How Can I Prepare for Sole Custody of My Child?
Child Custody

How Can I Prepare for Sole Custody of My Child?

Are you ready to take responsibility for sole custody of your child? California family courts generally grant joint custody to both parents in a divorce. Obtaining sole custody can be a difficult and involved process, and you need significant assistance from a knowledgeable legal professional. Certified CA Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger offers some tips to prepare for sole child custody.

What Is Sole Custody?

Sole custody, also known as full custody, is a legal arrangement in which one parent or guardian has the exclusive right and responsibility to make decisions about the upbringing of the child and has the primary physical custody of the child. This means that the child lives with one parent most of the time. The other parent may have visitation rights or parenting time, but they do not have the legal authority to make decisions about the child’s upbringing. In sole custody cases, one parent has the ultimate authority and responsibility for the child’s well-being.

Steps to Prepare for Sole Custody of Your Child in CA

Custody orders are granted by the family court. Until you have a court order, both parents have the same rights. This means that both of you can make decisions about your children. No parent has any more rights to have the children in their care than the other.  

Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can help you with the following steps to file for sole custody of your child in California.

Create a Parenting Plan

When spouses with children separate, they must create a parenting plan to present to the court. Many couples can work out an equitable plan that the court can simply approve. A parenting plan reflecting a sole custody arrangement will likely meet with disapproval by the other parent. 

When domestic violence has occurred, the law allows the court to grant sole custody in order to protect the children and abused spouse. There is specific paperwork for requesting sole custody in domestic violence cases.

Gather The Evidence to Support Sole Child Custody

A family court judge will need convincing evidence to grant one parent sole custody. This evidence must basically prove the other parent is unfit to care for the child. However, it must also prove that you are fit and able to care for the child. The court will consider:

  • Domestic violence history or charges
  • Police reports
  • Medical evidence
  • Witness statements
  • Correspondence
  • Employment history
  • Housing situation
  • Emotional and physical health of the parent
  • Age and health of the child
  • Emotional ties between the parents and the child
  • The child’s ties to the community, family, school, etc.

The primary consideration is always the child’s best interests.

File a Custody Petition with the Court

Your attorney will help you collect the necessary evidence and complete other required paperwork to file a sole custody petition with the court. Completing forms correctly and including all pertinent information is critical. Documentation you may need can include:

  • Parenting plan
  • Request for orders on child custody and visitation
  • Petition to establish a parental relationship
  • Petition for custody visitation
  • Petition for dissolution
  • Official statement about domestic violence (Form MC-030)

CA Custody Attorney Judy Burger can review your case, determine the specific documents you need, and help you complete them correctly.

Attend a Child Custody Court Hearing

After filing for custody, you must attend a child custody court hearing. During the hearing, the judge will review your parenting plan and custody petition and listen to arguments from both sides. The judge will then decide on the custody arrangement that is in the child’s best interest.

Attorney Judy Burger specializes in family law in California and can assist you in securing the best custody and support arrangements for your case. She can help you understand the custody hearing process, gather evidence, prepare for testimony, anticipate challenges during the hearing, develop a parenting plan, and advocate for your interests.

Get Help with Child Custody in California

If you have a child custody case in California, the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger will guide you through the process and fight for your rights. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and get the support you need. 

Spousal Support and Taxes
California Divorce, Marriage, Mediation, Property Division, Spousal Support

Spousal Support and Taxes

Filing for a divorce can complicate your tax situation, especially regarding spousal support. Is alimony (spousal support) taxable? Yes and no. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explains more about how spousal support affects your federal income taxes.

What Is Alimony?

