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What Should I Know Before Requesting an Ex Parte Hearing?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

What Should I Know Before Requesting an Ex Parte Hearing?

Family law emergencies don’t always wait for regularly scheduled court dates. When urgent situations threaten your safety, your children’s well-being, or your financial security, California law provides a mechanism for immediate court intervention: the ex parte hearing. The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, led by Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger, has extensive experience handling ex parte matters and can provide swift, strategic representation for urgent situations.

Understanding Ex Parte Hearings in California

An ex parte hearing is an emergency court proceeding requested on shortened notice—sometimes with little or no advance notice to the other party. The term “ex parte” means “from one party,” indicating that these hearings can proceed even if the other side hasn’t had the typical amount of time to prepare a response.

Unlike regular motions that require 16 court days’ notice, ex parte applications can be heard within days or even hours of filing. California courts reserve ex parte hearings for genuine emergencies where waiting for a regular hearing would cause immediate harm or irreparable injury. Judges scrutinize ex parte requests carefully because they deviate from the normal process that gives both parties adequate time to prepare.

Ex parte hearings are not the appropriate venue for routine disputes or matters that have existed for weeks or months without creating immediate danger. Courts expect parties to use regular motion procedures unless circumstances truly qualify as emergencies requiring immediate judicial intervention.

When Ex Parte Relief Is Appropriate

California family courts grant ex parte hearings in specific urgent circumstances, including:

  • Immediate Safety Concerns: When domestic violence, child abuse, threats of harm, or kidnapping risks exist, ex parte hearings allow victims to obtain immediate protective orders, modify custody arrangements, or secure other safety measures without delay. These situations represent the clearest justification for emergency relief.
  • Child Custody Emergencies: Beyond safety threats, ex parte custody relief may be appropriate when a parent violates existing custody orders by refusing to return a child, when a parent plans to leave the jurisdiction with the child without permission, or when a child faces immediate risk of harm in their current placement.
  • Financial Emergencies: Ex parte financial relief addresses situations like a spouse draining bank accounts, hiding or destroying marital assets, failing to pay court-ordered support, causing imminent eviction or utility shutoff, or refusing to maintain required insurance coverage. The key is demonstrating immediate, irreparable financial harm.
  • Property Protection: When a spouse threatens to sell, transfer, or destroy significant marital property, ex parte orders can prevent these actions until a regular hearing addresses property division properly.

Information and Documentation You Need

Successfully obtaining ex parte relief requires thorough preparation and compelling evidence. Courts won’t grant emergency orders based on general allegations or unsubstantiated claims. You should gather:

Detailed Declaration Under Penalty of Perjury

Your declaration must clearly explain what emergency exists, why you couldn’t address it through regular motion procedures, when you learned of the emergency, what immediate harm will occur without court intervention, and what specific relief you’re requesting. Include specific dates, times, locations, and factual details that demonstrate the urgency.

Supporting Evidence

Gather all available evidence supporting your emergency claim: police reports, medical records, photographs of injuries or property damage, threatening text messages or emails, bank statements showing asset dissipation, witness declarations, and documentation of violated court orders. The more concrete evidence you provide, the stronger your case.

Notice Requirements Documentation

California law requires you to notify the other party of your ex parte request unless doing so would create danger or defeat the emergency relief’s purpose. You must document your efforts to provide notice, including when and how you notified the other party or explain why notice wasn’t possible. Failure to properly handle notice requirements can result in the denial of your request.

Proposed Orders

Prepare clear, specific proposed orders stating exactly what you want the court to order. Vague requests reduce your chances of success. Your proposed orders should be narrowly tailored to address the specific emergency.

Financial Information

For financial emergencies or requests involving support or attorney fees, provide current income and expense declarations, account statements, and documentation of the financial crisis.

Existing Court Orders

Bring copies of all relevant existing court orders, especially if your ex parte request involves alleged violations of those orders.

How the Ex Parte Process Works in California

The ex parte process moves quickly but requires strict compliance with procedural rules. Generally, you must notify the court and the other party by 10:00 a.m. on the court day before your requested hearing date. Some courts have specific ex parte departments or calendars, while others hear ex parte matters at designated times.

At the hearing, you’ll have limited time to present your case—often just minutes. The judge will review your written materials, hear a brief oral argument, and may ask questions. If the other party appears, they’ll have an opportunity to respond. The judge will then decide whether to grant temporary emergency orders.

Ex parte orders are temporary. If the court grants your request, it will typically schedule a follow-up hearing—called an Order to Show Cause hearing—within a few weeks, where both parties can fully argue the issues. The ex parte orders remain in effect until that hearing unless modified.

How Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger Can Help

Ex parte proceedings are high-stakes, fast-paced legal matters requiring sophisticated knowledge of family law and courtroom experience. Judy L. Burger’s certification as a Family Law Specialist by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization demonstrates her exceptional expertise in handling complex, urgent family law matters.

This certification, earned by fewer than 10% of California family law attorneys, requires extensive experience, passing a rigorous examination, ongoing education, and peer recognition. When facing a family law emergency, working with a Certified Specialist provides significant advantages.

Judy Burger and her team understand what constitutes a true emergency warranting ex parte relief versus situations better addressed through regular procedures. She knows how to craft compelling declarations that clearly articulate the emergency, marshal persuasive evidence, comply with technical notice and procedural requirements, and present effective oral arguments in the limited time available.

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger has successfully obtained ex parte orders protecting clients from domestic violence, preventing child abduction, stopping asset dissipation, and addressing other urgent matters throughout California. Judy’s experience includes representing clients at ex parte hearings and defending against improper ex parte requests.

Beyond obtaining immediate relief, Judy provides strategic guidance for the follow-up proceedings. Ex parte orders are just the first step; you need representation for the subsequent hearings where the court will determine whether to extend, modify, or terminate the emergency orders.

