Shared Custody Tips for Managing the Holidays

December 1, 2025 TRIWriter

The holiday season should be a time of joy and celebration for children, but for divorced or separated parents, it can become a source of stress and conflict. Whether it’s Thanksgiving, winter holidays, spring break, or summer vacations, navigating shared custody during special occasions requires careful planning, clear communication, and a commitment to prioritizing your children’s needs.

At The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we understand the complexities of shared custody arrangements in California. As a Certified Family Law Specialist, Judy Burger has helped countless families create workable holiday schedules that prioritize children’s well-being while respecting both parents’ rights to meaningful time with their kids.

Common Holiday Custody Challenges

Holiday custody disputes are among the most emotionally charged issues facing separated parents. Understanding these common problems can help you avoid them before they escalate.

Last-Minute Schedule Changes

One parent may attempt to alter agreed-upon plans without adequate notice, leaving the other parent scrambling to adjust their holiday preparations. This creates unnecessary tension and disappoints children who were looking forward to specific celebrations.

Conflicting Family Traditions

Each parent may have strong feelings about maintaining family traditions, from specific holiday meals to religious observances. When these traditions conflict with the custody schedule, resentment can build quickly.

Extended Family Expectations

Grandparents, aunts, uncles, and other relatives often have their own expectations about seeing the children during holidays. Managing these relationships while honoring custody agreements adds another layer of complexity.

Travel Complications

Holiday travel plans can clash with custody schedules, especially when one parent wants to take children out of state or abroad. Without clear guidelines in your custody order, these situations can lead to serious disputes.

Unequal Holiday Distribution

Parents may feel the division of holidays is unfair, particularly when major celebrations fall close together or when alternating years means missing important milestones.

Actionable Tips for Successful Holiday Co-Parenting in Shared Custody

Here are some steps you can take before every holiday to help things go smoothly:

Plan Well in Advance: Review your custody agreement at least two to three months before major holidays. Mark all important dates on a shared calendar and discuss any potential conflicts early. This gives both parents time to make arrangements and reduces the likelihood of misunderstandings.
Communicate in Writing: Use email, text, or co-parenting apps to document all holiday arrangements. Written communication creates a clear record of agreements and helps prevent “he said, she said” disputes. Keep your messages focused on logistics and the children’s best interests.
Be Flexible and Willing to Negotiate: Life doesn’t always follow the custody schedule to the letter. If your co-parent requests a reasonable schedule swap, consider accommodating them when possible. This goodwill often comes back around when you need flexibility yourself.
Focus on the Children’s Experience: Remember that holidays are about creating positive memories for your children, not winning time with them. Avoid speaking negatively about your co-parent, and encourage your children to enjoy their time with both families.
Create New Traditions: You don’t have to celebrate every holiday on the exact date. If your children spend Thanksgiving Day with their other parent, create a special “Thanksgiving weekend” celebration with your extended family. Children can adapt to new traditions more easily than adults.
Respect the Custody Order: Your custody agreement is a legal document. Even if you disagree with certain provisions, following the order demonstrates respect for the legal process and sets a positive example for your children. If the current arrangement truly isn’t working, seek legal modification rather than unilaterally changing plans.
Keep Extended Family Informed: Share your custody schedule with grandparents and other relatives early. This helps them plan their own gatherings around when the children will be available and reduces pressure on you to violate custody agreements.
Prepare for Travel Properly: If your custody order requires notification or consent for travel, provide proper documentation well in advance. Share travel itineraries, contact information, and accommodation details with your co-parent. This transparency builds trust and ensures everyone knows how to reach the children if needed.
Consider the Children’s Preferences: As children get older, their own wishes about holiday time become increasingly important. While you shouldn’t burden them with making custody decisions, listening to their feelings can help you create arrangements that work better for everyone.
Document Everything: Keep records of holiday exchanges, communications about schedule changes, and any agreements you reach outside the formal custody order. This documentation can be valuable if disputes arise or if you need to modify your custody arrangement.

How Judy Burger Can Help

Navigating holiday custody doesn’t have to be overwhelming. As a California Certified Family Law Specialist, Judy L. Burger brings extensive experience and specialized knowledge to custody matters. This certification, held by fewer than 10% of California family law attorneys, demonstrates her advanced knowledge and commitment to this complex area of law.

Judy can help you create comprehensive custody agreements that address holiday schedules in detail, reducing ambiguity and future conflicts. If your current arrangement isn’t working, she can guide you through the modification process. For parents facing custody disputes, Judy provides skilled representation that prioritizes your children’s best interests while protecting your parental rights.