The Internal Revenue Service defines alimony, or spousal support, (also called separate maintenance) as, “Amounts paid to a spouse or a former spouse under a divorce or separation instrument (including a divorce decree, a separate maintenance decree, or a written separation agreement) …”

It further specifies what qualifies as spousal support:

“A payment is alimony or separate maintenance if all the following requirements are met:

  • The spouses don’t file a joint return with each other;
  • The payment is in cash (including checks or money orders);
  • The payment is to or for a spouse or a former spouse made under a divorce or separation instrument;
  • The spouses aren’t members of the same household when the payment is made (This requirement applies only if the spouses are legally separated under a decree of divorce or of separate maintenance.);
  • There’s no liability to make the payment (in cash or property) after the death of the recipient spouse;
  • The payment isn’t treated as child support or a property settlement; and
  • The divorce or separation agreement does not designate the payment as not includable in gross income of the payee spouse and not allowable as a deduction to the payer spouse.”

Alimony and child support are not the same. Child support is never deductible and isn’t considered income.

Is Spousal Support Taxable?

The Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017 changed alimony taxation rules. Here is the law as it stands now (June 4, 2024):

  1. Spousal support or separate maintenance payments made under a divorce or separation agreement executed before 2019 are deductible by the payer spouse and included in the recipient spouse’s income.
  2. Spousal support or separate maintenance payments made under a divorce or separation agreement dated on or after January 1, 2019, are NOT deductible by the payer spouse and NOT included in the recipient spouse’s income.

Some support included in a divorce or separation agreement is not considered spousal support under federal tax guidelines. Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can examine your divorce or separation agreement and determine what is and is not taxable/tax deductible for the current tax year. Many aspects of the TCJA expire in 2025 unless re-enacted by Congress.

Legal Help with Child & Spousal Support

California takes child and spousal support agreements seriously. Child support is never deductible and isn’t considered income. If a divorce or separation instrument provides alimony and child support, and the payer spouse pays less than what is required, the payments apply to child support first. Only the remaining amount is considered alimony. However, Failure to meet court-ordered support agreements is considered contempt of court and can bring serious punishments.

Penalties for contempt of family court can include imprisonment, community service, fines, and/or payment of outstanding debt for financial obligations. California law dictates that sentencing may result in fines of up to $1,000 per act of contempt and/or as many as five days in jail. In cases such as child support or spousal support order violations, fines and jail time will accumulate after months of failure to pay.

Support violations carry a three-year statute of limitations. Any action alleging violations of support orders must be made within three years after the first missed payment.

If you have questions about child or spousal support or need help getting what you deserve, contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger. We have eight conveniently located offices across California to serve you.

How Are Trusts Handled in a Divorce Property Division?
California Divorce, Mediation, Property Division, Property Division

How Are Trusts Handled in a Divorce Property Division?

Divorces routinely involve property division questions. Some may be simple and straightforward, but determining marital and separate assets is often complicated. One common question is how trusts are handled in a divorce property division. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explains more about trusts and property divisions in California.

What Is a Trust?

“A trust is a legal entity with separate and distinct rights, similar to a person or corporation. In a trust, a party known as a trustor gives another party, the trustee, the right to hold title to and manage property or assets for the benefit of a third party, the beneficiary.”

A trust is a useful tool for managing and distributing a person’s finances both while they are alive and after their passing. It can help an estate avoid taxes and the probate process, protect assets from creditors and specify how inheritance should be handled for beneficiaries.

Married couples may establish one or more trusts for various reasons:

  • Tax planning
  • Medicaid planning
  • Retirement or inheritance planning
  • Providing for a special needs child or family member
  • Charitable giving
  • Securing business assets

Different types of trust have varying rules that govern how they are used, protected, and divided in a divorce property division.

Trusts and Property Division

Under California law, trusts are separate property of the named beneficiary spouse. Trust assets are then not considered “community property” and, therefore, are not subject to equitable distribution. Moreover, any income and principal paid from a separate property trust to a beneficiary spouse remains their separate property as long as it is not comingled with marital funds.

For example, a trust that is funded by a third party or source (not the beneficiary) through a gift or bequest and is governed by a separate trustee is the sole property of the beneficiary and not considered community property.