Frequently Asked Questions About Ex Parte Hearings

What happens if my ex parte request is denied?

If the court denies your ex parte request, you can still file a regular motion or Request for Order addressing the same issues through normal procedures. The denial doesn’t prevent you from seeking relief; it simply means the court didn’t find sufficient emergency circumstances to justify shortened notice. Your attorney can help you understand why the request was denied and develop an alternative strategy.

Can I request an ex parte hearing without an attorney?

While you can represent yourself in ex parte proceedings, doing so is risky. Ex parte hearings involve complex procedures, strict deadlines, and high stakes. Mistakes in paperwork, notice, or presentation can result in the denial of your request, potentially leaving you without protection in an emergency. The compressed timeline makes it especially difficult for self-represented parties to prepare effective requests.

How much does an ex parte hearing cost?

Costs vary based on case complexity and attorney fees, but ex parte matters typically require fewer attorney hours than regular motions due to the shortened timeline. Some ex parte requests include asking the court to order the other party to pay your attorney fees, especially in financial emergency situations.

What if the other party violates the ex parte order?

Violating court orders can result in contempt of court findings, fines, jail time, and other sanctions. If the other party violates an ex parte order, document the violations thoroughly and immediately inform your attorney. You may need to file an Order to Show Cause regarding contempt or request additional enforcement measures.

Can an ex parte order be overturned?

Yes. At the follow-up Order to Show Cause hearing, the responding party can present their full case, and the court may modify or terminate the ex parte orders based on complete information from both sides. This is why ex parte orders are temporary—they’re based on limited information presented in an emergency context. The subsequent hearing provides full due process for both parties.

Get Immediate Help for Your Family Law Emergency

When you’re facing a genuine family law emergency requiring immediate court intervention, time is critical. The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger provides experienced, strategic representation for ex parte matters throughout California.

Contact Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger immediately if you need emergency court relief. Our team understands the urgency of these situations and can quickly assess whether ex parte relief is appropriate, prepare compelling documentation, and provide effective representation at your emergency hearing.

Call us now or visit our website—when emergencies arise, every moment counts, and expert legal guidance can make all the difference in protecting you and your family.

Does Domestic Violence Increase During the Holidays?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

Does Domestic Violence Increase During the Holidays?

The answer is a troubling yes. While the holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy, family togetherness, and celebration, for many individuals living with domestic violence, it represents a period of heightened danger and fear. Understanding this reality is critical for protecting vulnerable family members and knowing when and how to seek help.

The Statistics Tell a Sobering Story

Recent data confirms what domestic violence advocates have long observed: domestic violence spikes every year during the holidays. The numbers are significant and consistent across different regions.

  • An IPV study based on data gathered between 2005 and 2017 showed that 15% of all domestic violence-related visits to emergency rooms occurred during holiday periods, with New Year’s Eve having the highest incident rate.
  • San Antonio’s Metro Health reports domestic violence cases tend to rise by around 25% during the holidays. This trend isn’t isolated to one community. Police say several factors contribute to the increase in domestic violence during the holidays, including financial stress, alcohol and drugs, holiday shopping pressures, and family dynamics.
  • A 2024 report, “The Costs of Intimate Partner Violence in California,” reveals a cost of $73.7 billion to the state in health care, lost productivity and income, and criminal justice and response program spending for domestic violence cases in 2022 alone. This is about 2% of California’s gross domestic product. 

The pattern extends beyond just major winter holidays. Stress elevates, finances usually take a hit, alcohol and drug use tend to increase, and people are at home more with their family during various holiday periods throughout the year, creating multiple windows of increased risk.

Why Does Domestic Violence Increase During Holidays?

Several key elements create what some advocates call a “perfect storm” of risk factors.

Financial Stress and Economic Pressure

The expectation to buy gifts, host gatherings, and create picture-perfect celebrations places enormous financial strain on households. Financial stress is one of the most significant contributors to the rise in domestic violence during the holidays, as the pressure to buy gifts, host gatherings, and meet societal expectations can strain household budgets, often exacerbating existing tensions within relationships.

Increased Alcohol and Substance Use

The holiday season is often accompanied by increased alcohol consumption, which is a well-known risk factor for domestic violence, as alcohol can impair judgment and lower inhibitions, making it easier for underlying tensions to erupt into physical confrontations. Holiday parties and social gatherings often normalize excessive drinking, providing abusers with both opportunity and excuse for violent behavior.

Heightened Emotional Expectations

The cultural pressure to be happy, grateful, and family-oriented during the holidays creates additional stress for those in troubled relationships. The holidays can be emotionally taxing, as the expectation to maintain a cheerful demeanor, coupled with the stress of family interactions, can lead to heightened emotions, and for those already in volatile relationships, these emotional triggers can escalate conflicts into physical violence.

Increased Time Together and Isolation

With families spending extended time together, such as spouses or parents with school-age children back at home on a school break, the chances of violence within a household increase. Additionally, during the holidays, many support services like shelters and hotlines may have reduced hours or may be understaffed, making it more challenging for victims to seek help or escape abusive situations.

Control and Power Dynamics

While there are several factors that can fuel domestic violence during the holidays, the root cause usually involves one family member exerting control over another. The holidays provide abusers with additional opportunities to isolate victims from support systems, control finances, and manipulate family dynamics.

The Hidden Reality: The Honeymoon Phase

Interestingly, domestic violence shelters report a complex pattern during the holidays. Shelters actually see short dips this time of year, when survivors try to go back home, as the honeymoon phase kicks in with abusers saying, ‘I love you, I’m sorry, it’s the holidays. This cycle makes the holiday period particularly dangerous, as victims may return to unsafe situations hoping for change that rarely materializes.

