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Child Custody, California Divorce, Termination of Parental Rights

Child Custody and Establishing Paternity

June 27, 2024 TRIWriter

Children deserve to have a strong bond with good parents and be protected from inappropriate, dangerous, or abusive behavior. This is why child custody matters are so critical. Obtaining custody of your child and establishing paternity can be a tough challenge, but experienced legal guidance and representation can help.

Attorney Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist in California with extensive experience in child custody and paternity cases. She discusses these vital issues below.

Why Is Paternity So Important?

Establishing a child’s legal parentage is critical because many things depend on it. Legal parents have significant rights and responsibilities that directly influence the child’s well-being.

Legal parents:

Can ask for custody and visitation
Are required to support their child financially
Are listed on a California birth certificate
Can bequeath financial benefits to their child
Can guarantee U.S. citizenship, even if the child was born outside the country

Determining a child’s legal parents can involve emotional and complex issues and is best handled with the guidance of a family law attorney. Judy Burger can help you establish parentage of a child in California.

Ways to Establish Legal Parentage

California law establishes legal parentage in the following circumstances:

You are the child’s birth parent (not a surrogate)
You and the other parent were married or registered domestic partners when your child was born or conceived
You and the other parent filed a Declaration that establishes you as the legal parents
A judge determined that you are a legal parent in a court case

You and the other parent can establish legal parentage for your child by completing and filing a Voluntary Declaration of Parentage (VDOP) form. This is typically done when the child is born but can be completed later. This becomes a binding legal document similar to a court order.

A California Family Law Court can determine the legal parentage of a child and establish child custody and support orders if necessary. California law allows fathers up to three years after the child’s 18^th birthday to legally establish paternity.

Father’s Rights and Paternity

California law distinguishes between a “parent” and a “biological father.” Once the biological father has established his parental rights, he can legally request custody or visitation, pay or receive child support, and make decisions on the child’s behalf. The mother cannot deny the father’s legal rights once paternity has been established unless exceptional circumstances have been recognized by the court.

Although a man may be the biological father of a child, paternity can only be legally established through adoption, marriage, or a court order. If a child is born outside of marriage or as a result of an extramarital affair, the biological father has no legal rights. In such cases, the woman’s legal spouse would automatically be granted paternity rights over the child. However, a biological father has up to two years from the date of the child’s birth to petition the court for a paternity test.

Experienced CA Child Custody and Paternity Lawyer

Judy L. Burger is an experienced CA Child Custody and Paternity Lawyer with eight offices across the Golden State. She is a Certified Family Law Specialist with extensive knowledge and expertise in handling volatile and complex cases where paternity is an issue and child custody questions are at stake. When your family life and responsibilities are in question or other problems arise with paternity, Ms. Burger can help you fight for what is best for your child.

Contact her nearest office today to schedule a confidential consultation to discuss your situation and get sound legal advice. Judy and her team care, and we know how to help.

Property Division, California Divorce, Property Division

Splitting Liabilities in a CA Divorce

June 20, 2024 TRIWriter

Dividing assets and liabilities in a California divorce can be problematic. Some elements of property division are not cut and dried, and many factors can influence how these arrangements are made. Many are concerned about getting their share of the assets from a marriage, but what happens to the debts?

Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger addresses the complexities involved in splitting liabilities in a CA divorce and how she can help.

Community Property and Debt

California operates under the community property principle, a system designed to ensure fairness. This means generally that, in the absence of other arrangements, both parties will receive an equal share of everything they acquired while married. Any separate property owned before the marriage or obtained after the separation remains the owner’s sole property, providing a sense of security in the process. There are complex exceptions to the division of property acquired during marriage or prior to marriage.

However, the community property principle also applies to debt. Other arrangements can also come into play here, but typically, both parties in a divorce are responsible for half of the debt incurred during the marriage.. Unfortunately, these issues are not always so black and white—they more often appear filled with grey areas.

A CA Property Division Lawyer like Judy Burger can work with you to help make the best decisions and arrangements.

Dividing Debt in a California Divorce

Property division can be confusing because of so many potential exceptions relating to community, separate, and co-mingled assets. Here are just a few potential examples:

The divorcing couple’s marital debts are greater than the value of their community assets. A family law judge may assign more debt to the spouse earning more income.
Some marital debt incurred by one spouse may be ruled as separate debt by the judge due to extenuating circumstances (like a cheating spouse using family money to buy gifts or fund travel for the affair).
Student debt funded by marital income may be ruled as separate debt to the one benefitting from the education. One spouse may be directed to reimburse the other for a portion of the student debt already paid.