  • A trust created with assets before the marriage
  • A trust given to one spouse by a gift or inheritance

Irrevocable trusts are also better protected during a divorce property division. The beneficiary spouse is not in control of the assets, and they are not considered community property.

Depending on the type of trust, other special circumstances may apply. It is best to discuss your situation with a seasoned California Property Division Attorney like Judy Burger to ensure you fully understand your rights and options.

When Is a Trust Considered Community Property?

When trust funds are placed into a joint account, used to purchase a marital asset, or used for regular marital expenses, these funds are no longer considered separate property and become community property.

An exception exists if separate property contributions are used for a down payment on or for improvements to an asset; they will retain their separate property status as long as documents trace that contribution. Any funds remaining in the trust or a separate account will continue to be considered the separate property of the beneficiary spouse.

California Property Division Attorney

The rules governing California property divisions and trusts are complex, so you need an experienced CA Property Division Attorney to help you understand them and how they apply to you. Certified CA Family Law Specialist Judy Burger can examine the assets in trusts and determine how they fit into a divorce property division. Her role is critical to ensure an equitable legal division and protect your assets and rights.

If you are considering a divorce in California and have assets in a trust, contact The Law Office of Judy L. Burger as soon as possible. We have eight convenient offices throughout the Golden State to give you the personal attention you deserve. 

Is My Retirement at Risk in a CA Divorce Property Division?
California Divorce, Property Division

Is My Retirement at Risk in a CA Divorce Property Division?

People are living and enjoying the fruits of their labor longer than ever before. Planning and investing for retirement are some of the wisest decisions married couples can make. But what happens to your retirement assets in the event of a divorce? Handling retirement funds in a divorce is complex, and without the right help, you could make serious mistakes and lose most of your assets. CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger shares what you need to understand about retirement and a divorce property division.

Sharing Pensions and Retirement Plans

All kinds of pensions and retirement plans exist. They all share a common factor: a person and/or an employer pays into the account, which accumulates with interest over time to provide a living after retiring from active employment. Your spouse may also pay into the same pension or retirement plan, or have one of their own.

Some of the most common plans in California include:

  • Employee benefit plans
  • Defined Benefit Plans
  • Defined Contributions Plans
  • 401(k)s
  • CalPERS
  • LACERA
  • LACERS
  • CA State Teachers’ Retirement System
  • LA City Employees’ Retirement System
  • Federal Employees’ Retirement System
  • Military pensions
  • 457 plans
  • 403b plans
  • 401a plans

Retirement and Community Property

California is a community property state, meaning any assets or debts obtained from the date of marriage to the date of separation, except for gifts or inheritances to the individual, are considered to be community property and are divided equally between the parties in a divorce. 

This means that any retirement accounts that received marital funds are considered community property and are subject to the 50/50 asset division. Even if only one spouse contributed to the pension or retirement plan, depending on when the payments were made, both spouses may have a right to the money in the plan.

California law may allow interest earned on pre-marital contributions to be considered separate property and not subject to division with the other spouse. Therefore, you may be able to claim a retirement account opened before your marriage as separate property.

Protecting Your Rights and Assets

Dividing a pension or retirement plan between spouses in a divorce property division requires a special order called a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) or a Domestic Relations Order (DRO). QDROs are utilized for private retirement plans, while DROs are used for state and federal public retirement plans. This legal order specifies how much each spouse receives. Unless there are separate agreements that apply, the funds qualify as community property and will be divided equally.

A QDRO/DRO takes time to prepare, file, receive a court signature, and be served on the retirement account holder. Before this order becomes binding, a spouse participating in the plan could withdraw some or all of the funds without notifying the other spouse. You may be able to contest this action, but that will take time and money.

Also, without a QDRO/DRO in place before the divorce is granted, someone else may inherit the retirement or pension assets in the event of a death because you are no longer the rightful heir.