How Judy Burger Can Help

If you’re experiencing domestic violence, taking legal action can be a critical step toward safety and protection. As a California Certified Family Law Specialist, Judy L. Burger has dedicated her practice to helping victims of domestic violence obtain the legal protection they need. This certification, held by fewer than 10% of California family law attorneys, reflects advanced knowledge and proven experience in family law matters, including domestic violence cases.

Judy can help you obtain a domestic violence restraining order, which can provide multiple layers of protection. In California, these orders can require the abuser to stay away from you, your home, your workplace, and your children’s schools. They can also address child custody and visitation, require the abuser to move out of a shared residence, and prohibit the abuser from possessing firearms.

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger understands the urgency of domestic violence situations. Judy and her team can guide you through the process of obtaining emergency protective orders, temporary restraining orders, and permanent restraining orders. They can also help you navigate related family law matters, including divorce, child custody, and property division, when domestic violence is a factor.

Beyond restraining orders, Judy can provide comprehensive legal representation if you’re going through a divorce involving domestic violence. She understands how abuse affects custody determinations, spousal support calculations, and property division. Her approach prioritizes your safety and your children’s safety while protecting your legal rights and financial interests.

Recognizing the Signs and Taking Action

Domestic violence takes many forms beyond physical abuse. In California, abuse can be emotional, psychological, verbal, or physical. It can include controlling access to money, isolating someone from friends and family, or engaging in coercive control that interferes with a person’s free will and personal liberty.

If you’re in immediate danger, always call 911 first. Once you’re safe, contacting an attorney who understands domestic violence can help you create a comprehensive safety plan and obtain legal protection.

The time when leaving or planning to leave an abusive relationship can be the most dangerous. Having a skilled attorney on your side ensures you understand your options, have proper legal documentation, and take steps that protect both your immediate safety and your long-term interests.

Holiday Domestic Violence FAQs

Can I get a restraining order during the holidays, even when courts are closed?

Yes. Law enforcement officers can request emergency protective orders from judges 24 hours a day, including holidays and weekends. These emergency orders last 5-7 days and go into effect immediately, giving you time to seek a longer-term domestic violence restraining order from the court when it reopens.

Does a domestic violence restraining order affect child custody during the holidays?

Yes. A domestic violence restraining order can include temporary custody and visitation orders that remain in effect during the holidays. The court prioritizes the safety of children when domestic violence is present, and holiday visitation schedules can be modified or supervised to ensure protection.

What if my abuser promises to change and wants me to drop the restraining order for the holidays?

You should never feel pressured to drop legal protection. The “honeymoon phase,” where abusers apologize and promise change, is a well-documented part of the cycle of violence. Consult with your attorney before making any decisions about modifying or dismissing a restraining order, regardless of promises made.

Can financial stress during the holidays be used as a defense for domestic violence?

No. While financial stress may be a contributing factor to increased tension, it is never an excuse or legal defense for domestic violence. California law protects victims regardless of the circumstances that may have contributed to the abuser’s behavior. Everyone has the right to live free from violence and abuse.

Is there a cost to file for a domestic violence restraining order in California?

No. There is no filing fee to request a domestic violence restraining order in California. The court process is designed to be accessible to all victims of domestic violence, regardless of their financial situation. Additionally, if your restraining order is granted, the court can order the abuser to pay your attorney’s fees and costs.

Take Action to Protect Yourself and Your Family

The holidays should be a time of safety, peace, and genuine celebration—not fear and danger. If you or someone you care about is experiencing domestic violence, especially during this high-risk holiday season, don’t wait to seek help.

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger is here to provide the legal guidance and protection you need. With offices throughout California and a deep commitment to helping victims of domestic violence, Judy Burger and her team understand the courage it takes to seek help and the urgency of your situation.

Don’t let another holiday season pass in fear. Call The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger now and learn about your legal options for protection. Your safety and your children’s safety are too important to wait. Reach out today—we’re ready to help you reclaim your life and build a safer tomorrow.

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. For confidential support, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

What Can I Do If I Suspect My Ex’s New Partner Is Mistreating the Children?
California Divorce, Child Custody, Domestic Violence

What Can I Do If I Suspect My Ex’s New Partner Is Mistreating the Children?

Co-parenting after a divorce can be challenging, especially when new partners are involved. If you suspect that your ex-spouse’s new partner is mistreating your children, it becomes crucial to take action to ensure their safety and well-being.

Let’s explore the legal parameters of abuse under California law, provide steps you can take if you suspect mistreatment, and explain how The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger can assist you in navigating this challenging situation.

Understanding Child Abuse Under California Law

California law defines child abuse broadly, encompassing physical, emotional, and neglectful behaviors. The key statutes involved in child abuse cases include:

  1. Physical Abuse: This refers to any non-accidental physical harm inflicted on a child. It can include hitting, burning, or any act that results in physical injury.
  2. Emotional Abuse: Emotional abuse includes behaviors that harm a child’s emotional development or sense of self-worth. This can involve constant criticism, intimidation, or isolation.
  3. Neglect: Neglect occurs when a caregiver fails to provide necessary care, supervision, or emotional support, putting the child’s health or safety at risk.

California Child Welfare Services takes reports of suspected abuse seriously. When a child’s safety is at stake, taking immediate action is critical.

Steps to Take If You Suspect Mistreatment

Never hesitate to investigate and report mistreatment of your children. Here are the steps to take:

1. Document Your Observations

Keep a detailed record of any concerning behaviors or incidents that lead you to suspect mistreatment. This documentation should include dates, times, descriptions of events, and any remarks made by the children that indicate mistreatment. Photographic evidence of injuries or changes in behavior can also be helpful.

2. Talk to Your Children

Approach your children in a calm and supportive manner. Let them know they can speak openly without fear of repercussions. Ask them about their experiences with their new partner, but do so gently. Avoid leading questions that may suggest how they should respond.

3. Consult With a Child Psychologist

If your children display signs of distress or behavioral changes, consulting a child psychologist may be beneficial. A professional can provide insights into any underlying issues of mistreatment and may help document the effects of any abuse on your child.