Complex situations like these are why you need an experienced CA property division lawyer on your team to help ensure you are treated fairly.

Date of Separation and Property Division

California is somewhat unique in that it uses the date of your separation to distinguish between most marital and separate property. Most other states use the official date of the divorce. Once both parties agree the marriage is over, they are considered to be leading separate lives (even if they still live together). From that moment, both are acquiring separate assets and debts.

This is a significant matter in your divorce, but agreeing on a specific date of separation can be tricky. The exact date can be argued from many points and affects which assets and debts are to be retained, split, or surrendered to the other spouse.

Get Experienced Help with CA Property Division

California Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger has the resources, working relationships, and expertise to help with the most complex property and debt divisions and business valuations. She harnesses the expertise of various professionals to help ascertain pertinent facts that influence who should be responsible for debts and how assets are to be divided.

Spouses and their attorneys cannot always be trusted to act fairly, so you need an experienced lawyer guarding your best interests. Decisions and arrangements made during these negotiations can affect your life and future. Contact Attorney Judy Burger at one of her eight offices conveniently located throughout California to schedule a consultation.

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What Makes a CA Certified Family Law Specialist Different?

June 6, 2024 TRIWriter

Family law matters are often intensely personal and highly emotional. Dealing with families and relationships is always complex and much is at stake for everyone involved. You want more than an attorney when family law issues arise – you want a specialist. California Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist who is able to handle complex personal cases through court petitions, negotiation, and litigation.

What makes a CA Certified Family Law Specialist different from run-of-the-mill family law and divorce lawyers?

A High Level of Specialization

Obtaining a law degree and passing the California State Bar exam to practice law is only the beginning. Certified specialists in any area of law must pass a rigorous set or requirements to demonstrate their exceptional knowledge, experience, and proficiency. Only after completing this extensive process does the state bar award the attorney a specialist certificate.

To become a Certified Family Law Specialist in CA, attorneys must satisfy the following prerequisites:

Pass a written examination
Continuously practice law in their specialty area for at least five years
Complete continuing education in their specialty area
Receive favorable evaluations by other attorneys and judges
Demonstrate experience in a variety of family law matters, including divorce, child custody, child and spousal support, domestic violence restraining orders, property division, and more.

Becoming a certified family law specialist takes time, experience, and extensive knowledge.

Superior Experience in Family Law Cases

Certified Family Law Specialists must continue to demonstrate their expertise by handling complex family law cases to further broaden their knowledge and experience. Recertification every five years requires more continuing education while putting this extensive knowledge into action helping California families.

A CFLS will have considerable experience with:

Messy divorces
Complex business valuations
Sophisticated property divisions
Tense negotiations
Filing petitions with the court
Advising clients
Litigating difficult child custody and support cases
Ex parte hearings
Domestic violence
More…

Seasoned representation by a Certified Family Law Specialist like Judy Burger means the putting encyclopedic knowledge, extensive education, years of real-world experience, and measured expertise in your corner. She is vastly more qualified to help you get the results you need and want than other non-certified family law attorneys.

Why Should I Choose a Certified Family Law Specialist Instead of a Family Law Attorney?

Family law matters can be rough on you mentally and emotionally. The possible complexities and problems are legion and specific to every case. However, a CFLS has likely encountered similar cases before and has experience helping families find solutions. If you anticipate a difficult road ahead in your divorce, child custody, support, or related matters, choose a CFLS like Judy L. Burger.

Here are some examples of cases where we recommend a Certified Family Law Specialist:

Both parties have agreed to a divorce, but that’s all you agree on.
You have differences of opinion about matters like college debt, large real estate holdings, retirement funds, and other asset divisions.
You have small children still at home and cannot agree on a custody and support arrangement.
Both parties grew up in different cultures, so family rights and extended family concerns are involved.
Both parties jointly own a business.
One or both divorcing parties are active duty military.
You or your child’s safety is threatened.
You or your child are victims of abuse.

CFLS Judy Burger has trained for just these and many other situations so she knows how to help you. In fact, she’s been there with other families before. She can guide you through negotiations, difficult conversations, far-reaching decisions, and even embattled litigation with compassion and fortitude.

When you need stable counsel and steady legal representation through one of the most difficult times of your life, you need the services of a Certified Family Law Specialist. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger as soon as possible to discuss your case and next steps. We have offices throughout California for your convenience.

