safety of the children during visitation periods.
  • Mediation and Negotiation: Our firm prioritizes amicable resolutions and can facilitate discussions with your ex-spouse regarding the concerns at hand, seeking collaborative solutions that prioritize the children’s welfare.

FAQs About Child Mistreating After Divorce

What constitutes child abuse in California?

Child abuse can include physical harm, emotional harm, and neglect. Any behavior that is harmful to a child’s physical or emotional well-being may fall under the definition of abuse.

How can I report suspected child abuse?

If you suspect child abuse, you can report your concerns to California’s Child Protective Services or local law enforcement. They will investigate the situation and take necessary action.

What should I do if my children tell me about mistreatment?

Listen supportively and document their statements. Encourage them to express their feelings, and consider seeking professional help if they seem distressed.

Can I file for custody modification if I suspect my ex’s partner is abusive?

Yes. If you believe your children are in danger, you can seek legal counsel to file for a modification of custody arrangements to protect your children.

How can Judy Burger assist me in this situation?

Judy Burger specializes in family law and can provide legal guidance, help in addressing custody issues, and assist with any necessary legal protective measures to safeguard your children.

Ensure the Safety of Your Children

Ensuring the safety and well-being of your children should be a priority. If you suspect that your ex-spouse’s new partner is mistreating them, it is essential to take action. Documentation, communication, and legal support are critical steps in addressing the issue effectively. At The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we are here to stand by your side and help you navigate these challenging circumstances, ensuring your children’s safety comes first.

Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?

Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects many individuals and families across California. If you are facing threats, harassment, or violence at the hands of a partner, family member, or someone close to you, understanding your rights is crucial. One of the most effective tools available for protection is a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO). But can you obtain one in any type of relationship?

Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger clarifies what constitutes domestic violence under California law, discuss the types of relationships eligible for DVROs, and explains how she can assist you throughout this process.

Understanding Domestic Violence Under California Law

Domestic violence is defined under California Family Code § 6203 as abuse against an intimate partner. Abusive behavior can take many forms, including:

  • Physical Abuse: Any act of violence or threats of violence (hitting, slapping, pushing, etc.).
  • Emotional Abuse: Activities that provoke fear, isolation, or mental harm (intimidation, threats, or controlling behavior).
  • Financial Abuse: Controlling someone’s access to financial resources, thus creating economic dependence.
  • Sexual Abuse: Unwanted sexual acts or exploitation, including coerced sex.

California recognizes the importance of protecting individuals from such harm, and the law provides several avenues for victims to seek safety and justice. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order serves as a legal barrier, preventing the abuser from contacting or coming near the victim.

Who Can File for a DVRO?

California law outlines several types of relationships where a DVRO can be requested. Understanding these relationships is essential for anyone considering legal action:

  1. Intimate Partners: This includes individuals who have been in a dating relationship. It does not matter if the relationship is ongoing or has ended; if there is a history of intimacy, you may seek a DVRO.
  2. Married Couples: Current and former spouses are eligible to file for a DVRO. The law also extends protection to those in domestic partnerships.
  3. Family Members: If you share familial ties, such as parents and children, siblings, or in-laws, you can pursue a DVRO. This applies regardless of whether you live together.
  4. Cohabitants: Individuals who live together or have lived together in the past (even if they are not in a romantic relationship) can file for a DVRO as long as there is evidence of abuse.
  5. Individuals with Children Together: If you have a child with another person, this relationship grants you the right to apply for a DVRO, regardless of your current relationship status.

