Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?
Domestic Violence, Restraining Order, Restraining Order

Can I Get a Domestic Violence Restraining Order In Any Relationship?

Domestic violence is a serious issue that affects many individuals and families across California. If you are facing threats, harassment, or violence at the hands of a partner, family member, or someone close to you, understanding your rights is crucial. One of the most effective tools available for protection is a Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO). But can you obtain one in any type of relationship?

Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger clarifies what constitutes domestic violence under California law, discuss the types of relationships eligible for DVROs, and explains how she can assist you throughout this process.

Understanding Domestic Violence Under California Law

Domestic violence is defined under California Family Code § 6203 as abuse against an intimate partner. Abusive behavior can take many forms, including:

  • Physical Abuse: Any act of violence or threats of violence (hitting, slapping, pushing, etc.).
  • Emotional Abuse: Activities that provoke fear, isolation, or mental harm (intimidation, threats, or controlling behavior).
  • Financial Abuse: Controlling someone’s access to financial resources, thus creating economic dependence.
  • Sexual Abuse: Unwanted sexual acts or exploitation, including coerced sex.

California recognizes the importance of protecting individuals from such harm, and the law provides several avenues for victims to seek safety and justice. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order serves as a legal barrier, preventing the abuser from contacting or coming near the victim.

Who Can File for a DVRO?

California law outlines several types of relationships where a DVRO can be requested. Understanding these relationships is essential for anyone considering legal action:

  1. Intimate Partners: This includes individuals who have been in a dating relationship. It does not matter if the relationship is ongoing or has ended; if there is a history of intimacy, you may seek a DVRO.
  2. Married Couples: Current and former spouses are eligible to file for a DVRO. The law also extends protection to those in domestic partnerships.
  3. Family Members: If you share familial ties, such as parents and children, siblings, or in-laws, you can pursue a DVRO. This applies regardless of whether you live together.
  4. Cohabitants: Individuals who live together or have lived together in the past (even if they are not in a romantic relationship) can file for a DVRO as long as there is evidence of abuse.
  5. Individuals with Children Together: If you have a child with another person, this relationship grants you the right to apply for a DVRO, regardless of your current relationship status.

How Judy L. Burger Can Help

Navigating the complexities of domestic violence cases can be overwhelming, especially for those dealing with trauma. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger possesses extensive experience in family law and domestic violence cases. Here’s how she can assist:

  • Legal Guidance: Judy will provide expert legal advice on whether you qualify for a DVRO based on your specific circumstances, explaining your rights and the details of the process.
  • Preparation of Legal Documents: Filing a DVRO entails submitting various legal documents. Judy will ensure all paperwork is meticulously prepared and submitted in a timely manner.
  • Representation in Court: If your case requires a court appearance, Judy is prepared to represent you with skill and compassion, advocating for your rights and safety.
  • Support and Resources: Beyond legal advocacy, Judy can help connect you with local resources, including shelters, counseling services, and support groups for domestic violence survivors.
  • Follow-up and Enforcement: Obtaining a DVRO is just the first step. Judy can assist in ensuring the order is enforced and modifying it as needed in any future legal proceedings.

You can also get immediate assistance by calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Frequently Asked Questions About DVROs

What is the difference between a temporary and a permanent DVRO?

A temporary DVRO is typically issued quickly, often at the first court appearance, to provide immediate protection. A permanent DVRO, on the other hand, requires a full hearing where both parties present evidence, and can last up to five years with the option for renewal.

How long does it take to get a DVRO?

The process can vary, but temporary DVROs can often be granted the same day they are filed. A full hearing for a permanent DVRO usually occurs within 3 weeks after the temporary order is issued.

What evidence do I need to present for a DVRO?

Evidence can include police reports, medical records, photographs of injuries, text messages, or any documentation showing a history of abuse or threats.

Can I get a DVRO against a roommate or friend?

Yes, if you have lived together or have a relationship that qualifies under California law, you can file for a DVRO, provided there is evidence of abuse.

What happens if the abuser violates the DVRO?