Get Seasoned Help for Your Divorce Property Division

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger helps Californians negotiate the rocks and shoals of divorce and its many details. Among the most complex is dividing marital property—especially pensions and retirement accounts. Judy Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist with notable experience in property divisions who can help you ensure a fair and equitable distribution of assets in your divorce.

Don’t risk everything you’ve worked for – contact us right away for guidance and representation in your California divorce. We have eight locations throughout North, Central, and Southern California to serve you.

 

Can a California Restraining Order Keep Me Safe?
California Divorce, Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Legal Separation, Marriage, Mediation, Property Division, Restraining Order, Restraining Order, Termination of Parental Rights

Can a California Restraining Order Keep Me Safe?

A California restraining order “(also called a ‘protective order’) is a court order that can protect someone from being physically or sexually abused, threatened, stalked, or harassed.” But can a restraining order keep you safe? Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explains the basic provisions of California restraining orders and how they work.

Types of Restraining Orders

Restraining orders in California can include prohibitions or guidelines for:

  1. Personal Conduct
  2. Distance Exclusions (Stay-Away Orders)
  3. Moving Out (Residence Exclusion Orders)

These orders come in various types:

The subject of the restraining order has restrictions that govern their:

  • Movements
  • Freedoms
  • Living arrangements
  • Custody and visitation rights
  • Immigration and naturalization status or privileges

Restraining orders are designed to keep parties separate and govern the actions of one party to minimize or eliminate the risk of harassment, intimidation, and violence.

When Should I File for a Restraining Order?

Many California residents struggle with the question of when it is appropriate or necessary to file for a restraining order with the court. They ask, “How far is too far?” or “How much should I endure?” before a restraining order is warranted. However, if you are asking that question, it may already be time to seek legal protections.

If you ask, “How far is too far?” or “How much should I endure?” before a restraining order is warranted, it is likely time to seek legal protection.

Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for assistance with obtaining a California restraining order or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 for immediate help.

If the restrained person violates the restraining order, they may be subject to imprisonment, a fine, or both.

Be Proactive About Your Safety

A legal protection order is a strong defense, but it is only one aspect of protection. You should be proactive about your own safety and the safety of your child(ren). Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can discuss specific provisions with you, but we recommend taking the following actions:

  • Being aware of your surroundings at all times
  • Keeping doors and windows locked at all times
  • Avoiding places or areas where the risk of confrontation is high
  • Do not share your residence information, plans, or whereabouts on social media or with anyone
  • Create an emergency plan in case you need to leave your home or another location
  • Use a third party for any necessary communications with the restraining order subject
  • Immediately report all violations of the restraining order’s provisions

Certified CA Family Law Specialist Judy Burger can walk with you through the difficult circumstances that prompt filing for a domestic violence restraining order in California and help you keep yourself and your children safe. Contact one of our eight offices across the state for more information.

Get Help Filing for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger can help you file a petition to the court for various restraining orders. The petition outlines the details of the threats or abuse prompting the order request and includes dates, locations, and all relevant facts. We will also help you collect evidence like videos, images, social media posts, damaged property, physical evidence on your body, medical reports, witness statements, and more. Our team will also help you determine the type of restraining order you need and what you need it to do. 

Tips for Proving Child Abuse in a Custody Hearing
California Divorce, Child Custody, Domestic Violence

Tips for Proving Child Abuse in a Custody Hearing

In many custody cases, parents prioritize their child’s well-being above all else. However, in some situations, a child may not be safe with one of their parents, especially if there is a history of domestic abuse or child abuse or if there are concerns about the child being exposed to a potentially dangerous environment.

While it’s crucial for a parent to safeguard their child, it’s important to note that child abuse allegations are treated with the utmost seriousness by the courts and should not be made without careful consideration. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger can help you prove child abuse in your custody hearing to keep your children safe. Here are some things you should know.

Recognizing Child Abuse

The Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) as amended by the CAPTA Reauthorization Act of 2010, defines child abuse and neglect as, at minimum:

  1. “Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse or exploitation;” or
  2. “An act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm.”