How Judy L. Burger Can Help

Navigating the complexities of domestic violence cases can be overwhelming, especially for those dealing with trauma. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger possesses extensive experience in family law and domestic violence cases. Here’s how she can assist:

  • Legal Guidance: Judy will provide expert legal advice on whether you qualify for a DVRO based on your specific circumstances, explaining your rights and the details of the process.
  • Preparation of Legal Documents: Filing a DVRO entails submitting various legal documents. Judy will ensure all paperwork is meticulously prepared and submitted in a timely manner.
  • Representation in Court: If your case requires a court appearance, Judy is prepared to represent you with skill and compassion, advocating for your rights and safety.
  • Support and Resources: Beyond legal advocacy, Judy can help connect you with local resources, including shelters, counseling services, and support groups for domestic violence survivors.
  • Follow-up and Enforcement: Obtaining a DVRO is just the first step. Judy can assist in ensuring the order is enforced and modifying it as needed in any future legal proceedings.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Frequently Asked Questions About DVROs

What is the difference between a temporary and a permanent DVRO?

A temporary DVRO is typically issued quickly, often at the first court appearance, to provide immediate protection. A permanent DVRO, on the other hand, requires a full hearing where both parties present evidence, and can last up to five years with the option for renewal.

How long does it take to get a DVRO?

The process can vary, but temporary DVROs can often be granted the same day they are filed. A full hearing for a permanent DVRO usually occurs within 3 weeks after the temporary order is issued.

What evidence do I need to present for a DVRO?

Evidence can include police reports, medical records, photographs of injuries, text messages, or any documentation showing a history of abuse or threats.

Can I get a DVRO against a roommate or friend?

Yes, if you have lived together or have a relationship that qualifies under California law, you can file for a DVRO, provided there is evidence of abuse.

What happens if the abuser violates the DVRO?

If the abuser violates the conditions of the DVRO, you should contact the police immediately. Violating a restraining order is a criminal offense, and legal consequences can ensue.

Get Help Filing for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

If you find yourself in a situation involving domestic violence, understanding your rights and options is crucial. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order can provide the necessary protection and serve as a vital step toward gaining control over your life. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger is here to guide you through this challenging process with compassion and expertise. Remember, you don’t have to face this alone—support and protection are available.

 

Tips for Proving Child Abuse in a Custody Hearing
Child Custody, California Divorce, Domestic Violence

Tips for Proving Child Abuse in a Custody Hearing

In many custody cases, parents prioritize their child’s well-being above all else. However, in some situations, a child may not be safe with one of their parents, especially if there is a history of domestic abuse or child abuse or if there are concerns about the child being exposed to a potentially dangerous environment.

While it’s crucial for a parent to safeguard their child, it’s important to note that child abuse allegations are treated with the utmost seriousness by the courts and should not be made without careful consideration. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger can help you prove child abuse in your custody hearing to keep your children safe. Here are some things you should know.

Recognizing Child Abuse

The Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) as amended by the CAPTA Reauthorization Act of 2010, defines child abuse and neglect as, at minimum:

  1. “Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation;” or
  2. “An act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm.”

California law defines child abuse as:

  • Physical injury inflicted on a child by another person
  • Sexual abuse, or
  • Emotional abuse

Child abuse can take many forms, including causing physical or psychological harm. While physical abuse may leave visible marks like bruises, psychological abuse can be harder to detect. Signs of psychological abuse may include a child becoming withdrawn or losing interest in activities they used to enjoy.

Emotional abuse and neglect may be more harmful in the long term than physical or sexual abuse.

It’s crucial for parents to be aware of these signs, as children who are being abused may be too young or scared to report it themselves. You may need help from medical or mental health professionals to help detect child abuse.

Proving Child Abuse

Proving allegations of child abuse in court or your custody hearing requires hard evidence. Hearsay – repeating what someone else told you – is not admissible evidence. Hard evidence that can withstand legal challenges by the defendant’s attorney is documented proof of actual abuse.

While this sounds simple, it can become complex. Sometimes, you may only be able to document the changes reflected in a child’s behavior that may point to abuse.

