Reviewing My Parenting Plan for 2025

Reviewing My Parenting Plan for 2025

As we enter the New Year, it’s a great opportunity to reflect on and reassess parenting goals and strategies. Begin 2025 by reviewing and enhancing your parenting plan. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting, single parenting, or simply striving to be the best parent possible, reviewing your parenting plan can help ensure that your children have a stable and supportive environment.

CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explores some recommendations for reviewing and improving your current parenting plan.

Understanding the Current Landscape

The first step in reviewing any parenting plan is to assess how well the current plan has worked for your family in the past year. Here are some critical factors to reflect on:

  • Routine and Structure: Did your daily routines provide enough stability for your children? Are there areas where you need to introduce new routines or tweak existing ones?
  • Emotional Well-Being: How did your children cope with emotional challenges, whether those stemmed from school, friendships, or family dynamics? Are you fostering an environment where they feel comfortable expressing their feelings?
  • Successes and Challenges: What worked well, and what didn’t? Make a note of both triumphs and struggles, from successful family activities to the challenges of juggling schedules.

Other issues you may need to address include changes in your work or living situation, changes in the other parent’s situation, new conflict or tension between parents, or any concerns for your child’s safety. California Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can help you review these and other aspects of your current court-filed parenting plan.

Setting Goals for 2025

Once you’ve established a clear picture of where you are, it’s time to set some goals for the upcoming year:

  1. Enhancing Communication: Effective communication is key. How can you create or improve open channels where your children feel safe discussing their thoughts and feelings? This may involve setting aside dedicated time each week for family discussions.
  2. Nurturing Independence: Children need opportunities to explore independence as they grow. How can you introduce more age-appropriate responsibilities to help them develop confidence and decision-making skills?
  3. Prioritizing Quality Time: Busy schedules can make it challenging to prioritize quality family time. How can you schedule regular family outings, game nights, or even quiet evenings at home?
  4. Educational Support: Education is an ongoing journey. Evaluate how you can best support your children academically, whether that means being more involved in their school activities, seeking additional resources, or simply providing a conducive homework environment at home.

Life is unpredictable, and plans can change. Flexibility is an absolute must. Just because something has worked in the past doesn’t mean it will work in the future. Be open to adapting your parenting plan as necessary to navigate any unexpected challenges that might arise. Child Custody Attorney Judy L. Burger can offer professional advice when circumstances seem overwhelming or schedules always seem to conflict. She can provide insights and strategies tailored to your unique family dynamics.

Get Help with Your CA Parenting Plan

Reviewing your parenting plan for 2025 is about reflecting on the past, setting goals for the future, and fostering an environment of love, support, and growth for your children. Remember, your parenting plan is filed with the court and becomes a legally binding agreement, so any changes must be resubmitted to the court for approval.

Judy Burger can help you evaluate what works and what doesn’t while offering advice on remaining flexible in your approach as you create a fulfilling and balanced family life. Contact one of our eight offices across California to schedule a consultation.

Domestic Violence and Parenting Plan Modifications

Domestic Violence and Parenting Plan Modifications

Parenting plans are created to meet the unique needs of a divorced or separated family. When domestic violence has been present, your parenting plan needs to provide safety for you and your children. California Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger helps families when domestic violence makes parenting plan modifications necessary.

What Is a Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan is a comprehensive set of agreements for how separated or divorced parents will care for their children. It includes many factors, including:

  • Custody agreements
  • Visitation schedules
  • Sharing costs for the child’s care
  • Arrangements for holidays and school breaks
  • Exchange arrangements
  • Phone and video contact with the children
  • Communication between parents
  • Authority for making decisions for the child
  • Religious matters
  • More…

No two parenting plans are the same due to differing schedules, needs, locations, and many other factors. The factors above and many more should contain elements that keep you and your child safe when there has been domestic violence.

Creating a Parenting Plan

Often, parents work together to create a workable parenting plan to care for their children. The court will review this plan, determine if it needs legal requirements, serve the child’s best interests, and approve it. However, in cases of domestic violence, this may not be possible or safe. You may need a legal representative to act on your behalf to create or modify an existing parenting plan to help you and your child stay safe.

Your attorney will need to provide credible evidence of domestic violence and prove beyond a reasonable doubt that it is likely to continue. Then, a judge will be far more likely to agree to a parenting plan or modifications to an existing plan that contains elements to prevent future harassment or abuse.

Family Law Attorney Judy Burger is an effective negotiator if you feel threatened or fear mistakes in an agreement could place you or your child in jeopardy. She has a wealth of experience in working out parenting plans and custody agreements in difficult situations. In some cases, the judge will ultimately decide the best agreement. This is particularly true in cases of substance abuse, domestic violence, mental illness, or incarceration.

Domestic Violence and Parenting Plan Modifications

Sadly, domestic violence does not cease after separation or a divorce. In fact, the separation may only antagonize the other party and cause conflict to escalate. Your parenting plan needs to include specific provisions to prevent contact wherever possible. Vague or unclear parenting plans open the door for more abuse or harassment.

A CA Domestic Violence Attorney like Judy Burger has the knowledge and experience to include certain specific elements in a modified parenting plan to prevent contact, communication, and unsafe situations. Some measures she may recommend can include:

  • Keeping your living arrangements private and secure
  • Having a neutral third party exchange the child between parents
  • Exchanging the children in a public place in full view of security cameras or guards
  • Restricting communication between parents and children (prohibiting video calls so the other parent cannot see into your home)
  • Using an app for all communications so there is documentation
  • Keeping travel plans and daily activities private
  • Sole legal custody

The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger knows how to gather evidence to help convince the court that your proposed parenting plan modification is in your and your child’s best interests. She can represent you before the court, handle communications and negotiations, and otherwise help you remain safe during the proceedings. Our office can also help you when domestic violence or gun violence restraining orders are necessary.

Keep Your Family Safe from Domestic Violence

Domestic violence survivors may fear discussing custody and parenting plan modifications with the other parent. Relationships can be difficult, and meeting in person may not be safe. Reaching a safe agreement with the other parent may not be possible, especially without help. Keep yourself and your family safe from domestic violence. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger in California for experienced help with parenting plan modifications.