If the abuser violates the conditions of the DVRO, you should contact the police immediately. Violating a restraining order is a criminal offense, and legal consequences can ensue.

Get Help Filing for a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

If you find yourself in a situation involving domestic violence, understanding your rights and options is crucial. A Domestic Violence Restraining Order can provide the necessary protection and serve as a vital step toward gaining control over your life. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger is here to guide you through this challenging process with compassion and expertise. Remember, you don’t have to face this alone—support and protection are available.

 

How Can Infidelity Impact My California Divorce?
Adultery, California Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Marriage, Property Division, Spousal Support

How Can Infidelity Impact My California Divorce?

Divorce is a challenging and emotional process, often complicated by underlying issues such as infidelity. In California, a no-fault divorce state, the term “no-fault” means that you do not have to prove wrongdoing to obtain a divorce. However, infidelity can still influence various aspects of the divorce proceedings.

Understanding how infidelity can impact your divorce is crucial, and working with an experienced family law attorney like Judy L. Burger can help navigate this complex terrain.

The Legal Landscape of Infidelity in California Divorce

California law is primarily grounded in no-fault principles, which means that you can file for divorce without attributing blame to your partner for the marriage breakdown.

The Superior Court of California, County of San Francisco, says, “California is a ‘no fault’ divorce state, you do not need to prove someone did something wrong. You just have to state that you cannot get along with the other party. Legally, this is called ‘irreconcilable differences.’”

However, even within a no-fault system, infidelity can have ramifications. While infidelity doesn’t directly affect division of property or spousal support according to California Family Code, it can impact other factors during the divorce process.

Impact on Community Property Division

In California, assets acquired during the marriage are typically considered community property, meaning they should be divided equally between both spouses. Infidelity alone does not change the classification of property from community to separate property. However, if the infidelity involved the squandering of marital assets—such as spending community funds on an extramarital affair—this might be taken into consideration.

The court could potentially award a reduced share of the community property to the spouse who wasted assets due to their infidelity. In essence, while infidelity itself isn’t a legally recognized reason for favoring one spouse over another in property division, the consequences of infidelity can have financial implications.

Spousal Support Considerations

In California, the court assesses several factors when determining spousal support (alimony), including the duration of the marriage, the standard of living during the marriage, and, to a lesser extent, the conduct of the parties. While infidelity does not automatically disqualify a spouse from receiving support, if one spouse’s infidelity is shown to have a direct impact on the couple’s financial situation—like leading to a significant decline in joint income—it could influence the court’s decisions.

Child Custody and Infidelity

When it comes to child custody arrangements, California courts prioritize the best interest of the child. Infidelity alone is not a factor that typically affects custody decisions. However, the behavior associated with infidelity (such as irresponsibility, commitment issues, or an unstable relationship) could be assessed under the lens of parental fitness. If the infidelity leads to instability in the home environment or negatively affects the children, it could influence custody arrangements.

How Judy L. Burger Can Help

Navigating the complexities of a divorce, particularly when infidelity is involved, can be overwhelming. As a Certified Family Law Specialist with extensive experience, Judy L. Burger provides clients with strategic legal guidance tailored to their unique circumstances.

Judy understands the nuances of California divorce law and can help you assess the potential impacts of infidelity on your case. Whether it’s preparing for negotiations, advocating for your rights in court, or ensuring you receive a fair share of marital assets, she offers the expertise needed for navigating such a sensitive matter.

FAQs: Infidelity in Divorce

Does infidelity automatically lead to a divorce in California?

No, California is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you can file for divorce without proving blame. Infidelity may be a reason for emotional distress but doesn’t automatically qualify as a legal ground for divorce.

Can infidelity affect the division of assets?

While infidelity itself doesn’t generally affect how assets are divided, if the cheating spouse wasted community funds on their affair, it could impact the asset division, potentially working against them.

Will infidelity impact spousal support?

Infidelity may not directly impact spousal support in California. However, if the infidelity contributed to financial instability, it could be a consideration in determining support arrangements.

How does infidelity affect child custody arrangements?

Infidelity alone typically does not affect custody arrangements. However, if the behavior linked to infidelity creates instability, it could impact the court’s view of parental fitness.