Here are some recommended ways to prove child abuse in a California family court:

Official Documentation

Official documents that show physical evidence of abuse reflect possible abusive behaviors or indicate a pattern of change in behavior that can indicate abuse are admissible. These can include:

  • Medical records (exam documentation, photos, mental evaluations, etc.)
  • School reports documenting grade changes or behavior shifts
  • Police reports of any incidents involving the other parent
  • Records showing missed or denied parenting time or parenting plan violations

Witness testimony

Witnesses provide context for your allegations and may offer credible first-hand evidence of abusive behavior. They can provide:

  • Written testimony
  • Video or photographic evidence
  • Out-of-court depositions
  • Live witness testimony
  • Expert custody evaluations (mental health experts, court-appointed parenting coordinators, home study professionals, etc.)

Custody Journals

A custody journal can help illustrate your relationships with the child and the other parent. You can document:

  • Situations in which you don’t believe the other parent acted in the child’s best interests
  • Interactions with the other parent
  • Attempts to comply with existing custody agreements
  • Quality time you spend with the child
  • The child’s emotional state
  • The child’s medical appointments
  • The child’s behavior
  • The child’s own comments

Reporting Child Abuse

If a parent has concerns about their child being abused by the other parent or someone in the other parent’s household, they have the right to ask the court for an order to limit or remove the other parent’s custody rights. If the court finds evidence of abuse, it will issue either a temporary or final order with custody terms that ensure the child’s safety.

Note: You cannot simply decide to ignore existing visitation or other parenting agreements if you suspect abuse or neglect. You could be held in contempt of court.

If you suspect abuse or the potential for abuse or harm, contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger. We can help you contact the Child Protective Services Department in your county and arrange for emergency responses. Our office can also petition the court for an ex-parte order to help keep you and your child safe until a court hearing can make more permanent decisions.

 

What Qualifies as Domestic Violence in California?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order

What Qualifies as Domestic Violence in California?

What acts qualify as Domestic Violence under California Law? Suffering physical, psychological, or emotional abuse is never OK. Get the facts about Domestic Violence and when you should request a domestic violence restraining order to protect you and your family. California Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger can help you understand when you should petition the court for a restraining order.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Defining Domestic Violence

The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as: “Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.”

Domestic violence, according to California law, encompasses any type of abuse inflicted upon an “intimate partner.” This includes the deliberate or careless application of physical force against the individual or the act of threatening to use force against them.

The California Penal Code defines an “intimate partner” in the broadest possible way, so that can include:

  • Your spouse
  • Your former spouse
  • Your domestic partner
  • Your former domestic partner
  • A person with whom you’ve had a child
  • A current live-in romantic partner
  • A former live-in romantic partner
  • Someone you date
  • A person you dated previously

Other persons may also be victims of domestic violence under CA law:

  • Children
  • Your brother/half-brother/step-brother
  • Your sister/half-sister/step-sister
  • Parents
  • Grandparents
  • Your niece
  • Your nephew
  • Your uncle
  • Your aunt
  • Anyone related to you within the second degree by blood or marriage

Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist who can be a strong and aggressive advocate in highly conflicted domestic matters when you need the law on your side. Contact us for immediate help.

Common Acts of Domestic Violence

Charges of domestic violence vary under California law, depending on the severity of the crime and the surrounding circumstances. Many violent acts are specifically defined under the Penal Code. Some of the most common include:

  • Corporal Injury Upon a Spouse or Cohabitant – this counts even for slight injuries.
  • Child Abuse – is defined as inflicting “cruel or inhuman corporal punishment or an injury resulting in a traumatic condition” upon a child. 
  • Domestic Battery – using force or inflicting harm on an intimate partner.
  • Child Endangerment – willfully allowing a child in your care to be harmed or allowing her or his safety to be endangered, including actions or neglect.
  • Child Neglect – this is willfully neglecting to provide the basic necessities for your minor children.
  • Stalking – harassing or threatening so as to cause fear for your or your family’s safety.
  • Criminal Threats – threatening anyone with serious harm.
  • Aggravated Trespass – entering a home or workplace to carry out a threat within thirty days of making it.
  • Posting Harmful Information on the Internet (“Cyberstalking”) – making harmful information about someone else available by posting or emailing the material.
  • “Revenge Porn” – intentional distribution of sexual images of another person with the intent to cause them emotional distress.