4. Reach Out to Your Ex-Spouse

If you feel it is safe to do so, consider discussing your concerns with your ex-spouse. Communicate your feelings respectfully, focusing on the children’s well-being. If they are receptive, this may provide an opportunity to address the situation cooperatively.

5. Contact Child Protective Services (CPS)

If you have substantial reason to believe that your children are in imminent danger or that their new partner poses a threat, it is vital to contact CPS or your local law enforcement agency. They can investigate your claims. Be prepared to provide them with the documentation you have gathered.

6. Seek Legal Counsel

If you believe your children are being mistreated and you have reasons to act on your suspicions, it is essential to consult with a knowledgeable family law attorney. A legal professional can guide you through the necessary steps to safeguard your child’s welfare, which may include modifying custody or visitation arrangements.

How The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger Can Help

At The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we understand the emotional turmoil that accompanies concerns about a child’s safety. Our firm is committed to safeguarding children and promoting their well-being.

  • Legal Guidance: Judy L. Burger is a California Certified Family Law Specialist with extensive experience in family law matters. She can provide you with the legal knowledge and support you need if you suspect your children are being mistreated.
  • Custody Modifications: If the situation necessitates a change in custody arrangements, Judy can help you navigate the legal process of modifying custody orders to protect your children.
  • Protective Orders: We can also assist in drafting any necessary legal documentation, such as protective orders aimed at ensuring the safety of the children during visitation periods.
  • Mediation and Negotiation: Our firm prioritizes amicable resolutions and can facilitate discussions with your ex-spouse regarding the concerns at hand, seeking collaborative solutions that prioritize the children’s welfare.

FAQs About Child Mistreating After Divorce

What constitutes child abuse in California?

Child abuse can include physical harm, emotional harm, and neglect. Any behavior that is harmful to a child’s physical or emotional well-being may fall under the definition of abuse.

How can I report suspected child abuse?

If you suspect child abuse, you can report your concerns to California’s Child Protective Services or local law enforcement. They will investigate the situation and take necessary action.

What should I do if my children tell me about mistreatment?

Listen supportively and document their statements. Encourage them to express their feelings, and consider seeking professional help if they seem distressed.

Can I file for custody modification if I suspect my ex’s partner is abusive?

Yes. If you believe your children are in danger, you can seek legal counsel to file for a modification of custody arrangements to protect your children.

How can Judy Burger assist me in this situation?

Judy Burger specializes in family law and can provide legal guidance, help in addressing custody issues, and assist with any necessary legal protective measures to safeguard your children.

Ensure the Safety of Your Children

Ensuring the safety and well-being of your children should be a priority. If you suspect that your ex-spouse’s new partner is mistreating them, it is essential to take action. Documentation, communication, and legal support are critical steps in addressing the issue effectively. At The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we are here to stand by your side and help you navigate these challenging circumstances, ensuring your children’s safety comes first.

What Happens at an Ex Parte Hearing?
California Divorce, Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

What Happens at an Ex Parte Hearing?

When navigating legal matters, particularly in family law, you may encounter various types of hearings, one of which is an ex parte hearing. Let’s delve into what an ex parte hearing is, the steps involved, the reasons courts may grant them, and how Judy L. Burger can assist you in this process.

What Is an Ex Parte Hearing?

An ex parte hearing is a legal proceeding in which one party presents its case to a judge without the opposing party being present. The term “ex parte” originates from Latin, meaning “from one party.” This type of hearing is typically reserved for situations where one party needs emergency relief or immediate action from the court, which cannot wait for the standard notice and hearing timelines.

Ex parte hearings are most commonly seen in family law cases, especially those involving child custody, support issues, or restraining orders. The urgent nature of these hearings requires the party requesting the hearing to demonstrate that significant, time-sensitive issues exist and that notifying the other party beforehand would result in irreparable harm.

Steps Taken During an Ex Parte Hearing

Here’s what to expect when requesting an ex parte or emergency hearing:

  1. Filing the Motion: The party seeking the ex parte hearing must file a motion with the court. This motion should clearly outline the urgent nature of the request, specify the relief being sought, and provide supporting documentation to justify the expedited hearing.
  2. Service of Process: While traditional hearings require advance notice to all parties, in an ex parte hearing, one does not need to notify the other party unless explicitly required by the court. However, if the situation allows, good legal practice often encourages the notifying party to inform the other party, as this can foster goodwill and transparency.
  3. Preparing for the Hearing: The requesting party should prepare their arguments and evidence to substantiate their claims. This includes gathering documents, witness statements, or any other relevant evidence that can support their position.
  4. The Hearing: During the actual hearing, the requesting party will present their case to the judge, explaining why immediate action is necessary. The lack of the opposing party does not mean the court will automatically grant the request; the judge will carefully consider the urgency and validity of the claims.
  5. Court Decision: After hearing the arguments and reviewing the evidence, the judge may either grant or deny the request. If the request is granted, temporary orders may be issued until a full hearing with both parties can be scheduled.
  6. Post-Hearing Actions: If the ex parte order is granted, copies of the order must typically be served to the other party as soon as possible. A follow-up hearing may also be scheduled to allow both parties to present their arguments.

Reasons Why Courts Grant Ex Parte Hearings

Ex parte hearings are not commonly granted and are reserved for situations that demonstrate a clear and urgent need. Some reasons a court might grant an ex parte hearing include:

  • Immediate Risk of Harm: If there is evidence that a child may be in imminent danger (physical or emotional), immediate action must be taken to ensure their safety.
  • Emergency Situations: Situations requiring immediate health and safety concerns, such as a parent requesting an order to prevent travel with a child due to substance abuse or domestic violence concerns.
  • Preserving Evidence: If there is a risk that evidence relevant to the case could be destroyed or tampered with, the opposing party should not be given prior notice.
  • Change in Circumstances: A sudden and significant change in circumstances that affects child custody or support, where waiting for a regular hearing could compromise the child’s best interests.
  • Uncontested Matters: If the opposing party agrees to the proposed changes or relief, an ex parte hearing can expedite the process.

