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Family Lawyer or Certified Family Law Specialist?
California Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Domestic Violence, Legal Separation, Property Division, Restraining Order, Spousal Support, Termination of Parental Rights, Termination of Parental Rights, Visitation

Family Lawyer or Certified Family Law Specialist?

When family law matters occur, you need a family lawyer, right? But what about complex situations? A Certified Family Law Specialist is just that – a certified specialist who handles complicated and difficult family law cases. When you have a heart problem, you don’t want a general practitioner; you want a heart specialist. Similarly, when your family has serious problems, turn to a CA Certified Family Law Specialist like Judy L. Burger.

What Is a Certified Family Law Specialist?

A Certified Family Law Specialist is an attorney who has been certified by the State Bar of California Board of Legal Specialization as having expertise in the area of family law. This certification is only awarded to attorneys who have demonstrated a high level of experience, proficiency, and commitment to family law through a rigorous process that includes examination and peer review. Certified Family Law Specialists are recognized for their specialized knowledge and proficiency in handling complex family law matters, including divorce, child custody, spousal support, complex property divisions, and other related issues.

A Certified Specialist Has Extensive Experience in Complex Cases

Certified Family Law Specialists are required to maintain their expertise by handling complex family law cases in order to expand their knowledge and experience. To maintain their certification, they must undergo recertification every five years, which involves completing additional continuing education and applying their extensive knowledge to assist California families.

A CFLS will have considerable experience with:

  • Divisive legal separations after a long marriage
  • Difficult divorces where the parties cannot agree on anything
  • Military divorces where both parties are actively serving
  • Complex business valuations where both spouses are owners
  • Sophisticated property divisions involving retirement and other investments
  • Heated mediations over support agreements
  • Emotionally charged situations involving different family backgrounds
  • Intense negotiations involving children and custody
  • Heart-wrenching discussions over grandparents’ rights
  • Litigating difficult child custody and support cases
  • Ex parte “emergency” hearings to stop or prevent abuse
  • Domestic violence assistance for spouses and children
  • Complex paternity issues for fathers
  • Completing and filing voluminous paperwork
  • More…

Experienced and highly knowledgeable in family law, Judy Burger, a Certified Family Law Specialist, brings a wealth of expertise and legal acumen to the table. Her extensive education, years of practical experience, and specialized certification make her an ideal choice for obtaining the results you seek in your family law matters.

A Family Law Generalist May Not Be Enough

Difficult family law matters are often mentally and emotionally challenging. The possible complexities and problems are legion and no two cases are alike. A general family law attorney may know the law, but highly charged issues with layers of complexity can be beyond their level of expertise. Realizing your lawyer is out of his or her depth in the middle of your divorce, child custody battle, or other personal matter is far too late. You could risk:

  • Losing custody
  • Limited visitation rights
  • Surrendering valuable assets
  • Burdensome support agreements
  • Your personal safety
  • Your family’s welfare
  • Your reputation
  • Your future

An experienced CFLS like Judy Burger encounters tough cases on a regular basis, so she has experience and resources a general family law attorney simply doesn’t have. If you anticipate a volatile situation in the making, now is the time to see a specialist for seasoned guidance, advice, and representation.

Don’t risk your safety, your family, or your future. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, Certified CA Family Law Specialist, to schedule a consultation today. Our team is prepared to go above and beyond what a mere family lawyer can do for you!

 

Top 10 FAQs About California Military Divorce
California Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Property Division, Visitation

Top 10 FAQs About California Military Divorce

Serving in the armed forces can place an incredible strain on a marriage. In fact, the current divorce rate among military couples is around 4.8%, compared to about 2.5% in the general population. Military divorce is essentially the same as a civilian divorce, except some federal laws will apply. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger shares the top ten frequently asked questions she often fields about California military divorce.

#1. Do I Need a Military Lawyer (JAG) for a Military Divorce?

