Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?

Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?

Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects many individuals and families across California. If you are facing threats, harassment, or violence at the hands of a partner, family member, or someone close to you, understanding your rights is crucial. One of the most effective tools available for protection is a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO). But can you obtain one in any type of relationship?

Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger clarifies what constitutes domestic violence under California law, discuss the types of relationships eligible for DVROs, and explains how she can assist you throughout this process.

Understanding Domestic Violence Under California Law

Domestic violence is defined under California Family Code § 6203 as abuse against an intimate partner. Abusive behavior can take many forms, including:

  • Physical Abuse: Any act of violence or threats of violence (hitting, slapping, pushing, etc.).
  • Emotional Abuse: Activities that provoke fear, isolation, or mental harm (intimidation, threats, or controlling behavior).
  • Financial Abuse: Controlling someone’s access to financial resources, thus creating economic dependence.
  • Sexual Abuse: Unwanted sexual acts or exploitation, including coerced sex.

California recognizes the importance of protecting individuals from such harm, and the law provides several avenues for victims to seek safety and justice. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order serves as a legal barrier, preventing the abuser from contacting or coming near the victim.

Who Can File for a DVRO?

California law outlines several types of relationships where a DVRO can be requested. Understanding these relationships is essential for anyone considering legal action:

  1. Intimate Partners: This includes individuals who have been in a dating relationship. It does not matter if the relationship is ongoing or has ended; if there is a history of intimacy, you may seek a DVRO.
  2. Married Couples: Current and former spouses are eligible to file for a DVRO. The law also extends protection to those in domestic partnerships.
  3. Family Members: If you share familial ties, such as parents and children, siblings, or in-laws, you can pursue a DVRO. This applies regardless of whether you live together.
  4. Cohabitants: Individuals who live together or have lived together in the past (even if they are not in a romantic relationship) can file for a DVRO as long as there is evidence of abuse.
  5. Individuals with Children Together: If you have a child with another person, this relationship grants you the right to apply for a DVRO, regardless of your current relationship status.

How Judy L. Burger Can Help

Navigating the complexities of domestic violence cases can be overwhelming, especially for those dealing with trauma. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger possesses extensive experience in family law and domestic violence cases. Here’s how she can assist:

  • Legal Guidance: Judy will provide expert legal advice on whether you qualify for a DVRO based on your specific circumstances, explaining your rights and the details of the process.
  • Preparation of Legal Documents: Filing a DVRO entails submitting various legal documents. Judy will ensure all paperwork is meticulously prepared and submitted in a timely manner.
  • Representation in Court: If your case requires a court appearance, Judy is prepared to represent you with skill and compassion, advocating for your rights and safety.
  • Support and Resources: Beyond legal advocacy, Judy can help connect you with local resources, including shelters, counseling services, and support groups for domestic violence survivors.
  • Follow-up and Enforcement: Obtaining a DVRO is just the first step. Judy can assist in ensuring the order is enforced and modifying it as needed in any future legal proceedings.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Frequently Asked Questions About DVROs

What is the difference between a temporary and a permanent DVRO?

A temporary DVRO is typically issued quickly, often at the first court appearance, to provide immediate protection. A permanent DVRO, on the other hand, requires a full hearing where both parties present evidence, and can last up to five years with the option for renewal.

How long does it take to get a DVRO?

The process can vary, but temporary DVROs can often be granted the same day they are filed. A full hearing for a permanent DVRO usually occurs within 3 weeks after the temporary order is issued.

What evidence do I need to present for a DVRO?

Evidence can include police reports, medical records, photographs of injuries, text messages, or any documentation showing a history of abuse or threats.

Can I get a DVRO against a roommate or friend?

Yes, if you have lived together or have a relationship that qualifies under California law, you can file for a DVRO, provided there is evidence of abuse.

What happens if the abuser violates the DVRO?

If the abuser violates the conditions of the DVRO, you should contact the police immediately. Violating a restraining order is a criminal offense, and legal consequences can ensue.