How Judy L. Burger Can Help

Navigating ex parte hearings can be a complex and stressful process. Judy L. Burger is a Certified California Family Law Specialist with a wealth of experience in family law matters. Here’s how she can assist:

  • Expert Guidance: Judy can provide personalized legal advice tailored to your specific situation, helping you understand whether an ex parte hearing is appropriate for your circumstances.
  • Preparation of Documents: She can assist you in drafting and filing the necessary motions and documentation to ensure your case is presented coherently and effectively.
  • Representation in Court: With her extensive courtroom experience, Judy can represent you in the ex parte hearing, presenting your arguments persuasively to increase your chances of a favorable outcome.
  • Post-Hearing Support: If your request is granted, Judy can assist you in navigating the next steps to ensure compliance and preparation for any subsequent hearings.

Ex Parte Hearing FAQs

What is the timeframe for an ex parte hearing?

Ex parte hearings are typically held promptly; in some cases, they can occur on the same day the motion is filed, depending on the court’s schedule.

Do I need an attorney for an ex parte hearing?

While it is not required, having an attorney can significantly increase your chances of success, as they can guide you through the legal process, ensuring all necessary procedures and paperwork are correctly handled.

What if the court denies my ex parte request?

If the request is denied, you may still pursue your case through a regular hearing process, allowing both parties to present their arguments.

Can I appeal an ex parte ruling?

Yes, decisions made during ex parte hearings can often be appealed, but it is recommended to consult with an attorney to understand the specific options available.

How can I prevent an ex parte hearing filed against me?

It is essential to maintain open communication with your co-parent and adhere to the terms of any existing custody or support agreements to prevent misunderstandings that could lead to an emergency request.

CA Ex Parte Hearings Attorney

Navigating family law can be particularly challenging, especially in emergency situations. If you find yourself facing the possibility of an ex parte hearing, contact Judy L. Burger’s office for experienced advice and representation to protect your rights and the well-being of your family.

When Should I Seek Sole Custody of My Child?
California Divorce, Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Termination of Parental Rights

When Should I Seek Sole Custody of My Child?

Child custody can be one of the most challenging aspects for parents going through a divorce or separation. While many families successfully establish joint custody arrangements that work well, there are circumstances where seeking sole custody may be in the child’s best interest. Understanding the implications of sole custody and knowing when to pursue this option is crucial for any parent facing custody issues.

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger can assist you through the process of petitioning the court for sole custody and advise you when this is a wise course of action.

What Is Sole Custody?

Sole custody refers to a legal arrangement where one parent holds full authority over decision-making regarding the child’s upbringing and is primarily responsible for the child’s physical care. There are two types of sole custody:

  1. Sole legal custody: one parent has the exclusive right to make major decisions about the child, including education, healthcare, and religious upbringing.
  2. Sole physical custody: the child lives primarily with one parent, and the other parent may have visitation rights.

When to Seek Sole Custody

While every custody situation is unique, there are several circumstances where pursuing sole custody may be necessary to ensure the child’s well-being and stability:

  • Abuse or Neglect: If there is evidence that the other parent has abused or neglected the child, seeking sole custody may be essential. The safety and emotional well-being of the child should always be the top priority. Documentation of any incidents or patterns of behavior can strengthen your case.
  • Substance Abuse: A parent’s struggle with substance abuse can significantly impact their ability to care for a child. If the other parent is involved in drug or alcohol abuse that endangers the child, it may be appropriate to seek sole custody to protect the child from potentially harmful situations.
  • Mental Health Issues: If the other parent suffers from mental health issues that impair their judgment or ability to care for the child, you may need to pursue sole custody. It’s essential to show that these issues could affect the child’s safety or well-being.
  • Parental Alienation: If one parent is deliberately trying to undermine the child’s relationship with the other parent, it may create a toxic environment for the child. Sole custody might be necessary to protect the child’s emotional development and foster a healthier relationship.
  • Unstable Living Conditions: If the other parent’s living situation is unstable—such as frequent moves, unsafe conditions, or involvement with questionable individuals—this can be a valid reason to seek sole custody. Stability in a child’s living environment is crucial for their development and well-being.

How Judy L. Burger Can Help

Judy L. Burger, a Certified Family Law Specialist in California, understands the intricacies of custody disputes and can guide you through the process of seeking sole custody. Here’s how Judy can assist you:

  1. Legal Expertise: Judy possesses extensive knowledge of California family law, enabling her to provide tailored legal advice based on your unique circumstances. She can help you determine whether pursuing sole custody is the best option in your case.
  2. Preparing Your Case: Judy will work with you to gather evidence and documentation that supports your petition for sole custody. This may include gathering witness statements, medical records, and any police reports related to abuse or neglect.
  3. Navigating Court Procedures: The legal process for petitioning the court can be complicated. Judy will guide you step-by-step, ensuring that all required documentation is submitted correctly and on time, and representing you during court hearings.
  4. Mediation Services: In some cases, mediation may be a viable option to resolve custody disputes amicably. Judy has strong mediation skills and can facilitate discussions with your co-parent to reach a fair agreement outside of court.
  5. Advocating for Your Child’s Best Interests: Judy’s primary focus is on the welfare of your child. She will advocate in court to demonstrate how sole custody will provide the best environment for your child’s physical and emotional needs.

FAQs About Sole Custody

Can I get sole custody if my ex is agreeable to joint custody?

While agreeing to joint custody is a factor, the court will ultimately decide based on the child’s best interests. If you have concerns about your ex’s parenting abilities or behaviors, it is essential to present evidence to support your request for sole custody.

How does the court determine who gets custody?