Child Custody FAQs

Can I modify our holiday custody schedule if it’s not working?

Yes, you can request a modification if you can demonstrate a change in circumstances. The court will consider what arrangement serves the children’s best interests. Working with an experienced family law attorney increases your chances of a successful modification.

What happens if my co-parent violates our holiday custody order?

Violations of custody orders can have serious legal consequences. Document the violation and consult with a family law attorney about your options, which may include filing a motion for contempt or requesting a modification.

Do teenagers get to choose which parent they spend holidays with?

While California courts consider children’s preferences, especially as they mature, the final decision rests with the court based on the child’s best interests. Typically, children aged 14 and older have more input, but they don’t have absolute choice.

How far in advance must I notify my co-parent about holiday travel plans?

This depends on your specific custody order. Many agreements require 30 to 60 days’ notice for out-of-state travel. Always review your order and provide as much advance notice as possible.

What if we can’t agree on how to split the holidays?

If you cannot reach an agreement through negotiation or mediation, the court will decide based on the children’s best interests. Having experienced legal representation ensures your position is effectively presented.

Take the Next Step with Shared Custody Assistance

Don’t let holiday custody stress overshadow what should be joyful times with your children. Whether you need help creating a workable shared custody schedule, modifying an existing order, or resolving a custody dispute, The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger is here to help.

Contact us today for a consultation. With offices throughout California and a commitment to personalized service, Judy Burger and her team will provide the guidance you need to navigate custody challenges successfully. Call now to schedule your appointment and take the first step toward peaceful, child-focused holiday celebrations for years to come.

California Divorce, Child Custody, Domestic Violence

What Can I Do If I Suspect My Ex’s New Partner Is Mistreating the Children?

November 24, 2025 TRIWriter

Co-parenting after a divorce can be challenging, especially when new partners are involved. If you suspect that your ex-spouse’s new partner is mistreating your children, it becomes crucial to take action to ensure their safety and well-being.

Let’s explore the legal parameters of abuse under California law, provide steps you can take if you suspect mistreatment, and explain how The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger can assist you in navigating this challenging situation.

Understanding Child Abuse Under California Law

California law defines child abuse broadly, encompassing physical, emotional, and neglectful behaviors. The key statutes involved in child abuse cases include:

Physical Abuse: This refers to any non-accidental physical harm inflicted on a child. It can include hitting, burning, or any act that results in physical injury.
Emotional Abuse: Emotional abuse includes behaviors that harm a child’s emotional development or sense of self-worth. This can involve constant criticism, intimidation, or isolation.
Neglect: Neglect occurs when a caregiver fails to provide necessary care, supervision, or emotional support, putting the child’s health or safety at risk.

California Child Welfare Services takes reports of suspected abuse seriously. When a child’s safety is at stake, taking immediate action is critical.

Steps to Take If You Suspect Mistreatment

Never hesitate to investigate and report mistreatment of your children. Here are the steps to take:

1. Document Your Observations

Keep a detailed record of any concerning behaviors or incidents that lead you to suspect mistreatment. This documentation should include dates, times, descriptions of events, and any remarks made by the children that indicate mistreatment. Photographic evidence of injuries or changes in behavior can also be helpful.

2. Talk to Your Children

Approach your children in a calm and supportive manner. Let them know they can speak openly without fear of repercussions. Ask them about their experiences with their new partner, but do so gently. Avoid leading questions that may suggest how they should respond.

3. Consult With a Child Psychologist

If your children display signs of distress or behavioral changes, consulting a child psychologist may be beneficial. A professional can provide insights into any underlying issues of mistreatment and may help document the effects of any abuse on your child.

4. Reach Out to Your Ex-Spouse

If you feel it is safe to do so, consider discussing your concerns with your ex-spouse. Communicate your feelings respectfully, focusing on the children’s well-being. If they are receptive, this may provide an opportunity to address the situation cooperatively.

5. Contact Child Protective Services (CPS)

If you have substantial reason to believe that your children are in imminent danger or that their new partner poses a threat, it is vital to contact CPS or your local law enforcement agency. They can investigate your claims. Be prepared to provide them with the documentation you have gathered.

6. Seek Legal Counsel

If you believe your children are being mistreated and you have reasons to act on your suspicions, it is essential to consult with a knowledgeable family law attorney. A legal professional can guide you through the necessary steps to safeguard your child’s welfare, which may include modifying custody or visitation arrangements.

