Is Domestic Violence On the Rise in California?

Is Domestic Violence On the Rise in California?

As conversations surrounding domestic violence increase, residents need to understand the current state of this serious issue in California. Domestic violence, which encompasses physical, emotional, and psychological abuse, has far-reaching consequences for individuals and communities. CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explores this topic so you can better understand the challenges we face in combating domestic violence in the Golden State.

Startling Facts On Domestic Violence

The following facts are based on the 2023 California Violence Experiences Survey (CalVEX):

  • More than half of California women experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime.
  • One in 30 women – more than 460,000 in California – experienced physical and/or sexual violence from a partner in just the past year, and those reporting these abuses in the past year faced greater health and social risks.
  • 9% of women and 31.1% of menin California experience intimate partner violence or stalking in their lifetime. 
  • In 2021, California reported over 1,300 human trafficking cases, the most reported cases of human trafficking in the United States.

“Women who experienced intimate partner violence in the past year are more likely to be contending with depression, anxiety, and suicidality, and they are also more likely to have faced recent eviction,” said Jakana Thomas, a professor of political science at the School of Global Policy and Strategy.

A 2024 report, “The Costs of Intimate Partner Violence in California,” reveals a cost of $73.7 billion to the state in health care, lost productivity and income, and criminal justice and response program spending for domestic violence cases in 2022 alone. This is about 2% of the gross domestic product for California. 

Factors Contributing to the Rise

Domestic violence is a complex issue influenced by various social, economic, and psychological factors. Some of the reasons contributing to its rise may include:

  1. Economic Stress: Economic challenges, such as unemployment or financial insecurity, can increase tensions within households, leading to conflicts that may escalate into violence.
  2. Increased Substance Abuse: Stressful situations can lead to increased alcohol or drug use, which may contribute to aggressive behavior and exacerbate existing tensions in relationships.
  3. Social Norms and Attitudes: Societal acceptance of violence as a means of conflict resolution can perpetuate cycles of abuse. Cultural attitudes towards gender roles and power dynamics in relationships can also impact the prevalence of domestic violence.
  4. Lack of Education and Resources: A lack of education about healthy relationships and available resources can keep victims stuck in abusive situations. Many may not know how to seek help or where to turn.
  5. Historical and Ongoing Trauma: Individuals who have experienced violence in their own families or communities may be more likely to either perpetrate or experience domestic violence themselves, perpetuating cycles of abuse.

Domestic Violence and the Law

The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as: “Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.”

California law specifies that domestic violence encompasses any type of abuse inflicted upon an “intimate partner,” which is broadly defined to include almost a dozen different relationships. This includes the deliberate or careless application of physical force against the individual or the act of threatening to use force against them.

The Importance of Taking Action

The issue of domestic violence is critical. Do not wonder how long you must suffer – when you or your child experience abuse or feel threatened, that is the time to act. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for immediate assistance with obtaining a restraining order. Together, we can work towards breaking the cycle of violence and creating a safer future for everyone.

 

Tips for Proving Child Abuse in a Custody Hearing

Tips for Proving Child Abuse in a Custody Hearing

In many custody cases, parents prioritize their child’s well-being above all else. However, in some situations, a child may not be safe with one of their parents, especially if there is a history of domestic abuse or child abuse or if there are concerns about the child being exposed to a potentially dangerous environment.

While it’s crucial for a parent to safeguard their child, it’s important to note that child abuse allegations are treated with the utmost seriousness by the courts and should not be made without careful consideration. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger can help you prove child abuse in your custody hearing to keep your children safe. Here are some things you should know.

Recognizing Child Abuse

The Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) as amended by the CAPTA Reauthorization Act of 2010, defines child abuse and neglect as, at minimum:

  1. “Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation;” or
  2. “An act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm.”