Domestic Violence Penalties In California

In California, most domestic violence offenses are known as “wobbler” offenses, which means they can be charged as either misdemeanors or felonies, depending on the specifics of the case. Factors such as prior criminal record and the extent of the victim’s injuries are considered when determining whether to pursue misdemeanor or felony charges for an act of domestic violence.

Penalties range from probation with certain freedoms to fines, county jail, or state prison time. Domestic violence misdemeanor convictions also impose a ten-year ban on owning or possessing firearms. Persons convicted of felony domestic violence charges fall under the “Felon In Possession of a Firearm” law and are under a lifetime ban from owning firearms.

Some federal domestic violence misdemeanors also impart a lifetime firearm ownership ban.

Get Help with Domestic Violence Crimes In California

You should never hesitate to act when you believe you or your child are victims of domestic violence. Do not wonder how long you must suffer – when you or your child experience abuse or feel threatened, that is the time to act. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for immediate assistance with obtaining a restraining order.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Penalties for False Child Abuse Allegations
Child Custody, Domestic Violence

Penalties for False Child Abuse Allegations

When child abuse allegations are made, it is crucial to take them seriously and investigate them thoroughly. The welfare of the child is paramount, and if the allegations are true, the offender should be held accountable. However, when false allegations are made, the consequences can be severe for everyone involved.

Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explains more about the potential penalties for false child abuse allegations in California to prevent false accusations and protect the rights of all parties involved.

False Allegations of Child Abuse in California

False allegations of child abuse are taken seriously in California. It is considered a form of child abuse and can result in serious consequences for the accuser. False allegations can be made intentionally or unintentionally, and they can be made for many reasons, including:

  • To gain an advantage in a child custody battle
  • To get revenge on a spouse or partner
  • To deflect attention away from the accuser’s own misconduct
  • To seek attention or sympathy from others

None of these reasons are sufficient grounds for these actions.

California Family Code Division 8, Chapter 1, Section 3027.5. Sexual abuse of child; report or treatment; limitations on custody or visitation, paragraph b states:

“The court may order supervised visitation or limit a parent’s custody or visitation if the court finds substantial evidence that the parent, with the intent to interfere with the other parent’s lawful contact with the child, made a report of child sexual abuse, during a child custody proceeding or at any other time, that the reporting parent knew was false at the time it was made. A limitation of custody or visitation, including an order for supervised visitation, pursuant to this subdivision, or a statute regarding the making of a false child abuse report, shall be imposed only after the court has determined that the limitation is necessary to protect the health, safety, and welfare of the child. The court has considered the state’s policy of ensuring that children have frequent and continuing contact with both parents as declared in subdivision (b) of Section 3020.”

Penalties for False Child Abuse Allegations in California

False allegations of child abuse can result in severe legal consequences for the accuser. The penalties in California include:

  1. Criminal Charges: Making false accusations of child abuse is a crime in California under State Penal Code § 11172. If found guilty, the accuser can be charged with a misdemeanor or a felony, depending on the severity. The penalties can include jail time and fines.
  2. Civil Penalties: False allegations of child abuse can also result in civil penalties. The accused can file a civil lawsuit against the accuser for defamation, emotional distress, and other damages. If found guilty, the accuser may have to pay substantial damages.
  3. Loss of Custody: False allegations of child abuse can also result in the loss of custody of the child. If the court determines that the allegations were made with the intent to harm or deceive, the accuser can lose custody of the child and may even have their parental rights terminated.
  4. Criminal Record: If the accuser is convicted of making false allegations of child abuse, they will have a criminal record. This can make it challenging to find employment and housing and can also impact their ability to obtain custody of their children in the future.