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Exploring Business Valuations in a Property Division

May 23, 2024 TRIWriter

One of the most contentious issues in divorce proceedings is dividing property and assets. This can be especially challenging when a couple owns a business together. In such cases, business valuations are an integral part of the property division process. CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger understands the intricacies of business valuations in a property division.

She has numerous long-term working relationships with area Forensic Accountants and Actuaries, Ligation Real Estate Appraisers, Real Estate Attorneys, Business and Corporate Attorneys, Title Companies, and Real Estate Professionals who assist her when business valuations are needed for a divorce case.

Let’s explore this topic a bit further.

What Are Business Valuations?

Business valuations are the process of determining the economic value of a business or company. It is a complex process that involves analyzing the financial records of the company, its assets, liabilities, market competition, and other relevant factors. The value of a business includes various factors, including, but not limited to the following:

Profitability
Growth potential
Future earnings prospects
Market competition
Industry trends
Capital structure
Market value of assets
Company management

A jointly-owned business is considered to be an asset in divorce cases and is subject to division between the divorcing spouses. This can often be challenging because each spouse may have differing options about the value of the business, and some of these may be difficult to quantify objectively. As a result, disputes and conflicts are common.

Attorney Judy Burger works with respected professionals who are experienced business valuation experts to help overcome these challenges. They partner together to thoroughly analyze the financial records, assess assets and liabilities, and consider other relevant factors that impact the company’s value.

Methods of Business Valuations

Selecting the correct valuation method is one of the most critical factors in business valuations. Several valuation methods are available. Choosing the best method depends on the type of business, its size, and other relevant factors. Judy Burger and her team of experts choose the most appropriate method for valuing the business.

There are over a dozen different business valuation methods, but these are the most common:

Asset-based Approach

Also called the book value method, this valuation method is based on the value of the company’s assets, including its tangible and intangible assets. The expert will consider the value of the company’s assets, such as its inventory, property, and equipment, and subtract its liabilities to arrive at the net asset value of the business.

Income-based Approach

This valuation method is based on the income generated by the business. The expert will assess the company’s historical and projected earnings and apply an appropriate capitalization rate or discount rate to arrive at the present value of the business.

Market-based Approach

This valuation method is based on the market value of similar businesses. The expert will analyze the sales of comparable businesses and arrive at a fair market value for the business being valued.

Times Revenue Method

The times revenue valuation method uses a multiplier dependent on the industry and economic environment of the business. It is applied to a stream of revenues generated over a certain period of time.

Get Help with Business Valuations and Property Division in a CA Divorce

Establishing the correct value of a business in a divorce case can be a challenging process, so it requires skills and expertise. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger works with experienced valuation experts to ensure a fair and accurate valuation of your business. She is tenacious regarding fairness and preserving your rights throughout the divorce and property division journey.

Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for more information and to schedule a consultation.

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Your Top 10 FAQs Answered About Family Law in California

May 16, 2024 TRIWriter

Family law deals with issues like divorce, child custody, child support, alimony, and property division. If you are going through a family law issue in California, you likely have many questions about the process and your rights. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger answers the top ten questions we’re asked at our California practice about Family Law matters.

Of course, we can only provide the barest facts in an article. More complete explanations and answers to other questions are available in a complimentary consultation. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger to schedule your consultation.

Top 10 Family Law FAQs

Review these common questions clients routinely ask Attorney Judy Burger during initial consultations at her offices.

1. What is the process for getting a divorce in California?

To get a divorce in California, you must file a petition for dissolution of marriage with the court. You will need to serve your spouse with the petition and wait for their response. If you and your spouse cannot reach an agreement on all issues, such as child custody and property division, the court will schedule a trial to decide these issues for you.

2. How is child custody determined in California?

California courts determine child custody based on the best interests of the child. The court will consider factors such as the child’s age, health, and relationship with each parent. Generally, the court prefers frequent and continuous contact with both parents as long as it is in the child’s best interests.

3. How is child support determined in California?

California law provides guidelines for determining child support. The guidelines take into account the net disposable income of each parent and the amount of time each parent spends with the child. Other factors, such as the child’s needs and the standard of living before the divorce, may also be considered.

4. What is spousal support in California?

Spousal support, also known as alimony, is financial support paid from one spouse to the other after a divorce. Spousal support can be temporary or permanent, depending on the circumstances of the case.