California law defines child abuse as:

  • Physical injury inflicted on a child by another person
  • Sexual abuse, or
  • Emotional abuse

Child abuse can take many forms, including causing physical or psychological harm. While physical abuse may leave visible marks like bruises, psychological abuse can be harder to detect. Signs of psychological abuse may include a child becoming withdrawn or losing interest in activities they used to enjoy.

Emotional abuse and neglect may be more harmful in the long term than physical or sexual abuse.

It’s crucial for parents to be aware of these signs, as children who are being abused may be too young or scared to report it themselves. You may need help from medical or mental health professionals to help detect child abuse.

Proving Child Abuse

Proving allegations of child abuse in court or your custody hearing requires hard evidence. Hearsay – repeating what someone else told you – is not admissible evidence. Hard evidence that can withstand legal challenges by the defendant’s attorney is documented proof of actual abuse.

While this sounds simple, it can become complex. Sometimes, you may only be able to document the changes reflected in a child’s behavior that may point to abuse.

Here are some recommended ways to prove child abuse in a California family court:

Official Documentation

Official documents that show physical evidence of abuse reflect possible abusive behaviors or indicate a pattern of change in behavior that can indicate abuse are admissible. These can include:

  • Medical records (exam documentation, photos, mental evaluations, etc.)
  • School reports documenting grade changes or behavior shifts
  • Police reports of any incidents involving the other parent
  • Records showing missed or denied parenting time or parenting plan violations

Witness testimony

Witnesses provide context for your allegations and may offer credible first-hand evidence of abusive behavior. They can provide:

  • Written testimony
  • Video or photographic evidence
  • Out-of-court depositions
  • Live witness testimony
  • Expert custody evaluations (mental health experts, court-appointed parenting coordinators, home study professionals, etc.)

Custody Journals

A custody journal can help illustrate your relationships with the child and the other parent. You can document:

  • Situations in which you don’t believe the other parent acted in the child’s best interests
  • Interactions with the other parent
  • Attempts to comply with existing custody agreements
  • Quality time you spend with the child
  • The child’s emotional state
  • The child’s medical appointments
  • The child’s behavior
  • The child’s own comments

Reporting Child Abuse

If a parent has concerns about their child being abused by the other parent or someone in the other parent’s household, they have the right to ask the court for an order to limit or remove the other parent’s custody rights. If the court finds evidence of abuse, it will issue either a temporary or final order with custody terms that ensure the child’s safety.

Note: You cannot simply decide to ignore existing visitation or other parenting agreements if you suspect abuse or neglect. You could be held in contempt of court.

If you suspect abuse or the potential for abuse or harm, contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger. We can help you contact the Child Protective Services Department in your county and arrange for emergency responses. Our office can also petition the court for an ex-parte order to help keep you and your child safe until a court hearing can make more permanent decisions.

 

Emergency Child Custody Issues in California

Emergency Child Custody Issues in California

Petitions for changes in child custody agreements can be filed with the court when circumstances change and new arrangements are needed. These requests are scheduled for the next available hearing on the family court’s calendar. However, an ex parte petition can be filed immediately when you encounter emergency child custody issues in California

Under California law, Family Code 3064 allows the court to temporarily grant an emergency change in custody without waiting on a full hearing under certain circumstances. This is a short-term solution to protect the safety and welfare of the child while more permanent arrangements are examined. Ex parte orders can influence any final custodial orders issued by the court.

When would such actions be necessary? CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger reviews some possible scenarios when emergency child custody issues can be handled through ex parte hearings. She can explain more and review your situation thoroughly in a confidential consultation at one of our offices.

What Justifies An Emergency Child Custody Petition?

