Preparing for Life with Shared Child Custody
California Divorce, Child Custody

Preparing for Life with Shared Child Custody

Shared child custody is a significant aspect of family law in California, and it’s crucial to be well-prepared for this arrangement to ensure the well-being of your children. When parents separate or divorce, shared custody can provide stability and continuity for the children’s upbringing. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger shares some essential considerations to prepare for life with shared child custody in California.

Understanding Shared Child Custody

Shared child custody, also known as joint physical custody, involves both parents sharing significant and roughly equal amounts of time with their children. This arrangement aims to ensure that both parents play an active role in raising and caring for their children.

Shared physical custody is not the same as shared legal custody. In shared legal custody, both parents share the rights and responsibilities for making important decisions about the children. Sharing physical custody means that both parents create a working arrangement where the children live with each parent some of the time.

While the courts operate on a general 50-50 basis, parents must decide what works best for their family. Child Custody Attorney Judy Burger can help you create the most feasible arrangement. Here is how she can help:

Create a Co-Parenting Plan

Developing a comprehensive co-parenting plan is essential for shared child custody. The plan should outline the specific schedules for when the children will be with each parent, including weekdays, weekends, holidays, and school breaks. It should also address decision-making responsibilities regarding the children’s education, healthcare, and extracurricular activities.

Promote Effective Communication

Effective communication between co-parents is vital for the success of shared child custody. Open and respectful communication can help in coordinating schedules, addressing concerns about the children, and making important decisions together. Utilizing various communication tools and platforms can facilitate ongoing, positive interaction.

Prioritize the Children’s Best Interests

In shared child custody, both parents must prioritize the best interests of their children. Judy Burger can help foster a nurturing and supportive environment in both households, encourage the children’s relationships with both parents, and maintain consistency in parenting approaches.

Addressing Child Support and Expenses

In shared child custody, child support arrangements and the allocation of expenses should be clearly defined. Both parents should agree on how they will share the financial responsibilities of raising their children, including costs related to education, healthcare, extracurricular activities, and other needs.

Flexibility and Adaptability

Shared child custody requires flexibility and adaptability from both parents. It’s essential to be open to adjusting schedules and arrangements as the children’s needs and circumstances evolve. Collaborating and making compromises can contribute to a successful shared custody experience.

Seek Legal Guidance for Child Custody Matters in CA

Navigating shared child custody arrangements can be complex, and legal guidance is essential. CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger is a knowledgeable attorney who can help you understand your rights, obligations, and options under California family law and prepare the best shared custody arrangement for your children’s best interests.

Preparing for life with shared child custody in California involves careful planning, effective communication, and prioritizing the children’s well-being. Parents can navigate shared custody arrangements with greater confidence and clarity by creating a solid co-parenting plan, promoting positive communication, and seeking legal guidance when needed.

Because each family’s situation is unique, it’s essential to tailor the shared custody arrangement to fit your family’s specific needs and dynamics. Judy Burger begins with the right approach and a focus on cooperation to help your family create and enjoy a stable and nurturing environment for children to thrive despite their parents living in separate households. Contact us at the nearest office to learn more in a confidential consultation. 

What Is Joint Legal Custody?
California Divorce, Child Custody

What Is Joint Legal Custody?

Leave a comment

Zach and Mary decide to divorce after 14 years of marriage. Of course, they are concerned about how their three children will handle the stress of divorce. Both parents want custody, but realize they need a plan. As they learn more about how custody is decided, they have questions. For example, they aren’t sure what joint legal custody entails.

Types of Child Custody

In a divorce proceeding, the term “child custody” refers to the care, control, and maintenance of a child or children. However, there are two different types of custody:  physical and legal. Each type of custody can be sole or joint. Sometimes a judge may even award one parent sole physical custody of a child, but joint legal custody. As always, the judge will decide what’s best for the child when finalizing child custody arrangements:

  • Sole Custody. A parent with sole physical custody decides where a child lives. If a parent is awarded sole legal custody, he or she will make all legal decisions related to a child’s health, education, and welfare. The non-custodial parent may have visitation rights as ordered by the court.
  • Joint Custody. Parents may share legal or physical custody under joint custody arrangements. Physical custody still relates to arrangements regarding the physical presence of the child. Legal custody still refers to the child’s health, education, and welfare. The difference, of course, is that each parent has at least some say in what happens with the child.

So, how does joint legal custody vary from sole legal custody and joint/sole physical custody?

Joint Legal Custody

Parents who are given joint legal custody generally are required to make decisions together. However, if a parent refuses to work with the other parent, they may both end up back in court. That’s not the ideal situation for anyone.

Sometimes Sharing is Impossible.

A judge may give one parent sole legal custody if:

  • parents are unable to work together
  • one person is considered an unfit parent
  • one of the parents is just not capable of making legal decisions
  • it appears that it’s not in the children’s best interests for both parents to share legal custody

Final Thoughts.

Zach and Mary found it difficult to agree on a parenting plan. Both wanted maximum time with their kids. Both wanted to make all decisions. The judge presiding over their case sent to them mediation, where they came up a parenting plan that worked for the children. They were able to see that joint custody could work as long as they continued to communicate and put their children first.

Acting in the best interest of the child is the driving principle behind a parent plan. Make sure custody issues are handled while negotiating your marital settlement agreement.

To discuss your child custody concerns with an experienced California attorney, please call us at 415-293-8314. The attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger assist clients in San Francisco, Marin County, Santa Barbara, Ventura/Oxnard, San Jose, Gold River (Sacramento), Roseville, and surrounding communities.