While most military posts have legal assistance attorneys from the Judge Advocate General’s Corps available for advice, they do not handle divorces. You need a family law/divorce attorney in your state to handle your military divorce. To file for divorce in California, one of the spouses must be a California resident for at least six months and have lived in the filing county for at least three months.

#2. Will the Military Serve Divorce Papers to My Spouse?

The military services may help you locate your spouse, especially if they are on an overseas deployment, but they are not required to serve divorce papers for you. A California divorce lawyer can help you serve divorce papers.

#3. Can I Get a Default Judgement for a Military Divorce in California?

While default judgments in many civil law cases are permissible, the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) prevents this in military divorces. The court may permit up to a 90-day delay to allow active-duty service members to respond to a divorce petition.

#4. Does Child Custody Automatically Go to the Non-Military Spouse in a Military Divorce?

This is a popular misconception that is false. California courts do not discriminate against active-duty military parents when deciding child custody issues. The court will consider all relevant factors and decide according to the child’s best interests.

#5. Are Military Service Members Required to Pay Child Support?

A California family law court may order child support from either spouse, regardless of if they are military or not. However, a service member’s child support obligation cannot exceed 60% of their disposable income. Spousal and child support is taken seriously in the military, as is paying any debt. Service members who fail to meet their financial obligations may be subject to court martial or other disciplinary actions.

#6. How Is Property Divided in a Military Divorce?

California’s “community property” laws apply when dividing property in a military divorce. However, some federal provisions apply to benefits like military pensions. CA Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can explain more about military divorce property divisions in a confidential consultation.

#7. Can I Still Get Military Benefits After a Divorce?

Asset divisions in a military divorce are often governed by the “20/20/20 Rule.” In order to receive military benefits after divorcing a service member:

  • You must have been married for at least 20 years.
  • Your ex-spouse must have served in the military for at least 20 years.
  • Your 20 years of marriage must overlap with 20 years of your ex-spouse’s military service.

This only applies as long as you do not remarry. There are variations to this rule, so consult with a Military Divorce Lawyer like Judy Burger for the most up-to-date information.

#8. Will the Military Pay to Move a Spouse Back to the United States After a Divorce?

In the event of a divorce occurring overseas, the military may cover the moving expenses of the nonmilitary spouse. Typically, other moving expenses are subject to negotiation and are determined as part of the final divorce agreement.

#9: I’m Originally from Another State. Can I Get a Military Divorce in CA?

Yes. If you and your military spouse are stationed in California and you have established residency here for at least six months, you can file for a divorce in California.

#10. Where Do I Start a Military Divorce in California?

Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for more information about Military Divorce in California. We have eight offices throughout the state, and several are convenient to major military bases. Get the experienced help and guidance you need in a military divorce. Contact us today to schedule a confidential consultation near you.

Is It Time for a New Parenting Plan? custody and visitation
Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation

Is It Time for a New Parenting Plan?

Divorce is often painful and difficult, but parents don’t want to transmit this anguish to their children. Child custody and visitation agreements hammered out in your parenting plan and approved by the court are designed to protect your children and provide what is best for them. However, circumstances can change and require modifications. Is it time for a new parenting plan? Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger examines when you should consider making some changes.

What Is a Parenting Plan?

A parenting plan outlines how parents will share the responsibilities of raising their children after a divorce or separation. It typically includes details on how much time the children will spend with each parent, how major decisions about the children’s upbringing will be made, and how conflicts or disagreements between the parents will be resolved. The parenting plan is filed with the court and becomes a legally binding agreement.

Reasons to Change Child Custody and Visitation in Your Parenting Plan

Life happens to everyone and adjustments are part of it. Sometimes this means a new patenting plan must be figured out to address new needs, changes, or demands. Here are five signs that it’s time to change your joint parenting plan.