The court considers various factors, including the child’s age, health, emotional ties between the child and both parents, each parent’s ability to care for the child, and stability in the child’s life.

Do I need an attorney to seek sole custody?

While it’s technically possible to represent yourself, having an experienced family law attorney like Judy L. Burger is highly recommended. They can navigate the legal complexities and maximize your chances for a favorable outcome.

What if I’m denied sole custody? Can I appeal?

Yes, if the court denies your request for sole custody, you may have the option to appeal the decision. Consult with your attorney for specific advice and guidance on how to proceed.

How can I prepare for a custody hearing?

Preparation is key. Gather documentation to support your case, including evidence of your parenting situation, any issues with the other parent, and witness statements. Judy can help you prepare and understand what to expect during the proceedings.

Preparing for Sole Custody in California

Seeking sole custody can be a daunting and emotional process. However, in situations where a child’s safety or well-being is at risk, it can be the necessary step to ensure a stable environment. If you believe that pursuing sole custody is in your child’s best interest, reach out to Judy L. Burger. With her skill and experience in family law, she will work with you to navigate the complexities of custody arrangements and advocate for the best possible outcome for you and your child. Remember, you are not alone—support is available to help you through this challenging journey.

Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?

Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects many individuals and families across California. If you are facing threats, harassment, or violence at the hands of a partner, family member, or someone close to you, understanding your rights is crucial. One of the most effective tools available for protection is a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO). But can you obtain one in any type of relationship?

Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger clarifies what constitutes domestic violence under California law, discuss the types of relationships eligible for DVROs, and explains how she can assist you throughout this process.

Understanding Domestic Violence Under California Law

Domestic violence is defined under California Family Code § 6203 as abuse against an intimate partner. Abusive behavior can take many forms, including:

  • Physical Abuse: Any act of violence or threats of violence (hitting, slapping, pushing, etc.).
  • Emotional Abuse: Activities that provoke fear, isolation, or mental harm (intimidation, threats, or controlling behavior).
  • Financial Abuse: Controlling someone’s access to financial resources, thus creating economic dependence.
  • Sexual Abuse: Unwanted sexual acts or exploitation, including coerced sex.

California recognizes the importance of protecting individuals from such harm, and the law provides several avenues for victims to seek safety and justice. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order serves as a legal barrier, preventing the abuser from contacting or coming near the victim.

Who Can File for a DVRO?

California law outlines several types of relationships where a DVRO can be requested. Understanding these relationships is essential for anyone considering legal action:

  1. Intimate Partners: This includes individuals who have been in a dating relationship. It does not matter if the relationship is ongoing or has ended; if there is a history of intimacy, you may seek a DVRO.
  2. Married Couples: Current and former spouses are eligible to file for a DVRO. The law also extends protection to those in domestic partnerships.
  3. Family Members: If you share familial ties, such as parents and children, siblings, or in-laws, you can pursue a DVRO. This applies regardless of whether you live together.
  4. Cohabitants: Individuals who live together or have lived together in the past (even if they are not in a romantic relationship) can file for a DVRO as long as there is evidence of abuse.
  5. Individuals with Children Together: If you have a child with another person, this relationship grants you the right to apply for a DVRO, regardless of your current relationship status.

How Judy L. Burger Can Help

Navigating the complexities of domestic violence cases can be overwhelming, especially for those dealing with trauma. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger possesses extensive experience in family law and domestic violence cases. Here’s how she can assist:

  • Legal Guidance: Judy will provide expert legal advice on whether you qualify for a DVRO based on your specific circumstances, explaining your rights and the details of the process.
  • Preparation of Legal Documents: Filing a DVRO entails submitting various legal documents. Judy will ensure all paperwork is meticulously prepared and submitted in a timely manner.
  • Representation in Court: If your case requires a court appearance, Judy is prepared to represent you with skill and compassion, advocating for your rights and safety.
  • Support and Resources: Beyond legal advocacy, Judy can help connect you with local resources, including shelters, counseling services, and support groups for domestic violence survivors.
  • Follow-up and Enforcement: Obtaining a DVRO is just the first step. Judy can assist in ensuring the order is enforced and modifying it as needed in any future legal proceedings.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Frequently Asked Questions About DVROs

What is the difference between a temporary and a permanent DVRO?

A temporary DVRO is typically issued quickly, often at the first court appearance, to provide immediate protection. A permanent DVRO, on the other hand, requires a full hearing where both parties present evidence, and can last up to five years with the option for renewal.

How long does it take to get a DVRO?

The process can vary, but temporary DVROs can often be granted the same day they are filed. A full hearing for a permanent DVRO usually occurs within 3 weeks after the temporary order is issued.

What evidence do I need to present for a DVRO?

Evidence can include police reports, medical records, photographs of injuries, text messages, or any documentation showing a history of abuse or threats.

Can I get a DVRO against a roommate or friend?

Yes, if you have lived together or have a relationship that qualifies under California law, you can file for a DVRO, provided there is evidence of abuse.

What happens if the abuser violates the DVRO?

If the abuser violates the conditions of the DVRO, you should contact the police immediately. Violating a restraining order is a criminal offense, and legal consequences can ensue.

Get Help Filing for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

If you find yourself in a situation involving domestic violence, understanding your rights and options is crucial. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order can provide the necessary protection and serve as a vital step toward gaining control over your life. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger is here to guide you through this challenging process with compassion and expertise. Remember, you don’t have to face this alone—support and protection are available.

 

How Do CA Gun Violence Restraining Orders Work?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

How Do CA Gun Violence Restraining Orders Work?

California is known for strict gun laws to protect its citizens from crime and domestic violence. The state legislature first approved Gun Restraining Orders in 2016. How do CA Gun Violence Restraining Orders work, and when do you need one? CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger discusses CA Gun Restraining Orders and how they work.

What Is a Gun Violence Restraining Order?

