Do I Want My Baby's Father to Establish Paternity in CA?

Do I Want My Baby’s Father to Establish Paternity in CA?

When a child is born outside of marriage in California, the question of paternity can come into play with custody and support issues. Establishing paternity is critical for various reasons, and knowing whether you want the father of your baby to take this step is essential for your family’s future.

CA Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger explores the implications, benefits, and steps involved in establishing paternity, helping you make a well-informed decision.

What Is Paternity?

Paternity refers to the legal identification of a child’s father. In California, Family Code §§ 7611 stipulates that when a child is born to parents who are not married, the father does not automatically have legal rights or responsibilities concerning the child. Establishing paternity gives the father legal acknowledgment, which has implications for custody, visitation, child support, and inheritance.

Reasons to Establish Paternity

Establishing paternity can be beneficial for several reasons:

  • Legal Rights and Responsibilities: When paternity is established, the father gains legal rights, including the right to seek custody or visitation. Additionally, he becomes responsible for child support, ensuring that he contributes to the child’s upbringing financially.
  • Emotional and Social Benefits: Knowing who the father is can have emotional benefits for the child. It can foster a greater sense of identity and belonging, helping to establish a relationship between the child and their father.
  • Health Benefits: Establishing paternity may provide vital medical and family history, which can aid in future healthcare decisions for the child.
  • Financial Support: Establishing paternity solidifies the child’s right to financial support from both parents, which can be crucial for the child’s development and education.
  • Inheritance Rights: Establishing paternity ensures that a child has the right to inherit from their father, which can have significant legal and financial implications in the long run.

When You Might Hesitate

On the other hand, there may be reasons to hesitate before deciding whether to have the father establish paternity:

  • Relationship Dynamics: If you are unsure about the father’s intentions or if there are unresolved conflicts between you and him, establishing paternity may complicate your relationship further. In some cases, a lack of commitment or past abuse can raise concerns about making the relationship more complex legally.
  • Concerns Over Child Support: If you feel that the father may not provide adequate financial support or may potentially cause conflicts regarding payments, you may have reservations about taking this step.
  • Past Behavior: If the father has a history of instability or unsuitability that raises concerns regarding his ability to parent effectively, you might question whether it is in your child’s best interest to establish paternity.

Steps to Establish Paternity in California

If you decide to move forward with establishing paternity, here are the steps involved:

  1. Acknowledgment of Paternity (AOP): If both parents agree, they can fill out the Acknowledgment of Paternity form, which both parents must sign. This can usually be done in the hospital at the time of the child’s birth or later.
  2. Court Order: If the parents do not agree, one parent (usually the mother) can file a petition with the family court, which will require DNA testing to establish paternity.
  3. DNA Testing: If there is uncertainty, a court-ordered DNA test can confirm paternity. DNA testing is highly accurate, and results generally effectively determine biological relationships.
  4. Finalizing Paternity: Once paternity is established, either through a mutual signing of the AOP or a court order, the father’s name is added to the birth certificate. This finalizes the father’s legal association with the child.

Establishing paternity can also influence custody and visitation arrangements. Once he is recognized as the legal father, he can seek custody and visitation rights through the family court system. Establishing paternity does not guarantee shared custody, but it is a necessary first step if he wishes to be involved in his child’s life legally.

Considerations Before Making a Decision

Before deciding whether to have the father establish paternity, consider the following:

  • Communication: Open lines of communication with the father can help clarify intentions and expectations regarding parenting. Discuss your feelings and any concerns you may have.
  • Legal Consultation: Consult with a Certified Family Law Specialist like Judy Burger. She can help you understand your rights, obligations, and how establishing paternity can impact your unique situation.
  • Child’s Best Interests: Your decision should ultimately center around what is best for your child. Consider the long-term implications for their well-being, support, and relationship with both parents.

Get Answers to Paternity Questions in CA

Deciding whether to have your baby’s father establish paternity in California is a significant choice that can shape your child’s future. Weigh the benefits against any potential drawbacks, consider the dynamic between you and the father, and think about what aligns best with your child’s needs.

Seeking legal guidance can also empower you with the knowledge to make the best decision for yourself and your child. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger to schedule a free consultation.

 

What Does It Mean to Establish Paternity?

What Does It Mean to Establish Paternity
Most people know that establishing paternity relates to naming someone as a child’s legal parent. However, many people are less clear about why it is important to establish paternity, also known as parentage.

When a child’s mother is married at the time the child is conceived or born, the person to whom she is married is automatically presumed to be the other parent, unless the court finds otherwise based on evidence before it. This presumption also applies to certain couples in registered domestic partnerships, as well as to situations in which the second parent openly treated the child as his or her own.

However, if the mother is not married at the time the child is born, the child does not have a second legal parent. In these cases, California provides two simple ways to establish parentage: a formal declaration of paternity or a court order.

In either case, once someone is established as a child’s legal parent, he or she gains both rights and responsibilities relating to the child. Only after parentage is established may that parent exercise parental rights, such pursuing custody and visitation. Additionally, until parentage is established, a person cannot be held legally responsible to pay child support.

While custody, visitation, and child support are all important reasons to establish parentage, there are many others:

  • The child’s right to inherit from the parent;
  • The child’s right to certain benefits related to the parent, such as Social Security and veteran’s benefits;
  • The child’s ability to access family medical records and history;
  • The right to recover certain government-provided benefits on behalf of the child;
  • The presence of the person’s name as a parent on the child’s birth certificate; and
  • The child’s ability to recover as a health or life insurance beneficiary from the person.

In addition to these concrete benefits, California law recognizes that “knowing one’s father is important to a child’s development.”

Declaration of Paternity

The simplest way to establish parentage is through a declaration of paternity signed voluntarily by both parents. This is a state-created a form that has the same effect as a court order when it is filed with the California Department of Child Support Services. By law, birthing hospitals and prenatal clinics must provide a voluntary declaration of paternity to an unmarried mother. The declarations are also available for free “at all local child support agency offices, offices of local registrars of births and deaths, courts, and county welfare departments.”

A parent who signs a declaration of paternity waives several legal rights, such as the right to have a court decide the issue of paternity and the right to legal representation in paternity proceedings.

Court Order

A court order is the second way parentage may be established when a mother is unwed at conception or birth. Either parent may petition a court to establish parentage. For example, a mother may ask a court to enter an order establishing a biological father as her child’s legal father. After this is done, the mother can pursue child support from the father. Similarly, a biological father may ask a court to establish him as the father, after which he may pursue custody or visitation with the child.

Parentage is the basis for many rights and responsibilities under California law. If you are involved in a parentage dispute, you want an attorney with substantial experience in Northern California who will represent you aggressively. Please contact the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger at (415) 259-6636 to learn more.