Changes in Your Child’s Needs

Children’s needs change as they age. This could be going to a new school, taking on new extracurricular activities or hobbies, medical needs or health changes, and more. The possibilities are endless and every parent knows that you have to adjust to these new realities. Your parenting plan may need revisions to reflect these new changes and how each parent will accommodate them.

Changes in Your Work or Living Situation

Adults face changes throughout life, too. You or your ex-spouse could move, start a new job, go to college, or start new activities that require adjustments in child custody, support, or visitation arrangements. A CA Family Law Attorney like Judy Burger can help you negotiate the new changes and get them approved by the court.

Changes in a Parent’s Situation

Changes in the other parent’s living situation will also require you to make adjustments. For example, if your ex-spouse remarries, has additional children, moves, or starts a new job in another city, this will impact how you care for your child and meet their needs. These changes can be difficult at times, but a family law specialist knows how to help you make satisfactory changes and keep your own life on track.

Conflict or Tension Between Parents

Co-parents who now lead different lives but share a child and parenting responsibilities can experience conflict or tension. Sometimes your parenting plan must change to improve communication or reduce the stresses on your children. For example, trusted third parties may need to pick up and drop off children to prevent parental conflicts.

Concerns About Your Child’s Safety

Your child’s safety and well-being are your primary concerns. Any threats or concerns about their physical, mental, or emotional stability demand immediate changes to your parenting plan. California Family Lawyer Judy Burger can work with you to modify custody arrangements and visitation plans to address specific concerns. She can also help you obtain ex-parte “emergency” hearings and domestic violence restraining orders if necessary.

Get Help with Child Custody and Visitation Arrangements in Your CA Parenting Plan

Attorney Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist in California with extensive experience in child custody, visitation, support, and related issues. She can help you work out details of a new parenting plan that reflects recent changes in your parenting situation and file it with the court. Contact one of her eight offices across California to schedule a consultation.

 

May an Imprisoned Parent Have Child Visitation Rights in California?
Child Custody, Termination of Parental Rights, Visitation

May an Imprisoned Parent Have Child Visitation Rights in California?

Almost 200,000 kids in California have a parent in jail. This can create complex parenting and custody issues. One of the thorniest problems can be child visitation rights for the incarcerated parent. The parent’s crimes, existing relationship with the child and other parent, and the attitude of the Family Court all have an impact on decisions.

Under California law, any solution must ensure the child’s best interests. This means there can be many options and solutions. Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger examines the question, “May an imprisoned parent have child visitation rights in California?”

Fast Facts About CA Child Custody and Incarceration

Although there are thousands of families with an incarcerated parent, there is much confusion surrounding this issue. Here are some fast facts about the topic:

  1. Incarceration does not automatically terminate your parenting rights. This can only happen in a limited number of situations.
  2. Imprisonment in California is not automatically considered abandonment of a child as it is in a few other states.
  3. Child custody and parental rights are different issues. The other parent or a grandparent may be granted custodial care of your child while you are in jail, but this does not surrender your parental rights.
  4. Incarceration does not abrogate you from your child support obligations. Making child support payments can help prove you have not abandoned your child and take your parental responsibilities seriously.
  5. You are still entitled to be present in any hearing regarding your parental rights and the matters relating to your child while in prison.  

Child Visitation Rights for CA Inmates

A Family Court may determine that the child’s best interests are met by granting visitation rights to an incarcerated parent. If so, there will likely be stringent guidelines to ensure the child’s safety and well-being. A California Family Law Attorney like Judy L. Burger can help the inmate negotiate the best possible conditions for visiting with their child.

A new law in California takes effect on January 1, 2024, to make it easier for incarcerated parents to obtain visitation rights with their children. The Keep Families Close Act now allows incarcerated parents to request a transfer to a facility near their families. Since 2019 data from the CDCR revealed that over 75% of incarcerated persons are located over 100 miles from their homes, this legislation is a welcome boon for inmates.

