How Can I Prepare for Sole Custody of My Child?

September 12, 2024 TRIWriter

Are you ready to take responsibility for sole custody of your child? California family courts generally grant joint custody to both parents in a divorce. Obtaining sole custody can be a difficult and involved process, and you need significant assistance from a knowledgeable legal professional. Certified CA Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger offers some tips to prepare for sole child custody.

What Is Sole Custody?

Sole custody, also known as full custody, is a legal arrangement in which one parent or guardian has the exclusive right and responsibility to make decisions about the upbringing of the child and has the primary physical custody of the child. This means that the child lives with one parent most of the time. The other parent may have visitation rights or parenting time, but they do not have the legal authority to make decisions about the child’s upbringing. In sole custody cases, one parent has the ultimate authority and responsibility for the child’s well-being.

Steps to Prepare for Sole Custody of Your Child in CA

Custody orders are granted by the family court. Until you have a court order, both parents have the same rights. This means that both of you can make decisions about your children. No parent has any more rights to have the children in their care than the other.  

Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can help you with the following steps to file for sole custody of your child in California.

Create a Parenting Plan

When spouses with children separate, they must create a parenting plan to present to the court. Many couples can work out an equitable plan that the court can simply approve. A parenting plan reflecting a sole custody arrangement will likely meet with disapproval by the other parent.

When domestic violence has occurred, the law allows the court to grant sole custody in order to protect the children and abused spouse. There is specific paperwork for requesting sole custody in domestic violence cases.

Gather The Evidence to Support Sole Child Custody

A family court judge will need convincing evidence to grant one parent sole custody. This evidence must basically prove the other parent is unfit to care for the child. However, it must also prove that you are fit and able to care for the child. The court will consider:

Domestic violence history or charges
Police reports
Medical evidence
Witness statements
Correspondence
Employment history
Housing situation
Emotional and physical health of the parent
Age and health of the child
Emotional ties between the parents and the child
The child’s ties to the community, family, school, etc.

The primary consideration is always the child’s best interests.

File a Custody Petition with the Court

Your attorney will help you collect the necessary evidence and complete other required paperwork to file a sole custody petition with the court. Completing forms correctly and including all pertinent information is critical. Documentation you may need can include:

Parenting plan
Request for orders on child custody and visitation
Petition to establish a parental relationship
Petition for custody visitation
Petition for dissolution
Official statement about domestic violence (Form MC-030)

CA Custody Attorney Judy Burger can review your case, determine the specific documents you need, and help you complete them correctly.

Attend a Child Custody Court Hearing

After filing for custody, you must attend a child custody court hearing. During the hearing, the judge will review your parenting plan and custody petition and listen to arguments from both sides. The judge will then decide on the custody arrangement that is in the child’s best interest.

Attorney Judy Burger specializes in family law in California and can assist you in securing the best custody and support arrangements for your case. She can help you understand the custody hearing process, gather evidence, prepare for testimony, anticipate challenges during the hearing, develop a parenting plan, and advocate for your interests.

Get Help with Child Custody in California

If you have a child custody case in California, the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger will guide you through the process and fight for your rights. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and get the support you need.

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Your Top 12 Child Custody FAQs Answered

June 13, 2024 TRIWriter

Child custody is one of family law’s most complicated and emotional issues. Parents understandably have questions and concerns about the child custody process. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger answers the top 12 child custody questions clients ask us throughout California.

Most Common Child Custody FAQs

What is child custody?

Child custody is the legal and physical responsibility for a child. Legal custody refers to the right to make decisions about a child’s upbringing, including education, religion, and healthcare. Physical custody refers to where the child lives and who cares for the child.