California law defines child abuse as:

  • Physical injury inflicted on a child by another person
  • Sexual abuse, or
  • Emotional abuse

Child abuse can take many forms, including causing physical or psychological harm. While physical abuse may leave visible marks like bruises, psychological abuse can be harder to detect. Signs of psychological abuse may include a child becoming withdrawn or losing interest in activities they used to enjoy.

Emotional abuse and neglect may be more harmful in the long term than physical or sexual abuse.

It’s crucial for parents to be aware of these signs, as children who are being abused may be too young or scared to report it themselves. You may need help from medical or mental health professionals to help detect child abuse.

Proving Child Abuse

Proving allegations of child abuse in court or your custody hearing requires hard evidence. Hearsay – repeating what someone else told you – is not admissible evidence. Hard evidence that can withstand legal challenges by the defendant’s attorney is documented proof of actual abuse.

While this sounds simple, it can become complex. Sometimes, you may only be able to document the changes reflected in a child’s behavior that may point to abuse.

Here are some recommended ways to prove child abuse in a California family court:

Official Documentation

Official documents that show physical evidence of abuse reflect possible abusive behaviors or indicate a pattern of change in behavior that can indicate abuse are admissible. These can include:

  • Medical records (exam documentation, photos, mental evaluations, etc.)
  • School reports documenting grade changes or behavior shifts
  • Police reports of any incidents involving the other parent
  • Records showing missed or denied parenting time or parenting plan violations

Witness testimony

Witnesses provide context for your allegations and may offer credible first-hand evidence of abusive behavior. They can provide:

  • Written testimony
  • Video or photographic evidence
  • Out-of-court depositions
  • Live witness testimony
  • Expert custody evaluations (mental health experts, court-appointed parenting coordinators, home study professionals, etc.)

Custody Journals

A custody journal can help illustrate your relationships with the child and the other parent. You can document:

  • Situations in which you don’t believe the other parent acted in the child’s best interests
  • Interactions with the other parent
  • Attempts to comply with existing custody agreements
  • Quality time you spend with the child
  • The child’s emotional state
  • The child’s medical appointments
  • The child’s behavior
  • The child’s own comments

Reporting Child Abuse

If a parent has concerns about their child being abused by the other parent or someone in the other parent’s household, they have the right to ask the court for an order to limit or remove the other parent’s custody rights. If the court finds evidence of abuse, it will issue either a temporary or final order with custody terms that ensure the child’s safety.

Note: You cannot simply decide to ignore existing visitation or other parenting agreements if you suspect abuse or neglect. You could be held in contempt of court.

If you suspect abuse or the potential for abuse or harm, contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger. We can help you contact the Child Protective Services Department in your county and arrange for emergency responses. Our office can also petition the court for an ex-parte order to help keep you and your child safe until a court hearing can make more permanent decisions.

 

Top 10 FAQs About California Military Divorce
California Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Property Division, Visitation

Top 10 FAQs About California Military Divorce

Serving in the armed forces can place an incredible strain on a marriage. In fact, the current divorce rate among military couples is around 4.8%, compared to about 2.5% in the general population. Military divorce is essentially the same as a civilian divorce, except some federal laws will apply. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger shares the top ten frequently asked questions she often fields about California military divorce.

#1. Do I Need a Military Lawyer (JAG) for a Military Divorce?

While most military posts have legal assistance attorneys from the Judge Advocate General’s Corps available for advice, they do not handle divorces. You need a family law/divorce attorney in your state to handle your military divorce. To file for divorce in California, one of the spouses must be a California resident for at least six months and have lived in the filing county for at least three months.

#2. Will the Military Serve Divorce Papers to My Spouse?

The military services may help you locate your spouse, especially if they are on an overseas deployment, but they are not required to serve divorce papers for you. A California divorce lawyer can help you serve divorce papers.