Can I use infidelity as leverage in negotiations?

While you cannot use infidelity as a legal basis for divorce in California, it can still be an emotional factor in negotiations. Having a competent attorney can help effectively navigate these discussions while focusing on your legal rights and interests.

A Certified CA Family Law Specialist Can Help with Complex Divorce

Infidelity can impact a divorce in various ways, but understanding how it plays into California’s no-fault divorce laws is crucial. If you’re facing a divorce situation where infidelity is involved, consulting with a skilled family law attorney, like Judy L. Burger, can provide clarity and guidance throughout the process. With the right support, you can navigate the complexities of divorce with confidence and ensure that your rights are protected. 

What Makes a CA Certified Family Law Specialist Different?
California Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Domestic Violence, Mediation, Property Division, Property Division, Restraining Order, Spousal Support

What Makes a CA Certified Family Law Specialist Different?

Family law matters are often intensely personal and highly emotional. Dealing with families and relationships is always complex and much is at stake for everyone involved. You want more than an attorney when family law issues arise – you want a specialist. California Family Law Attorney Judy L. Burger is a Certified Family Law Specialist who is able to handle complex personal cases through court petitions, negotiation, and litigation.

What makes a CA Certified Family Law Specialist different from run-of-the-mill family law and divorce lawyers?

A High Level of Specialization

Obtaining a law degree and passing the California State Bar exam to practice law is only the beginning. Certified specialists in any area of law must pass a rigorous set or requirements to demonstrate their exceptional knowledge, experience, and proficiency. Only after completing this extensive process does the state bar award the attorney a specialist certificate.

To become a Certified Family Law Specialist in CA, attorneys must satisfy the following prerequisites: 

  1. Pass a written examination
  2. Continuously practice law in their specialty area for at least five years
  3. Complete continuing education in their specialty area
  4. Receive favorable evaluations by other attorneys and judges
  5. Demonstrate experience in a variety of family law matters, including divorce, child custody, child and spousal support, domestic violence restraining orders, property division, and more.

Becoming a certified family law specialist takes time, experience, and extensive knowledge.

Superior Experience in Family Law Cases

Certified Family Law Specialists must continue to demonstrate their expertise by handling complex family law cases to further broaden their knowledge and experience. Recertification every five years requires more continuing education while putting this extensive knowledge into action helping California families.

A CFLS will have considerable experience with:

  • Messy divorces
  • Complex business valuations
  • Sophisticated property divisions
  • Tense negotiations
  • Filing petitions with the court
  • Advising clients
  • Litigating difficult child custody and support cases
  • Ex parte hearings
  • Domestic violence
  • More…

Seasoned representation by a Certified Family Law Specialist like Judy Burger means the putting encyclopedic knowledge, extensive education, years of real-world experience, and measured expertise in your corner. She is vastly more qualified to help you get the results you need and want than other non-certified family law attorneys.

Why Should I Choose a Certified Family Law Specialist Instead of a Family Law Attorney?

Family law matters can be rough on you mentally and emotionally. The possible complexities and problems are legion and specific to every case. However, a CFLS has likely encountered similar cases before and has experience helping families find solutions. If you anticipate a difficult road ahead in your divorce, child custody, support, or related matters, choose a CFLS like Judy L. Burger.

Here are some examples of cases where we recommend a Certified Family Law Specialist:

  • Both parties have agreed to a divorce, but that’s all you agree on.
  • You have differences of opinion about matters like college debt, large real estate holdings, retirement funds, and other asset divisions.
  • You have small children still at home and cannot agree on a custody and support arrangement.
  • Both parties grew up in different cultures, so family rights and extended family concerns are involved.
  • Both parties jointly own a business.
  • One or both divorcing parties are active duty military.
  • You or your child’s safety is threatened.
  • You or your child are victims of abuse.

CFLS Judy Burger has trained for just these and many other situations so she knows how to help you. In fact, she’s been there with other families before. She can guide you through negotiations, difficult conversations, far-reaching decisions, and even embattled litigation with compassion and fortitude.