Get Help Filing for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

If you find yourself in a situation involving domestic violence, understanding your rights and options is crucial. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order can provide the necessary protection and serve as a vital step toward gaining control over your life. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger is here to guide you through this challenging process with compassion and expertise. Remember, you don’t have to face this alone—support and protection are available.

 

What Qualifies as Domestic Violence in California?

What Qualifies as Domestic Violence in California?

What acts qualify as Domestic Violence under California Law? Suffering physical, psychological, or emotional abuse is never OK. Get the facts about Domestic Violence and when you should request a domestic violence restraining order to protect you and your family. California Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger can help you understand when you should petition the court for a restraining order.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Defining Domestic Violence

The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as: “Domestic violence is a pattern of abusive behavior in any relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, psychological, or technological actions or threats of actions or other patterns of coercive behavior that influence another person within an intimate partner relationship. This includes any behaviors that intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, isolate, frighten, terrorize, coerce, threaten, blame, hurt, injure, or wound someone.”

Domestic violence, according to California law, encompasses any type of abuse inflicted upon an “intimate partner.” This includes the deliberate or careless application of physical force against the individual or the act of threatening to use force against them.

The California Penal Code defines an “intimate partner” in the broadest possible way, so that can include:

  • Your spouse
  • Your former spouse
  • Your domestic partner
  • Your former domestic partner
  • A person with whom you’ve had a child
  • A current live-in romantic partner
  • A former live-in romantic partner
  • Someone you date
  • A person you dated previously

Other persons may also be victims of domestic violence under CA law:

  • Children
  • Your brother/half-brother/step-brother
  • Your sister/half-sister/step-sister
  • Parents
  • Grandparents
  • Your niece
  • Your nephew
  • Your uncle
  • Your aunt
  • Anyone related to you within the second degree by blood or marriage

Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist who can be a strong and aggressive advocate in highly conflicted domestic matters when you need the law on your side. Contact us for immediate help.

Common Acts of Domestic Violence

Charges of domestic violence vary under California law, depending on the severity of the crime and the surrounding circumstances. Many violent acts are specifically defined under the Penal Code. Some of the most common include:

  • Corporal Injury Upon a Spouse or Cohabitant – this counts even for slight injuries.
  • Child Abuse – is defined as inflicting “cruel or inhuman corporal punishment or an injury resulting in a traumatic condition” upon a child. 
  • Domestic Battery – using force or inflicting harm on an intimate partner.
  • Child Endangerment – willfully allowing a child in your care to be harmed or allowing her or his safety to be endangered, including actions or neglect.
  • Child Neglect – this is willfully neglecting to provide the basic necessities for your minor children.
  • Stalking – harassing or threatening so as to cause fear for your or your family’s safety.
  • Criminal Threats – threatening anyone with serious harm.
  • Aggravated Trespass – entering a home or workplace to carry out a threat within thirty days of making it.
  • Posting Harmful Information on the Internet (“Cyberstalking”) – making harmful information about someone else available by posting or emailing the material.
  • “Revenge Porn” – intentional distribution of sexual images of another person with the intent to cause them emotional distress.

Domestic Violence Penalties In California

In California, most domestic violence offenses are known as “wobbler” offenses, which means they can be charged as either misdemeanors or felonies, depending on the specifics of the case. Factors such as prior criminal record and the extent of the victim’s injuries are considered when determining whether to pursue misdemeanor or felony charges for an act of domestic violence.

Penalties range from probation with certain freedoms to fines, county jail, or state prison time. Domestic violence misdemeanor convictions also impose a ten-year ban on owning or possessing firearms. Persons convicted of felony domestic violence charges fall under the “Felon In Possession of a Firearm” law and are under a lifetime ban from owning firearms.

Some federal domestic violence misdemeanors also impart a lifetime firearm ownership ban.

Get Help with Domestic Violence Crimes In California

You should never hesitate to act when you believe you or your child are victims of domestic violence. Do not wonder how long you must suffer – when you or your child experience abuse or feel threatened, that is the time to act. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for immediate assistance with obtaining a restraining order.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.