Protecting the Welfare of Children

It is crucial to protect the welfare of the child in all cases of child abuse, whether the allegations are true or false. False allegations can harm everyone involved, including the accused, the accuser, and the child. Investigating all allegations thoroughly and taking appropriate legal action, if necessary, is essential.

If you or someone you know is facing false allegations of child abuse, it is crucial to seek legal guidance from a Certified Family Law Specialist to protect your rights and your child’s welfare. Attorney Judy Burger can provide the guidance and support you need to navigate this challenging situation and protect your family’s best interests. Contact us today to schedule a consultation.

Child Custody

False Allegations of Child Abuse in California Custody Battles

False Allegations of Child Abuse in California Custody BattlesThe California Legislature, by law, has said that the primary concern in child custody decisions is the “best interest of the children” It is the policy of the State of California that the “health, safety, and welfare of children” are of the utmost importance.

It is not surprising, then, that false allegations of child abuse may be punished in custody battles in California courts.

The law gives judges the authority to take temporary steps deemed necessary to protect a child who is the target of alleged child abuse, pending the outcome of an investigation and report to the court.

When the investigation is complete, the court must make a determination about whether the child abuse allegations were true or false. If the court finds that the allegations were true, the abusing party has an uphill battle to obtain custody of any kind. That is because California law creates a presumption that a party who meets the following criteria should not receive custody:

  • The parent committed domestic violence;
  • Against the other parent, the child, or the child’s siblings;
  • In the last five years.


But what if the allegations were false?


California law provides stiff penalties for parents who knowingly makes false child abuse allegations. First, the party may be required to pay sanctions. The sanctions can include all costs incurred by the party who had to defend the false allegations, including attorney’s fees.


Additionally, the court may limit custody or visitation of the parent who falsely made the allegations under limited circumstances:

  • The parent made a report of child sexual abuse;
  • That he knew was false when he made it;
  • With the intent to interfere with the other parent’s contact with the child; and
  • A limitation in custody is necessary to protect the child’s health, safety, and welfare.


All of this must be supported by substantial evidence, and the court must consider California’s policy of frequent and continuing contact of children with both of their parents.


Limiting custody may include reduced visitation or supervised visitation.


As the law regarding false child abuse allegations makes clear, the health and well-being of your children are important not only to you, but to the State of California. In hotly contested child support matters, you need an attorney to fight for you and your child. The attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger have extensive experience in divorce, child custody, and child support matters. Make the call today to learn how our attorneys can protect you and your children: (415) 293-8314.

Domestic Violence

Standard Child Abuse and Neglect Legal Procedures in California

ChildofDivorceWhen someone files a credible report regarding a child in danger, an investigation must be conducted by either a social worker or the police. They will decide if the child appears to be in imminent danger and whether it is necessary to remove the child from his or her home. Police or the social workers may decide that a child should be placed in temporary foster care for his or her safety if they believe the child was neglected, molested, or abused. The child may be sent to live with a relative, to the other legal parent if the parents do not live together, or to a foster home or shelter. Once a child is removed from the home, social services should conduct a deeper investigation about the home environment, the parent or other caretakers, and the child. After an investigation, social services will make recommendations regarding what action they consider to be best for the child’s safety and personal wellbeing. They may recommend filing a petition in court to have a child declared “dependent.” If you believe you have been wrongfully targeted by social services and need someone on your side to fight for you and your child, seek the help of an experienced family law attorney as soon as possible. A delay could be used against you by social services later. At the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we will aggressively pursue the best outcome possible for you in your divorce or custody proceedings.  Judy L. Burger is known for taking a firm stand in representing clients in high conflict cases in and around the San Francisco Bay and Sacramento areas.  Contact us today to learn more about how we can help. Call (415)293-8314 in the San Francisco Bay area or (916)631-1935 in the Sacramento area, or contact us online via our confidential inquiry form.