Every state has legal requirements that must be met if two people want to get married. One of the main requirements is the issuance of a marriage license. The marriage license must be obtained before the marriage takes place, and it must be filed with the appropriate office within 10 days after the ceremony occurs. This article will discuss the prerequisites for marriage in California.
California recognizes two types of marriage licenses: public and confidential. Public marriage licenses are part of the public record in the county in which the license is purchased. Anyone can obtain a copy of a public marriage license. Confidential marriage licenses are confidential records that are registered in the county where they are purchased. Other than the couple, only people who have a court order may obtain a copy of a confidential marriage license.
Some of the requirements for a marriage license are common to both public and confidential licenses:
- Both people must be at least 18 years old (with one exception for public licenses noted below).
- Neither person may be a partner in a current marriage.
- Both people must appear personally with photo identification and, depending on the county’s requirements, a copy of their birth certificates.
- The marriage must be solemnized in a ceremony conducted by someone legally authorized to do so.
- If either person was married before, he or she must know the ending date of the marriage and how the marriage ended, such as through divorce or death.
- The couple must pay a fee for the issuance of the license.
To obtain a public marriage license, at least one witness must be present and must sign the certificate. Additionally, a person under the age of 18 may marry with permission of both a parent and a superior court judge.
To obtain a confidential marriage license, the parties must be living together at the time they apply for the license. No witnesses are required.
Once issued, a marriage license is valid for 90 days. The marriage must take place within this time. If it does not, the couple will need to obtain a new license.
If you need the assistance of an experienced California family lawyer, the attorneys at the Law Offices of Judy L. Burger can help. Make the call today if you have questions about California family law: (415) 293-8314.


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In California, our state allows both men and women to change their last names when they get married if one or both of them choose to do so. California is one of only nine states that officially has this equal opportunity law on the books.
A recent incident in Florida brought to light the lingering gender discrimination in other parts of the country. According to news reports, a Florida man was accused of fraud by the state Department of Motor Vehicles after he adopted his wife’s last name following their 2011 marriage.
Lazaro Dinh decided to take his wife’s last name rather than vice versa. Lazaro said he had no emotional ties to his last name and he wanted to help his wife’s Vietnamese family perpetuate their surname. After the wedding, Lazaro followed the usual steps to obtain a new passport and Social Security card. He also changed his bank accounts and credit cards before attempting to obtain a new driver’s license.
Lazaro then applied for a new driver’s license the same way female Floridians do when changing their name after marriage. The Florida DMV issued Lazaro a new license and he went on with life. More than a year later, Lazaro received a letter from Florida’s DMV informing him that his license had been suspended due to an accusation of “obtaining a driving license by fraud”.
He first thought it must be a mistake, but when he called the DMV office in Tallahassee he was told that in order to legally change his name he must do so through a court, a process that takes several months and over $400 in filing fees. When Lazaro explained that his name change was the result of a marriage he was told the rule only applied to women.
Luckily for Lazaro, the Florida DMV decided not to pursue fraud charges at roughly the same time the news hit the internet.
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We spend a good amount of time here talking about getting divorced in California, so it seems only fair to turn our attention for a few moments to how to get married in California in the first place.
In order to get married in California, you must first obtain a marriage license. You do not have to be resident of California to obtain a marriage license, but California has a few unique laws and regulations which will require a few decisions on your part before going to get a license.
For example, you may decide that you would like a confidential marriage license. Or, you may decide you would rather a friend or relative perform the marriage ceremony by participating in the Deputy for a Day program. You will also need to decide what names each of you will use are your married names.
Marriage licenses are issued by the Clerk’s office, which will require a picture ID and possibly a certified birth certificate. You will also need to know the city and state where your parents were born and each of their full names, including your mother’s maiden name.
If you were previously married, then you should be prepared to present proof of divorce, death, or annulment when you apply for a marriage license. If you were granted a divorce within the last 90 days before applying for a marriage license, then you will need to provide a copy of your final divorce decree.
These are some of the technical requirements for getting a marriage license. Of course, we will add that premarital counseling with a qualified family law attorney and perhaps an estate planner are always recommended, especially if you have or expect to have assets you want to protect in the event of a future divorce.
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