According to California Department of Correction and Rehabilitation (CDCR) data from 2019, over 75% of people in prisons are incarcerated more than 100 miles away from their homes  According to CDCR data from 2019, over 75% of people in prisons are incarcerated over 100 miles away from their homes. Parents who committed crimes against their child or other serious crimes are exempted.

Moreover, the Family Dignity Act will make the visitation process for families simpler by adopting digital technology. Families will now be able to scan and upload birth certificates so they can be digitally retrieved on each visit and not have to be brought every time.

Help with Child Custody, Support, and Visitation Matters in California

Child custody, support, and visitation issues with an incarcerated parent can be difficult and many factors can impact the court’s decisions. A parent sentenced to prison, currently in prison, or about to be released from prison will need counsel and representation from a CA Family Law Attorney. Similarly, the custodial parent or guardian of the child will need advice and representation to ensure the child’s best interests are ensured.

Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger and her team understand the specific challenges relating to an incarcerated parent and their family. We can help you work out the best arrangements for your family’s welfare and happiness during any phase of the parent’s jail tenure. Contact the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger by phone or online to request a confidential consultation.

My Parenting Plan Isn’t Working. Can I Change It
Child Custody, Visitation

My Parenting Plan Isn’t Working. Can I Change It?

Divorced parents still have a strong connection – through their children. In the midst of making decisions about schooling, vacations, and health care, moms and dads have to stick to their parenting plan. But what if that parenting plan isn’t working anymore?

Why Plans Come Unstuck

People’s lives change over time. Your divorce is living proof of this.

Adults may change jobs, buy or sell homes, and learn more about their likes and dislikes. Friends and family members may move or even pass away. Many people face these changes and just adjust their lives accordingly.

As children grow, they also experience changes in activities, friends, and more. Parents might find that a visitation schedule no longer fits their children’s current list of activities – which, frankly, may change again in a year or so, depending on the kids’ ages.

Sometimes sticking to the parenting plan you negotiated during your divorce seems like trying to stuff a square peg into a round hole. If that’s the case, it may be time to make some adjustments. And there are ways to do just that.

And How to Fix a Parenting Plan That Isn’t Working

Before your divorce could be finalized, you and your co-parent had to negotiate and finalize your parenting plan. Thinking back on what your parenting plan includes can help you figure out if it’s time to alter it. That’s because parenting plans can be very specific or just have general guidelines.

First, review your plan to refresh your memory. If you and your ex-spouse are amicable, at least when it comes to your children, you may have inadvertently done things that are not spelled out in your plan. For example, you may have changed your spouse’s mid-week visitation day from Wednesday to Tuesday because little Johnny has soccer practice on Wednesday.

While it’s great to agree on alterations amicably, you must get the modifications in writing and file with the Court in order for it to become a Court order. It’s important to be clear about both parent’s obligations and responsibilities.

If changes are needed, talk to your divorce lawyer first. Your options for fixing your parenting plan include:

  • Negotiating a new agreement,
  • Meeting with a family mediator if you and your co-parent can’t agree on modifications, and
  • Asking a court to approve or order changes to the plan.

There’s no need to stick with a parenting plan that doesn’t fit anymore. Parenting plans are intended to help you help your kids, so consider fixing issues as they arise.

You Have Options When a Parenting Plan Isn’t Working.

Instead of increasing your stress levels—and, more importantly, your children’s – talk to an experienced California divorce attorney about making your plan work again.

The attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger are experienced at all phases of divorce, legal separation, and annulment. Call us at 415-293-8314 to schedule a private appointment or visit our website. We assist clients along California’s Northern to Southern Coast, including San Francisco, Beverly Hills, Marin, San Jose, Gold River, San Diego, Santa Barbara, Ventura/Oxnard, and surrounding communities.

Can Grandparents Get Visitation Rights
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Can Grandparents Get Visitation Rights?