#3. Can I Get a Default Judgement for a Military Divorce in California?

While default judgments in many civil law cases are permissible, the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) prevents this in military divorces. The court may permit up to a 90-day delay to allow active-duty service members to respond to a divorce petition.

#4. Does Child Custody Automatically Go to the Non-Military Spouse in a Military Divorce?

This is a popular misconception that is false. California courts do not discriminate against active-duty military parents when deciding child custody issues. The court will consider all relevant factors and decide according to the child’s best interests.

#5. Are Military Service Members Required to Pay Child Support?

A California family law court may order child support from either spouse, regardless of if they are military or not. However, a service member’s child support obligation cannot exceed 60% of their disposable income. Spousal and child support is taken seriously in the military, as is paying any debt. Service members who fail to meet their financial obligations may be subject to court martial or other disciplinary actions.

#6. How Is Property Divided in a Military Divorce?

California’s “community property” laws apply when dividing property in a military divorce. However, some federal provisions apply to benefits like military pensions. CA Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can explain more about military divorce property divisions in a confidential consultation.

#7. Can I Still Get Military Benefits After a Divorce?

Asset divisions in a military divorce are often governed by the “20/20/20 Rule.” In order to receive military benefits after divorcing a service member:

  • You must have been married for at least 20 years.
  • Your ex-spouse must have served in the military for at least 20 years.
  • Your 20 years of marriage must overlap with 20 years of your ex-spouse’s military service.

This only applies as long as you do not remarry. There are variations to this rule, so consult with a Military Divorce Lawyer like Judy Burger for the most up-to-date information.

#8. Will the Military Pay to Move a Spouse Back to the United States After a Divorce?

In the event of a divorce occurring overseas, the military may cover the moving expenses of the nonmilitary spouse. Typically, other moving expenses are subject to negotiation and are determined as part of the final divorce agreement.

#9: I’m Originally from Another State. Can I Get a Military Divorce in CA?

Yes. If you and your military spouse are stationed in California and you have established residency here for at least six months, you can file for a divorce in California.

#10. Where Do I Start a Military Divorce in California?

Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for more information about Military Divorce in California. We have eight offices throughout the state, and several are convenient to major military bases. Get the experienced help and guidance you need in a military divorce. Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation near you.

Do You and Your Divorcing Spouse Own a Business?
California Divorce, Property Division, Property Division

Do You and Your Divorcing Spouse Own a Business?

Dividing assets in a California divorce can be challenging, especially when the spouses jointly own a business. What will happen to your business in the divorce? A variety of factors come into play with business valuations in a California divorce property division. Do you and your divorcing spouse own a business? California Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger reviews some common challenges.

Jointly-Owned Businesses Are Community Property in California

In the state of California, the concept of community property applies in divorce or legal separation cases. This means that all assets and property acquired by the couple during the marriage are divided equally. Any property or debts obtained while the marriage is intact are considered community property, while separate property includes assets owned by one spouse before the marriage or gifts given only to one spouse.

Separate property is not subject to division in a divorce case, as the courts do not have the authority to distribute one party’s separate property to the other.

In divorce cases, a business owned jointly by the spouses is classified as an asset and is subject to division between the parties. Valuing the business can be difficult as each spouse may have different opinions about its worth, and some of these opinions may be challenging to quantify objectively. As a result, disputes and conflicts frequently arise in these situations.

Court Considerations When Dividing a Jointly-Owned Business in a Divorce

Courts weigh many factors when dividing a business. Attorney Judy L. Burger works with various real estate, business, and financial professionals to establish the best valuation of your business to facilitate a fair and equitable division of assets. However, there are many legal and intangible factors that come into play when seeking the most equitable division of a business and its assets. Here are some of the critical factors the court will weigh in its decision:

  • Did the business exist before the marriage?
  • Was your spouse formally added to the business’ ownership documentation?
  • What is the business’ legal structure (sole proprietorship, LLC, partnership, S-corporation, etc.)?
  • Is there a formal partnership agreement including the spouse?
  • Has the business been operated under a sole proprietorship, although both spouses worked in the business?
  • Are other partners involved besides the divorcing spouses?
  • What is the percentage owned by each partner?
  • How involved was each spouse in running the business?
  • What value does each spouse bring to the business?
  • Did one spouse borrow from family funds to buy something for the business?
  • Can one partner buy out the other(s)?
  • How will the remaining family assets and liabilities be divided?
  • How will each spouse earn a living outside of the business?