A Gun Violence Restraining Order (GVRO) is a court order that prevents someone from accessing firearms and ammunition. It’s also known as a “red flag law.”  

“The GVRO provides an opportunity to remove guns from individuals who would not otherwise be prohibited from possessing firearms.” This legally binding order reduces the risk of gun-related violence for between one to five years, allowing the person in crisis to get help.

The judge may issue a temporary Gun Violence Restraining Order before the scheduled hearing and grant other restraining orders as necessary. A temporary GVRO lasts for 21 days. If the judge grants a 1-5-year GVRO, a law enforcement officer will serve the papers to the person and collect any firearms, ammunition, and magazines. The subject of a GVRO cannot legally purchase any guns, magazines, or ammunition while the order is in force. The court may extend a GVRO.

A GVRO requires the subject of the order to relinquish all firearms and ammunition and prohibits the subject from purchasing any guns or ammunition while the order is in effect.

When Would I Need a GVRO?

When should you consider petitioning the court for a gun violence restraining order? Under California Penal Code Section 18150, a Gun Violence Restraining Order can prohibit an individual who poses a significant danger of self-injury or injuring another from owning, possessing, purchasing, receiving, or attempting to purchase or receive a firearm or ammunition.

Threats or acts of domestic violence are common reasons to ask for a GVRO. The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as: “Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.”

The California Family Code defines domestic violence as abuse perpetrated against an “intimate partner” or family member. This can include spouses, former spouses, cohabitants, individuals in dating relationships, parents, and children. While physical violence often comes to mind first, domestic violence also encompasses emotional and psychological abuse, including threats of harm.

In the context of domestic violence, a threat can be considered abusive if it instills fear, apprehension, or intimidation in the victim. Even if the threatened harm does not materialize, the impact on the victim’s emotional well-being is considered.

How Do I Obtain a GVRO in California?

The following people can request a Gun Violence Restraining Order against an individual:

  • An immediate family member
  • An employer
  • A coworker, if they have had substantial and regular interactions with the subject for at least one year and have obtained the employer’s approval
  • An employee or teacher of a secondary or postsecondary school that the subject has attended in the last six months, if the employee or teacher has obtained the approval of a school administrator or a school administration staff member with a supervisorial role
  • A law enforcement officer
  • A roommate
  • An individual who has a dating relationship with the subject
  • An individual who has a child in common with the subject, if they have had substantial and regular interactions with the subject for at least one year

You can ask a law enforcement officer to ask for a gun violence restraining order. If it is an emergency, you can call police and ask for one right away. If you do not want to call police for help, Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can help you petition the court and handle the details.

Get Help with Gun Restraining Orders in California

You do not have to remain in threatening, abusive, or dangerous relationships. CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger can help you when you need legal protection or seek to protect someone close to you from committing harm or harming themselves. We have eight offices across California to serve you. Schedule a consultation to get answers to your questions about Gun Violence Restraining Orders and other types of restraining orders. We can offer counsel, help you file petitions with the court, and get the help you need now.  

Is Domestic Violence On the Rise in California?
California Divorce, Child Custody, Domestic Violence, Marriage, Restraining Order, Restraining Order, Termination of Parental Rights

Is Domestic Violence On the Rise in California?

As conversations surrounding domestic violence increase, residents need to understand the current state of this serious issue in California. Domestic violence, which encompasses physical, emotional, and psychological abuse, has far-reaching consequences for individuals and communities. CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explores this topic so you can better understand the challenges we face in combating domestic violence in the Golden State.

Startling Facts On Domestic Violence

The following facts are based on the 2023 California Violence Experiences Survey (CalVEX):

  • More than half of California women experience intimate partner violence in their lifetime.
  • One in 30 women – more than 460,000 in California – experienced physical and/or sexual violence from a partner in just the past year, and those reporting these abuses in the past year faced greater health and social risks.
  • 9% of women and 31.1% of menin California experience intimate partner violence or stalking in their lifetime. 
  • In 2021, California reported over 1,300 human trafficking cases, the most reported cases of human trafficking in the United States.

“Women who experienced intimate partner violence in the past year are more likely to be contending with depression, anxiety, and suicidality, and they are also more likely to have faced recent eviction,” said Jakana Thomas, a professor of political science at the School of Global Policy and Strategy.

A 2024 report, “The Costs of Intimate Partner Violence in California,” reveals a cost of $73.7 billion to the state in health care, lost productivity and income, and criminal justice and response program spending for domestic violence cases in 2022 alone. This is about 2% of the gross domestic product for California. 

Factors Contributing to the Rise

Domestic violence is a complex issue influenced by various social, economic, and psychological factors. Some of the reasons contributing to its rise may include:

  1. Economic Stress: Economic challenges, such as unemployment or financial insecurity, can increase tensions within households, leading to conflicts that may escalate into violence.
  2. Increased Substance Abuse: Stressful situations can lead to increased alcohol or drug use, which may contribute to aggressive behavior and exacerbate existing tensions in relationships.
  3. Social Norms and Attitudes: Societal acceptance of violence as a means of conflict resolution can perpetuate cycles of abuse. Cultural attitudes towards gender roles and power dynamics in relationships can also impact the prevalence of domestic violence.
  4. Lack of Education and Resources: A lack of education about healthy relationships and available resources can keep victims stuck in abusive situations. Many may not know how to seek help or where to turn.
  5. Historical and Ongoing Trauma: Individuals who have experienced violence in their own families or communities may be more likely to either perpetrate or experience domestic violence themselves, perpetuating cycles of abuse.

Domestic Violence and the Law

The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as: “Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.”

California law specifies that domestic violence encompasses any type of abuse inflicted upon an “intimate partner,” which is broadly defined to include almost a dozen different relationships. This includes the deliberate or careless application of physical force against the individual or the act of threatening to use force against them.