What is the difference between sole and joint custody? Sole custody means that one parent has exclusive legal and physical custody of the child. Joint custody means that both parents share legal and physical custody of the child.
What factors do the courts consider when determining child custody? The courts consider several factors when determining child custody, including the child’s age and needs, the parents’ ability to care for the child, the child’s relationship with each parent, and any history of abuse or neglect.
Can grandparents or other family members get custody of a child? In some cases, grandparents or other family members can get custody of a child. However, the court will consider the child’s best interests and the parents’ rights before awarding custody to a third party.
Can a child choose which parent to live with? Sometimes, a child can express a preference for which parent to live with. The court will consider the child’s age and maturity level before taking their preference into account.
Can child custody orders be modified? Yes, child custody orders can be modified if there has been a significant change in circumstances, such as a parent’s relocation or a change in the child’s needs.
What is a parenting plan? A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents that outlines each parent’s responsibilities and rights regarding the child. It includes details about custody, visitation, and decision-making.
What is supervised visitation? Supervised visitation is when a parent is allowed to visit with their child but only under the supervision of a third party, such as a social worker or family member.
Can a parent move out of state with their child after a custody order has been issued? If a parent wants to move out of state with their child after a custody order has been issued, they must obtain permission from the other parent or the court.
Can I get custody of a child in another state?

It is possible, but it requires petitioning for custody in the state where the child lives. Attorney Judy Burger can help you understand the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act and what is required.

How can I prove the other parent is unfit?

This requires presenting evidence to the court that demonstrates the other parent clearly endangers your child’s safety and well-being. Photos, videos, doctor reports, witness testimony, and more may be used to present your case.

What are my parental rights?

Married spouses have joint custody of their children under the law until a court-ordered custody order is in effect. Unmarried mothers have sole physical custody of their children until the father legally establishes paternity. Court-issued custody orders grant certain rights according to the circumstances.

What If I Have Other Questions?

What should I do if I need help with child custody issues? If you need help with child custody issues, you should consult with experienced Family Law Attorney Judy Burger. She can help you understand your rights and options and guide you through the legal process.

Child custody can be a complex and emotional issue. Understanding the process and your rights can help you make informed decisions and protect your child’s best interests. Contact Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger with your questions and concerns.

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What Is Joint Legal Custody?

November 10, 2018 Judy L. Burger Leave a comment

Zach and Mary decide to divorce after 14 years of marriage. Of course, they are concerned about how their three children will handle the stress of divorce. Both parents want custody, but realize they need a plan. As they learn more about how custody is decided, they have questions. For example, they aren’t sure what joint legal custody entails.

Types of Child Custody

In a divorce proceeding, the term “child custody” refers to the care, control, and maintenance of a child or children. However, there are two different types of custody: physical and legal. Each type of custody can be sole or joint. Sometimes a judge may even award one parent sole physical custody of a child, but joint legal custody. As always, the judge will decide what’s best for the child when finalizing child custody arrangements:

Sole Custody. A parent with sole physical custody decides where a child lives. If a parent is awarded sole legal custody, he or she will make all legal decisions related to a child’s health, education, and welfare. The non-custodial parent may have visitation rights as ordered by the court.
Joint Custody. Parents may share legal or physical custody under joint custody arrangements. Physical custody still relates to arrangements regarding the physical presence of the child. Legal custody still refers to the child’s health, education, and welfare. The difference, of course, is that each parent has at least some say in what happens with the child.

So, how does joint legal custody vary from sole legal custody and joint/sole physical custody?

Joint Legal Custody

Parents who are given joint legal custody generally are required to make decisions together. However, if a parent refuses to work with the other parent, they may both end up back in court. That’s not the ideal situation for anyone.

Sometimes Sharing is Impossible.

A judge may give one parent sole legal custody if:

parents are unable to work together
one person is considered an unfit parent
one of the parents is just not capable of making legal decisions
it appears that it’s not in the children’s best interests for both parents to share legal custody

Final Thoughts.

Zach and Mary found it difficult to agree on a parenting plan. Both wanted maximum time with their kids. Both wanted to make all decisions. The judge presiding over their case sent to them mediation, where they came up a parenting plan that worked for the children. They were able to see that joint custody could work as long as they continued to communicate and put their children first.

Acting in the best interest of the child is the driving principle behind a parent plan. Make sure custody issues are handled while negotiating your marital settlement agreement.

To discuss your child custody concerns with an experienced California attorney, please call us at 415-293-8314. The attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger assist clients in San Francisco, Marin County, Santa Barbara, Ventura/Oxnard, San Jose, Gold River (Sacramento), Roseville, and surrounding communities.