5. How is spousal support determined in California?

California law requires the court to consider various factors when determining spousal support, including the length of the marriage, the standard of living before the divorce, and the age and health of each spouse. The court has discretion in determining the amount and duration of spousal support.

6. How is property divided in a California divorce?

California is a community property state, which means that property acquired during the marriage is generally divided equally between the spouses. However, there are exceptions to this rule, and the court may consider factors such as the length of the marriage and the economic circumstances of each spouse.

7. Can I get a restraining order in a family law case?

Yes, if you are a victim of domestic violence or harassment, you can obtain a restraining order to protect yourself and your children. The court may issue a temporary restraining order, followed by a hearing to determine whether a permanent restraining order is necessary.

8. Can I modify a child custody or support order?

Yes, if there has been a significant change in circumstances, such as a job loss or relocation, you can petition the court to modify a child custody or support order. The court will consider the child’s best interests when deciding.

9. What is mediation in a family law case?

Mediation is a process in which a neutral third party helps the parties in a family law case reach a mutually acceptable agreement. It can be voluntary or court-ordered and can be a cost-effective alternative to litigation.

10. Do I need a lawyer for a family law case in California?

While you are not required to have a lawyer for a family law case in California, it is highly recommended. Family law cases can be complex and emotional, and having a knowledgeable and experienced lawyer can help protect your rights and interests.

Seasoned Family Law Representation in California

Family law issues in California can be challenging and emotional, but understanding your rights and the legal process can help alleviate some of the stress. If you have questions about a family law issue in California, contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, with eight offices across the state to serve you.

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Overcoming Common Property Division Obstacles During a Divorce

May 9, 2024 TRIWriter

A property division can be fraught with obstacles during a divorce. Partners can accumulate assets of significant value over the years, and dividing them equally is virtually impossible. California Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger has extensive experience helping divorcing couples divide their property equitably and with the least rancor.

She shares the benefit of her experience in these tips for overcoming common property division obstacles during a divorce.

Common Obstacles to Dividing Property in a Divorce

Divorce can be difficult enough, but adding complex asset divisions into the mix often stretches tempers and emotions to the breaking point. Such divisions are never easy because they involve more than easily sectioned assets. Some of the most common obstacles to dividing property in a divorce include:

Family or Jointly-Owned Businesses – Determining who keeps the business, how it is divided, or other related questions is often complex.
Common Property—The home and other common property are often a serious point of contention in divorce property divisions.
Sentimental Property – A favorite book collection or family heirloom can cause negotiations to reach an impasse.
Digital Assets – Music collections and even the right to use online consumer awards can cause a breakdown in property division negotiations.
Retirement Benefits—Joint investments and retirement accounts can be real sticking points when determining an equitable property division.
Marital Debts – Couples can disagree more about debts than assets, and creating an arrangement to cover debts can be the hardest aspect of a property division.
Small Children – Younger children and custody considerations add several layers of additional concerns when dividing assets and marital properties.

Tips for a Smoother Property Division During Divorce

How can you help the property division process go much smoother? Follow these tips:

Don’t Be In a Hurry

Property divisions take time, and more complex assets and issues will require even more. Resolve to be patient and allow the process to play out. Critical factors, such as business valuations, asset valuations, and other processes, require time to be completed. Trust Attorney Judy L. Burger to work diligently with the best resources and leading experts to get the facts you need before serious decisions can be made.

Start With Short-Term Solutions

Begin by keeping things on an even keel. Make sure both households stay afloat for several months. Keep the rent, mortgages, car payments, and other bills current while everything else is being figured out. Focus on caring for yourself and your family, especially if children are involved. Seek amicable arrangements to keep life going steady for a while.

Focus on Needs and Interests, Not Positions

Avoid starting off with solid pronouncements like “I demand the house and the children every weekend.” Focus instead on your needs and interests and those of your family. What does everyone need to live on? How can you maintain a good relationship with the children? How will their needs best be met?

Get Seasoned Legal Guidance

Negotiating the minefields of divorce and property divisions without a seasoned family law attorney is like braving uncharted shoals hidden by large waves – you’re asking for disaster. A Certified Family Law Specialist like Judy Burger has the recognized expertise for navigating complicated divorce negotiations and property divisions.

She can guide the negotiations and offer strategic counsel while representing your interests and those of your children. An experienced third party like her can prevent serious misunderstandings, emotional arguments, and other detriments to a favorable outcome.

CA Divorce & Property Division Guidance

Troublesome relations and complex asset divisions are no problem for Attorney Judy Burger. She has successfully guided numerous complex divorces and property divisions so families can move forward. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger in California for legal representation, mediation, negotiation, and litigation concerning divorce and complex property divisions.