The Importance of Taking Action

The issue of domestic violence is critical. Do not wonder how long you must suffer – when you or your child experience abuse or feel threatened, that is the time to act. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, please reach out to the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for immediate assistance with obtaining a restraining order. Together, we can work towards breaking the cycle of violence and creating a safer future for everyone.

 

Are Ex Parte Hearings Common?
Marriage, Domestic Violence, Legal Separation, Restraining Order, Termination of Parental Rights

Are Ex Parte Hearings Common?

Ex parte hearings, also known as emergency hearings, are common in family law cases. These hearings allow one party to request immediate court intervention without the other party being present. They are typically used in urgent situations where waiting for a regularly scheduled hearing would cause irreparable harm. CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger shares some vital insights about emergency hearings.

What Is An Ex Parte Hearing?

The term “ex parte” comes from Latin and translates to “from one party.” It refers to a request made by one party to present evidence to the court with minimal or no notice to other involved parties. In California, these hearings are allowed in cases where there is an imminent threat of significant harm, and immediate action is necessary to prevent it.

Ex parte hearings are not meant to bypass the regular legal process. Instead, they are intended to address urgent matters that cannot wait for a scheduled hearing. The party requesting the ex parte hearing must demonstrate to the court that a genuine emergency requires immediate attention.

These hearings are subject to specific legal procedures and requirements and are typically granted only when there is a compelling reason to do so. The party requesting the hearing must provide clear and convincing evidence to support their request, and the court will carefully consider the potential impact of granting the emergency relief.

When Should I Request an Ex Parte Hearing?

Family disagreements can quickly escalate. Relationships can sour and become highly emotional. Child custody discussions between parents can sometimes become tense or even escalate to violence. In California family court, if you anticipate that discussions could become volatile or if you feel threatened, you have the option to request an ex parte hearing. In such a hearing, the court may grant emergency orders to protect you and your child, even in the absence of the other parent or party, if there is sufficient evidence to support your request.

Common reasons to request an ex parte hearing include the following:

  1. To Protect a Child: Ex parte emergency orders are typically granted when there are allegations of child abuse, neglect, a threat of abduction, or other similar reasons when a child would need legal protection from serious harm.
  2. To Prevent Physical Harm: Ex parte orders can be granted to protect an adult from possible domestic violence or other causes of imminent and serious harm. Preventing a personal injury from a previously violent person is a justifiable cause for an ex parte emergency order of protection. This includes if one parent threatens harmful actions if a sole custody petition is filed with the court.
  3. To Prevent Financial Harm: Ex parte orders can also be requested if significant financial harm is imminent, threatened, or otherwise could cause serious loss to the victims. An example would be when one party claims a spouse is willfully destroying joint-owned property, leaving the first party without a means of support.

While ex parte hearings are relatively common in family law cases, they are reserved for urgent situations that require immediate court intervention. If you believe that you have a legitimate need for an ex parte hearing, it’s crucial to seek legal advice and assistance to ensure that your rights are protected and that the court fully understands the urgency of your situation.

California Ex Parte Hearings Attorney

In cases where custody matters are at risk due to impending harm or violence, or you feel threatened in any way, the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger can assist you in obtaining ex parte orders. If you find yourself in a situation where you or your child are facing abuse or feeling threatened, it is crucial to act.

A temporary restraining order may be necessary to safeguard you and your child from an abusive or manipulative spouse or parent. For immediate assistance in obtaining a restraining order, please reach out to the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, which has eight offices across California to serve you.

 

When Does a Threat Become Domestic Violence?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order

When Does a Threat Become Domestic Violence?

“What is a threat?” “Can a threat be considered domestic violence, or is freedom of speech a factor?” “How do I know if I’m being threatened?” These are common questions family law attorneys get asked by clients in troublesome relationships. 

Understanding the threshold at which a threat becomes domestic violence is crucial for recognizing and addressing abusive behavior in relationships. In California, domestic violence encompasses a range of abusive actions, including threats that create a climate of fear and intimidation. It’s important to be informed about when a threat crosses the line into domestic violence and the legal protections available to those affected.

Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger addresses threats and how they relate to charges of domestic violence in California.  

What Is Domestic Violence?

The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as: “Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.”

The California Family Code defines domestic violence as abuse perpetrated against an “intimate partner” or family member. This can include spouses, former spouses, cohabitants, individuals in dating relationships, parents, and children. While physical violence often comes to mind first, domestic violence also encompasses emotional and psychological abuse, including threats of harm.

  1. Direct threats: “I’ll kill you…”
  2. Indirect threats: “You’ll be sorry…”
  3. Implied threats: “What if something happened to you…”

In the context of domestic violence, a threat can be considered abusive if it instills fear, apprehension, or intimidation in the victim. Even if the threatened harm does not materialize, the impact on the victim’s emotional well-being is considered.

Legal Domestic Violence Protections

California law offers legal remedies to address domestic violence threats. One important avenue is obtaining a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO). A DVRO is a court order that provides protection to victims of domestic violence by prohibiting the abuser from contacting or approaching the victim. It can also include other provisions, such as ordering the abuser to move out of the shared residence and to stay away from certain locations, including the victim’s workplace or children’s school.

Our office can also help you when gun violence restraining orders are necessary. Contact one of our eight California offices to learn more.

Get Help with Domestic Violence Crimes In California

When it comes to threats and domestic violence, it’s essential to take any indication of harm or intimidation seriously. If you are in immediate danger, it’s important to contact law enforcement. You should never hesitate to act when you believe you or your child are victims of domestic violence.

When you or your child experience abuse or feel threatened, that is the time to act. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for immediate assistance with obtaining a restraining order.

Recognizing when a threat crosses the line into domestic violence is a critical step in addressing and preventing abusive behavior within relationships. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger can help you be informed about legal definitions and available remedies so you can proactively protect yourself and your loved ones from the harmful effects of domestic violence threats. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, get help now.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.