What If I Owned the Business Before the Marriage?

If you started your business before getting married and did add their name to business documents or legally make them a co-owner, the business may be considered separate property in a divorce. This could protect the business from being divided as community property.

However, you may still have to share the business’ appreciation that occurred during the marriage. During your marriage, the increase in value of the business and the income generated may be viewed as community property.

Also, your spouse’s contributions to the business during your marriage will be considered. This may involve actively working for the business or supporting the household while you focus on work.

Get Help with Business Valuations and Property Division in a CA Divorce

Determining the value of a business in a divorce case is a complex task that requires specialized skills and knowledge. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger collaborates with seasoned valuation experts to guarantee an equitable and precise assessment of your business. She is dedicated to upholding fairness and protecting your rights throughout the divorce and property division process.

Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for more information and to schedule a consultation.

 

Common Legal Separation Myths
California Divorce, Legal Separation

Common Legal Separation Myths

Family law is complex, and misunderstandings abound. Perhaps nothing is more misunderstood than legal separation. Disagreements can arise and cause both parties to give each other some space; this is not, however, a legal separation. This and many other myths frequently cause confusion and serious mistakes.

Attorney Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist in California who can help you understand divorce, separation, and related issues more. She shares the truth about a few common legal separation myths so couples can make wiser decisions for their future.

Myth #1: Legal Separation Means Physical Separation

“We’re married but haven’t lived together for over two years; I guess you could say we’re separated.” We hear this often in our law offices, and it highlights the popular confusion over “separation.” Fortunately, the California legislature cleared up this ambiguity in 2017. Family Code 70 states the following:

(a) “Date of separation” means the date that a complete and final break in the marital relationship has occurred, as evidenced by both of the following:

  • The spouse has expressed to the other spouse his or her intent to end the marriage.
  • The conduct of the spouse is consistent with his or her intent to end the marriage.

(b) In determining the date of separation, the court shall take into consideration all relevant evidence.

(c) It is the intent of the Legislature in enacting this section to abrogate the decisions in In re Marriage of Davis (2015) 61 Cal.4th 846 and In re Marriage of Norviel (2002) 102 Cal.App.4th 1152.

According to this interpretation, a husband and wife may still live in the same home and be legally separated. A legal separation judgment divides assets and other agreements but does not dissolve the marriage. A physical separation simply means the husband and wife no longer reside together. It does not automatically become a “legal separation.”

Myth #2: I Can File for Legal Separation Independent of My Spouse

This myth is born of independence and alleges that a husband or wife may file for legal separation without the consent of the other. In most cases, this is false.

California Family Code Division 6: Nullity, Dissolution, and Legal Separation; Chapter 4: General Procedural Provisions; Section 2345 states, “The court may not render a judgment of the legal separation of the parties without the consent of both parties unless one party has not made a general appearance and the petition is one for legal separation.”

Essentially, this means that both spouses must agree to the court’s judgement of legal separation. In rare cases, a petitioner may ask for legal separation, but the other spouse never responds. The petitioner may then file for a default judgment of legal separation from the court.

Myth #3: Spouses Choose Legal Separation Because They Don’t Believe in Divorce

Legal separation or divorce are intensely personal choices that are made for numerous reasons. Some couples eschew divorce over moral or religious beliefs, but far more choose legal separation for other reasons. These can include:

  • Tax benefits
  • Insurance or retirement benefits
  • Military spouse benefits
  • Less emotional trauma for the family

Discuss with your CA Family Law Attorney whether divorce or legal separation is best for your circumstances.