California Family Courts typically allow at least a 15-day notice to involved parties before scheduling a hearing about child custody matters. However, when a true emergency threatens a child’s health and safety, the court can issue immediate orders to prevent harmful actions. Ex parte orders, sometimes called “emergency orders,” may be granted in select situations, including:

  • Child abuse
  • Sexual abuse
  • Neglect
  • Domestic violence
  • A parent’s physical or mental health condition
  • A parent’s arrest for drug use, drunk driving, or another serious crime
  • A sex offender in the home

Your request for an emergency child custody order must include definite evidence that such conditions exist and are a direct threat to the child. Heresy or opinions are not sufficient grounds for the court to immediately remove a child from another parent’s custody. Credible witnesses, photos, videos, text messages, or police reports are solid proof that the child is in danger and emergency orders are necessary to protect the child’s interests.

How Do I Request an Emergency Child Custody Action in CA?

​In addition to demonstrating a clear and imminent danger to the child’s welfare, you must provide several other items of information in your ex parte petition. These include the following:

  • Legal request form
  • Identity and contact information for the other parent and/or their attorneys
  • Current child custody, visitation, and support orders
  • Any previous requests or orders on this or similar matters
  • Reasons why the other parent should not be notified

Remember, you must provide sufficient evidence demonstrating the harm that could be suffered without the requested emergency custody orders. This is also a temporary solution. A formal hearing with both parents may be scheduled for a later date and other orders may be issued as a result.

It is critical that you adhere to California law in all matters relating to your child and custody matters. Emotional reactions to protect your child that violate the law or existing custody orders can complicate your case. Making decisions under stress can place you on the wrong side of the law.

Contact a California Certified Family Law Specialist to Help You Protect Your Children

Consult with CA Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger immediately if you suspect an emergency custody action is necessary. She can act quickly to file an ex parte hearing petition and the necessary paperwork while helping you gather the required evidence to support your request. As a Certified Family Law Specialist in California, she can help you follow the law and protect your child.

Ms. Burger is not intimidated by difficult or high-conflict custody matters. She firmly believes that children must be protected from abusive, inappropriate, or other dangerous behavior and actions by parents or others. The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger will not rest until your child is safe. We will also work with you to completely resolve this matter in the best interests of your child and family.

Contact one of our eight offices in California today to discuss emergency child custody issues with a Certified Family Law Specialist who is on your side.

How and When to Get an Ex Parte Order

How and When to Get an Ex Parte Order

After you file your divorce petition, it may take months to iron out all the details. In some cases, though, the person filing for divorce faces serious issues that cannot wait that long. For example, Sandy’s husband had a violent temper that caused him to lash out at their home and at her. Ben knew he was safe from his wife, Lori, but feared for their children. Finally, Maria’s husband hid their car from her, although she needed it to get to work. Fortunately, courts may provide emergency assistance for situations like these through ex parte orders.

How to Get an Ex Parte Order

The simple answer is that you file a motion with the court asking for the relief that you need as soon as possible. However, each county in California may have its own rules and procedures for obtaining an ex parte order. Failing to follow the rules may cause your motion to be denied. You may file a Temporary Emergency Orders (Ex Parte) (Form FL-305) to request certain temporary emergency court orders. While this form may be used throughout the state, you will need to check the rules for the county in which you file for additional information. Hearings often are heard within 24 hours of filing the request for an ex parte order, at which time a judge will hand down a ruling on your request for Temporary Emergency Orders.

When an Ex Parte Order Is Appropriate

Sometimes the filing spouse may need to get an issue before a judge as quickly as possible because an emergency exists. In fact, the filing party may request an ex parte action for one or more of the following reasons:
  • The spouse who filed the divorce case may be in danger.
  • A child involved in the divorce case may be in danger.
  • The filing party needs temporary use of a marital asset.
  • The filing spouse feels that his or her property might be destroyed or damaged by the responding spouse.
Talk to an attorney immediately if you feel an issue related to your divorce is an emergency.

It’s Complicated.

The attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger are experienced at all phases of divorce proceedings, including ex parte orders. Judy Burger is a California Certified Family Law Specialist, and founder of the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger. Please call our offices at 415-293-8314 to set up an appointment with one of our attorneys. We assist clients along the Northern to Central California Coast.