When you need stable counsel and steady legal representation through one of the most difficult times of your life, you need the services of a Certified Family Law Specialist. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger as soon as possible to discuss your case and next steps. We have offices throughout California for your convenience.

Your Top 10 FAQs Answered About Family Law in California
California Divorce, Child Custody, Child Support, Domestic Violence, Property Division

Your Top 10 FAQs Answered About Family Law in California

Family law deals with issues like divorce, child custody, child support, alimony, and property division. If you are going through a family law issue in California, you likely have many questions about the process and your rights. Certified Family Law Specialist Judy L. Burger answers the top ten questions we’re asked at our California practice about Family Law matters.

Of course, we can only provide the barest facts in an article. More complete explanations and answers to other questions are available in a complimentary consultation. Contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger to schedule your consultation.

Top 10 Family Law FAQs

Review these common questions clients routinely ask Attorney Judy Burger during initial consultations at her offices.

1. What is the process for getting a divorce in California?

To get a divorce in California, you must file a petition for dissolution of marriage with the court. You will need to serve your spouse with the petition and wait for their response. If you and your spouse cannot reach an agreement on all issues, such as child custody and property division, the court will schedule a trial to decide these issues for you.

2. How is child custody determined in California?

California courts determine child custody based on the best interests of the child. The court will consider factors such as the child’s age, health, and relationship with each parent. Generally, the court prefers frequent and continuous contact with both parents as long as it is in the child’s best interests.

3. How is child support determined in California?

California law provides guidelines for determining child support. The guidelines take into account the net disposable income of each parent and the amount of time each parent spends with the child. Other factors, such as the child’s needs and the standard of living before the divorce, may also be considered.

4. What is spousal support in California?

Spousal support, also known as alimony, is financial support paid from one spouse to the other after a divorce. Spousal support can be temporary or permanent, depending on the circumstances of the case.

5. How is spousal support determined in California?

California law requires the court to consider various factors when determining spousal support, including the length of the marriage, the standard of living before the divorce, and the age and health of each spouse. The court has discretion in determining the amount and duration of spousal support.

6. How is property divided in a California divorce?

California is a community property state, which means that property acquired during the marriage is generally divided equally between the spouses. However, there are exceptions to this rule, and the court may consider factors such as the length of the marriage and the economic circumstances of each spouse.

7. Can I get a restraining order in a family law case?

Yes, if you are a victim of domestic violence or harassment, you can obtain a restraining order to protect yourself and your children. The court may issue a temporary restraining order, followed by a hearing to determine whether a permanent restraining order is necessary.

8. Can I modify a child custody or support order?

Yes, if there has been a significant change in circumstances, such as a job loss or relocation, you can petition the court to modify a child custody or support order. The court will consider the child’s best interests when deciding.

9. What is mediation in a family law case?

Mediation is a process in which a neutral third party helps the parties in a family law case reach a mutually acceptable agreement. It can be voluntary or court-ordered and can be a cost-effective alternative to litigation.

10. Do I need a lawyer for a family law case in California?

While you are not required to have a lawyer for a family law case in California, it is highly recommended. Family law cases can be complex and emotional, and having a knowledgeable and experienced lawyer can help protect your rights and interests.

Seasoned Family Law Representation in California

Family law issues in California can be challenging and emotional, but understanding your rights and the legal process can help alleviate some of the stress. If you have questions about a family law issue in California, contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, with eight offices across the state to serve you.

 

Key Elements to Include in Your Parenting Plan
Child Custody

Key Elements to Include in Your Parenting Plan


Going through a divorce with minor children will involve you and your ex making several decisions about their future care. Ultimately, how you share decision-making and time with your kids will become part of a court-ordered parenting plan that you and your ex will be required to follow. Often parents will negotiate and develop their own plan terms rather than leaving decisions about their family up to the court. When they can’t agree, each parent can ask the court to grant their request for their preferred parenting plan terms. Therefore, it will be crucial to know which terms you need in your parenting plan as you proceed through your case. Here is more on the key elements to include in your parenting plan. Continue reading →