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Jointly-Owned Businesses and Divorce

March 7, 2024 TRIWriter

When a couple decides to end their marriage, one of the most complex issues that they may face is the division of property. This can be especially difficult when the couple owns a business together. Jointly-owned businesses in California add another layer of complexity to the divorce process. What are your options for keeping or dividing the business? How does California law impact these decisions?

Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger discusses the specific considerations that need to be taken into account during a divorce involving a jointly-owned business.

Community Property Laws in California

California is a community property state, which means that any assets acquired during the marriage are presumed community property and if found to be community property, must be divided equally between the spouses in the event of a divorce. This includes any businesses that the couple owns jointly. In California, the ownership of a business is determined by both the legal and economic interests of each party.

Legal Interest vs. Economic Interest

Legal interest refers to the ownership interest that is reflected in the legal documents of the business. Economic interest refers to the actual value of the business. In some cases, these interests may not be equal. For example, one spouse may have a greater legal interest in the business. Still, the other spouse may have contributed more to the business and may have a greater economic interest.

Valuing Jointly-Owned Businesses

In order to divide the business equally, it is important to determine the value of the business accurately. This can be a complex process and may require the assistance of a business appraiser or accountant. The appraiser will take into account the assets and liabilities of the business, as well as any future earnings potential.

Options for Dividing the Business

Once the value of jointly-owned businesses has been determined, there are several options for dividing it. One spouse may buy out the other spouse’s interest in the business. This can be done by paying the other spouse their share of the business in cash or by exchanging other assets of equal value. Another option is for the spouses to continue to co-own the business. This can be a difficult option, as it requires the spouses to continue to work together, despite the end of their marriage.

Protecting the Business

In some cases, it may be possible to protect the business from being divided during a divorce. This can be done through a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement that outlines how the business will be treated in the event of a divorce. It is important to consult with an experienced Family Law Attorney like Judy Burger to ensure that any agreements are legally enforceable.

Get Help from a Seasoned CA Family Law Attorney

Divorce can be a difficult and emotional process, especially when it involves a jointly-owned business. It is important to work with a seasoned family law attorney who can help you navigate the complexities of dividing a business during a divorce. Ending a marriage and severing a business relationship at the same time requires keen wisdom in human relationships as well as an encyclopedic knowledge of the law.

Judy Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist who can guide you through the rocky shoals of divorce and help you with property division concerns over a jointly-owned business. She has solid working relationships with various professionals who can help her protect your interests and ensure that your rights are protected. These accountants, appraisers, business attorneys, real estate brokers, and other professionals work with her to help you get the most from any business division of property due to divorce.

Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger today to learn more and schedule a consultation.

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What Happens If One Party Wants to Keep the Family Residence?

February 23, 2024 TRIWriter

Separation and divorce present numerous challenges to both parties. One of the most complex and emotional issues is dividing property. When both spouses have an attachment to the family home, this debate can become heated and fractional. What if one party wants to keep the family residence after a divorce? Or what if both parties wish to keep it and live in it?

California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger is well-experienced in Property Division matters relating to divorce. She can work with various specialists to determine the best course of action and your legal rights. Her team can also represent you in property division hearings and other divorce proceedings in the Family Courts when a family residence is in question.

California Property Division Law

California law follows the doctrine of community property in that any debts or assets owned by a married couple are jointly owned (community property). Therefore, each spouse has an equal interest. In a divorce, community property should then be divided 50/50 between the spouses. However, the family home may or may not be considered community property under state law.

The home may be considered community property if:

The home was purchased with earnings from both spouses.
Both spouses obtained a mortgage for the home while married.
Both spouses contributed earnings to pay the mortgage and/or upkeep of the home.

The family residence may be considered separate property if:

One spouse already owned the home before marriage.
The home was gifted to one spouse before or during the marriage.
Only one spouse provided for the mortgage or upkeep of the home.

However, separate and community property can easily become commingled in a marriage. Over time, a married couple can acquire a community interest in the home through numerous actions and investments.

Conversely, other parties can acquire an interest in the home as well. Any mortgage lender you owe will hold an interest. If you jointly own the home with a third party, such as a family home passed down to one spouse but in another person’s name, this person has an interest and legal rights. You may have also used your home as collateral for a business loan. If so, the business in question may have an interest and rights as well.

So, Who Gets the House?