Danny was confused by so many things going on in his life right now. His mom and dad were splitting up, which meant they would not all be living together as a family anymore. Danny and his mom had to move away from his school and friends. But one of the worst things was not being able to see his grandpa and grandma. His parents had some pretty loud arguments about something called visitation. Danny wondered if grandparents get visitation rights, too. Let’s look at what the law says about visitation rights, specifically for grandparents.

Children and Parenting Plans

Judges usually will not finalize a divorce where the couple has children until a parenting plan is complete. If the parents are unable to agree on a plan, the judge will do it for them.

Parenting plans cover:

  • What type of custody each parent will have (joint physical custody, for example),
  • When the children will spend time with each parent (visitation), and
  • How the parents will make decisions about their children.

For example, Danny’s parents both want full custody of him. But he has always spent more time with his mother than his father, and his father travels a lot for his business. The judge might consider giving Danny’s mom sole physical custody, with a generous visitation schedule for his dad. An alternative might be sole legal custody of Danny with joint physical custody. If his parents cannot agree on custody, the judge will do what’s best for Danny.

Parenting plans spell out visitation in detail, including where the child will spend holidays. For example, Danny might spend Christmas with dad one year and mom the next. Summer holidays might be split between the parents, or he might get to spend several months with his dad exclusively. Parenting plans should conform to what is best for the child’s individual needs as much as possible.

But what about grandparents? Are they included in the plan?

Grandparent Visitation Rights

Parents could let their child’s grandparents get visitation rights and add them to the visitation schedule. Sometimes one or both parents are not okay with granting access for some reason. There are ways for grandparents to see their grandkids if they are not in the parenting plan.

In California, grandparents can petition the court for reasonable visitation rights. However, the family court judge will need to see:

That there’s a pre-existing bond between the child and his or her grandparents.

AND

That allowing grandparent visitation can be balanced with the parent’s rights to make decisions for their children.

The law states that courts may use their discretion to award reasonable visitation rights to “any other person having an interest in the welfare of the child.” So, courts could order that grandparents get visitation rights. However, either or both parents could ask the court to deny visitation.

The Final Word on Whether Grandparents Get Visitation Rights or Not

A family court judge will make the final decision on visitation, including allowing grandparent visitation. Doing what is right for the child will always be the default position for family court judges. Judges can and do deny access if visitation is not in the child’s best interests.

Please call us at (415) 293-8314 to schedule a confidential appointment with one of our attorneys. Ms. Burger is a California Certified Family Law Specialist and founder of the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger. We assist clients in California’s Northern to Southern Coast, including San Francisco, Beverly Hills, Gold River, San Diego, Santa Barbara, Ventura/Oxnard, and surrounding communities.

Planning Your Children’s Summer Holidays with Your Ex-Spouse
Child Custody, Visitation

Planning Your Children’s Summer Holidays with Your Ex-Spouse

Amanda likes to schedule her children’s summer holidays far in advance. This year, she plans to take them to a camp in Colorado for two weeks in July. In fact, she has already made the reservations. However, the children’s father, Jacob, disagrees with her plan. He was already planning stuff for the kids to do in July and has put down several non-refundable deposits. Since the divorce, Amanda and Jacob have handled their children’s schedules amicably for the most part. But planning your children’s summer holidays with your ex-spouse is no picnic, and they can’t get past their current disagreement. What can divorced parents who disagree about their children’s schedules do?

Look to the Parenting Plan

Parents must negotiate a parenting plan before their divorce can be finalized. There are good reasons for this.

Parenting plans make sure both parents know where they stand when it comes to some very important issues, including their children’s holidays. During negotiations, parents can stake out holidays that mean the most to them. Most people include their children’s summer schedule in their parenting plan.  

Under Amanda and Jacob’s parenting plan, Amanda should have the children in June and August. Jacob is supposed to have them the entire month of July. In the current scenario, Amanda’s planned vacation contradicts the negotiated parenting plan.