Seasoned Help with Divorce and Legal Separation

California Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger has walked with many couples through legal separation or divorce. She can explain how each works and how the particulars apply to your unique situation, including custody arrangements, property divisions, and more. You have rights and options under the law. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger in California to get the facts and sound advice on how to proceed.

 

What Qualifies as Domestic Violence in California?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order

What Qualifies as Domestic Violence in California?

What acts qualify as Domestic Violence under California Law? Suffering physical, psychological, or emotional abuse is never OK. Get the facts about Domestic Violence and when you should request a domestic violence restraining order to protect you and your family. California Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger can help you understand when you should petition the court for a restraining order.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Defining Domestic Violence

The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as: “Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.”

Domestic violence, according to California law, encompasses any type of abuse inflicted upon an “intimate partner.” This includes the deliberate or careless application of physical force against the individual or the act of threatening to use force against them.

The California Penal Code defines an “intimate partner” in the broadest possible way, so that can include:

  • Your spouse
  • Your former spouse
  • Your domestic partner
  • Your former domestic partner
  • A person with whom you’ve had a child
  • A current live-in romantic partner
  • A former live-in romantic partner
  • Someone you date
  • A person you dated previously

Other persons may also be victims of domestic violence under CA law:

  • Children
  • Your brother/half-brother/step-brother
  • Your sister/half-sister/step-sister
  • Parents
  • Grandparents
  • Your niece
  • Your nephew
  • Your uncle
  • Your aunt
  • Anyone related to you within the second degree by blood or marriage

Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist who can be a strong and aggressive advocate in highly conflicted domestic matters when you need the law on your side. Contact us for immediate help.

Common Acts of Domestic Violence

Charges of domestic violence vary under California law, depending on the severity of the crime and the surrounding circumstances. Many violent acts are specifically defined under the Penal Code. Some of the most common include:

  • Corporal Injury Upon a Spouse or Cohabitant – this counts even for slight injuries.
  • Child Abuse – is defined as inflicting “cruel or inhuman corporal punishment or an injury resulting in a traumatic condition” upon a child. 
  • Domestic Battery – using force or inflicting harm on an intimate partner.
  • Child Endangerment – willfully allowing a child in your care to be harmed or allowing her or his safety to be endangered, including actions or neglect.
  • Child Neglect – this is willfully neglecting to provide the basic necessities for your minor children.
  • Stalking – harassing or threatening so as to cause fear for your or your family’s safety.
  • Criminal Threats – threatening anyone with serious harm.
  • Aggravated Trespass – entering a home or workplace to carry out a threat within thirty days of making it.
  • Posting Harmful Information on the Internet (“Cyberstalking”) – making harmful information about someone else available by posting or emailing the material.
  • “Revenge Porn” – intentional distribution of sexual images of another person with the intent to cause them emotional distress.

Domestic Violence Penalties In California

In California, most domestic violence offenses are known as “wobbler” offenses, which means they can be charged as either misdemeanors or felonies, depending on the specifics of the case. Factors such as prior criminal record and the extent of the victim’s injuries are considered when determining whether to pursue misdemeanor or felony charges for an act of domestic violence.

Penalties range from probation with certain freedoms to fines, county jail, or state prison time. Domestic violence misdemeanor convictions also impose a ten-year ban on owning or possessing firearms. Persons convicted of felony domestic violence charges fall under the “Felon In Possession of a Firearm” law and are under a lifetime ban from owning firearms.

Some federal domestic violence misdemeanors also impart a lifetime firearm ownership ban.

Get Help with Domestic Violence Crimes In California

You should never hesitate to act when you believe you or your child are victims of domestic violence. Do not wonder how long you must suffer – when you or your child experience abuse or feel threatened, that is the time to act. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for immediate assistance with obtaining a restraining order.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.