The question of who gets the family residence in a divorce is never simple. As you see above, numerous factors and scenarios can come into play. Separated or divorcing spouses have some options for settling the question:

Agreeing on Separate Property: The couple agrees that the home is the separate property of one spouse. This must be verified by a court order to become official.
Negotiating a Living Agreement: The couple can agree on who maintains ownership and lives in the house. However, any joint agreement you reach must be ordered by the court to make it official.
Spousal Buyout: One spouse agrees to buy out the community property interest of the other spouse. An independent appraisal is necessary and the court must agree to this arrangement.

If the couple cannot agree, the Family Court will turn to California’s property division laws to make orders. In the case of separate property, the home belongs to the spouse who owns it. When the home is declared community property, the court may order the following solutions:

Sell the Home: The family home is sold and the proceeds are divided equally among the parties holding an interest or according to the courts division (if any separate property interest is determined).
Buyout: One spouse is allowed to purchase the other’s community property interest and becomes the sole owner of the home.
Deferred Sale: If a couple has minor children at home, the couple may remain joint owners but allow the custodial parent to live in the home with the children. This can often make a divorce easier on younger children. After a specified time, the home is sold and the proceeds are divided.

Get Seasoned Representation for CA Property Division

Numerous factors can arise in any property division during a divorce, so you need seasoned legal representation and counsel to protect your interests. Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger is a skilled negotiator and vigorous defender of your rights. She has the knowledge and experience in family law to handle difficult or complex property settlements on your behalf.

Contact one of our offices throughout California today to get help with difficult property division questions in a divorce.

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Can You Take Your Child on Vacation After a Divorce?

February 13, 2024 TRIWriter

Divorce is already a stressful and complicated process, and it can be even more challenging to navigate when children are involved. One of the most common questions during a divorce is whether or not you can take your child on vacation. The answer to this question is not always clear-cut, and several factors come into play. This blog post will discuss how to divide vacation time during a divorce and how to successfully and legally take your child on vacation after a divorce.

Understanding How Vacation Time is Divided During a Divorce

Vacation time is generally included in the parenting plan that’s decided during the divorce proceedings. This plan typically outlines how vacation time is split between parents and the specific dates each parent is given. Most family courts consider each parent’s work schedule, the child’s school calendar, the distance between the parent’s homes, and many other factors before deciding the vacation schedule. Therefore, reviewing these details carefully is essential.

Discussing Vacation Plans With Your Ex-Spouse Beforehand

If you have not had a Court make an order regarding vacation time with your children, communicating effectively with your ex-spouse is crucial to ensure your vacation plans align with your parenting plan. Discuss your proposed vacation plans with your ex-partner and make sure they approve them. It’s best to communicate with them about the dates of the vacation, transportation arrangements, the destination, and any other plans or activities you have in mind so that they feel informed and involved. Doing so will help avoid potential conflicts and make the vacation experience more enjoyable for everyone involved. Agreements made between the parties must be made into a written stipulation and sent to the Court to become a Court order. If you fail to successfully complete these steps you may have no recourse if the other party refuses to abide by your vacation agreement. It is always best to engage a family law attorney to prepare the stipulation and ensure the Court has made the agreement into a Court order.

Tips for Planning a Successful Vacation After Your Divorce

Planning a successful vacation after a divorce can be challenging. Below are some tips that will help you plan a successful vacation:

Choose a location that appeals to your child’s interests and hobbies.
Give your child a sense of control by letting them pick some of the activities or meals.
Keep an open line of communication with your child and listen to their concerns.
Stick to your parenting plan as much as possible.
Create a travel itinerary with your child so they feel involved.

Effects of Taking Your Child on Vacation Without Permission from the Other Parent

Taking your child on vacation without permission from the other parent can result in legal complications. It could violate the parenting plan, and your ex-partner could go to family court to change the terms of the agreement or hold you in contempt for violating the parenting plan Court order.

When to Seek Legal Guidance Regarding Vacations

If you’re planning a vacation with your child and have concerns about your ex-partner’s reaction or are unsure about the legality of it, you should seek legal guidance. A family law attorney will review your parenting plan and advise you on planning a vacation that meets the legal requirements without violating the existing agreement.

At the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, our experienced family law attorneys are experts in California divorce and family law and can guide you on family law matters ranging from divorce, child custody, and visitation agreements to domestic violence. We provide personalized attention and advice to our clients and work towards achieving their goals. Contact us today to schedule a consultation, and we’ll gladly assist you in any family law matter.