But Life Changes

Sometimes parenting plans no longer fit. Jacob and Amanda can speak to their attorneys about revising the plan at any time. The children’s summer plans can be changed, as well as any other holidays. If divorced parents cannot settle their disagreements, then mediation or court intervention might be necessary. However, it’s generally best for the children if parents can work out minor disagreements on their own.

Being proactive also can go a long way toward preventing disputes from blowing out of proportion. Had Amanda discussed her plans with Jacob before either of them made reservations or put down non-refundable deposits, they might have reached an amicable compromise. As it stands now, their disagreement could spoil the children’s summer holiday and create tension between the parents and their kids.

Are You and Your Ex-Spouse Fighting Over the Children’s Summer Holidays?

Hopefully not. But if you find yourselves at odds over any aspect of your parenting plan, talk to a family law attorney as soon as possible. And always remember that courts make decisions based on what is best for the children.

The attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger are experienced at all phases of divorce, legal separation, and annulment. Call us at 415-293-8314 to schedule a private appointment or visit our website. We assist clients along California’s Northern to Southern Coast, including San Francisco, Beverly Hills, Gold River, San Diego, Santa Barbara, Ventura/Oxnard, and surrounding communities.

Can Step-Parents Get Visitation Rights
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Can Step-Parents Get Visitation Rights?

Kristen’s husband died when their two children were very young. Three years later, she married Brendan. Soon, Brendan became close to the children, attended ball games, and helped with homework. When Kristen filed for divorce, Brendan was left wondering if step-parents get visitation rights. Would he be allowed to participate in the kids’ lives even though he was not the children’s biological father?

California Visitation Rights, Generally

When parents divorce, they must prepare a parenting plan and submit it to the court for approval. Their plan describes how to split parenting time. Plans typically set out weekly visitation, as well as a holiday schedule.

Child custody also plays a part in visitation. The judge may award sole physical custody, sole legal custody, joint physical custody, or joint legal custody. Depending on the type of custody, a child might live with a custodial parent and only visit the non-custodial parent.

But custody and visitation are usually decided between biological parents. What happens when a step-parent like Brendan asks for visitation.

Step-Parents Visitation and the Kids

Despite living with the children for years, Brendan is not legally considered to be their father. As such, he is not automatically qualified to be considered for custody or visitation.

However, step-parents may petition the court for visitation rights. In fact, California law states that:

“Children have a fundamental right to maintain healthy, stable relationships with a person who has served in a significant, judicially approved parental role.”

Courts may consider Brendan to have served as a parent, and award visitation rights to him. Generally, courts might grant visitation rights to anyone who has an interest in the child’s welfare.

Reasons to Deny Step-Parent Visitation Rights

California law specifically states that reasonable visitation rights will be granted, “if visitation by the step-parent is determined to be in the best interest of the child.” However, judges tend to deny step-parent visitation rights if they feel such visitation is not in the best interests of the child.

Call to Learn More About Step-Parents and Visitation Rights

If you are a step-parent who is fighting to visit your step-kids, contact us to learn more about your options. We can also help if you have reasons for blocking step-parent visitation with your children.

The attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger are experienced at all phases of divorce, including child custody and visitation. Call us at 415-293-8314 to schedule a private appointment or visit our website. We maintain offices in San Francisco, San Diego, Beverly Hills, Marin County, Santa Barbara, Ventura/Oxnard, San Jose, Gold River (Sacramento), and surrounding communities.

Helping Kids Cope with divorce and COVID-19
Child Custody, Child Support, Visitation

Helping Kids Cope with Divorce and COVID-19

Modern life can be hectic, even without complications like divorce and COVID-19. Adult stress levels are at all-time highs right now. But what about our children? How are they handling major lifestyle changes? As a divorced or soon-to-be-divorced parent, helping kids cope with both divorce and COVID-19 may be a high priority. In this article, we offer some tips that may help you and your children. Continue reading →