How The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger Can Help

At The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we understand the emotional turmoil that accompanies concerns about a child’s safety. Our firm is committed to safeguarding children and promoting their well-being.

Legal Guidance: Judy L. Burger is a California Certified Family Law Specialist with extensive experience in family law matters. She can provide you with the legal knowledge and support you need if you suspect your children are being mistreated.
Custody Modifications: If the situation necessitates a change in custody arrangements, Judy can help you navigate the legal process of modifying custody orders to protect your children.
Protective Orders: We can also assist in drafting any necessary legal documentation, such as protective orders aimed at ensuring the safety of the children during visitation periods.
Mediation and Negotiation: Our firm prioritizes amicable resolutions and can facilitate discussions with your ex-spouse regarding the concerns at hand, seeking collaborative solutions that prioritize the children’s welfare.

FAQs About Child Mistreating After Divorce

What constitutes child abuse in California?

Child abuse can include physical harm, emotional harm, and neglect. Any behavior that is harmful to a child’s physical or emotional well-being may fall under the definition of abuse.

How can I report suspected child abuse?

If you suspect child abuse, you can report your concerns to California’s Child Protective Services or local law enforcement. They will investigate the situation and take necessary action.

What should I do if my children tell me about mistreatment?

Listen supportively and document their statements. Encourage them to express their feelings, and consider seeking professional help if they seem distressed.

Can I file for custody modification if I suspect my ex’s partner is abusive?

Yes. If you believe your children are in danger, you can seek legal counsel to file for a modification of custody arrangements to protect your children.

How can Judy Burger assist me in this situation?

Judy Burger specializes in family law and can provide legal guidance, help in addressing custody issues, and assist with any necessary legal protective measures to safeguard your children.

Ensure the Safety of Your Children

Ensuring the safety and well-being of your children should be a priority. If you suspect that your ex-spouse’s new partner is mistreating them, it is essential to take action. Documentation, communication, and legal support are critical steps in addressing the issue effectively. At The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger, we are here to stand by your side and help you navigate these challenging circumstances, ensuring your children’s safety comes first.

California Divorce, Child Custody

Can My Spouse Be Involved with Obtaining Childcare If I Have Primary Custody of Our Children?

November 17, 2025 TRIWriter

Navigating custody arrangements after a divorce can be one of the most challenging aspects for parents. When one parent has primary custody of the children, they often wonder how involved their ex-spouse can be in decisions about childcare.

Understanding sole, joint, and other forms of custody, and the rights and responsibilities associated with each arrangement, is crucial to ensuring that the best interests of the children are maintained. In California, the complexities of custody arrangements can be effectively managed with the guidance of a skilled family law specialist, such as Judy L. Burger.

Understanding Custody Types

In California, custody is primarily categorized into two types: physical custody and legal custody.

Physical Custody refers to where the children live and who they spend their time with.
Legal Custody pertains to the right to make decisions about the child’s upbringing, including education, healthcare, and general welfare.

Primary Physical Custody means that one parent has the majority of the time with the children, while the other parent may have visitation rights. In contrast, joint physical custody happens when both parents have significant, but not necessarily equal, time shares of raising the children. At times, a parent may have sole physical custody.

Legal Custody is not based on the amount of visitation each parent has but is agreed to or ordered by the Court. If the parties have joint legal custody, they work together to reach agreements regarding the child’s health, education, and welfare. If a parent has sole legal custody that make these decisions on their own without the other party’s participation.

Childcare specifically is a Legal Custody Issue.

Rights and Responsibilities as the Primary Physical Custody Parent. As the parent with primary physical custody, you do not necessarily have the right to make decisions on your own. The decision-making is determined by whether there is joint or sole legal custody.
Decision-Making Authority: If you have joint legal custody, both parents are involved in making the important decisions regarding the child’s education, healthcare, and overall welfare. This includes selecting schools, approving medical treatments, and overseeing extracurricular activities. If you have sole legal custody, you make these decisions on your own.
Communication and Cooperation: Although you may have sole legal custody, maintaining open communication with your ex-spouse can help ensure that both parents remain actively involved in their children’s lives. California courts encourage co-parenting, and fostering a cooperative spirit can benefit the children emotionally and socially.
Childcare Arrangements: If you have joint legal custody, both parents work together to choose a childcare provider. If you have sole legal custody, you choose the child care yourself. Essentially, if legal custody specifies that both parents must agree on childcare arrangements, a cooperative approach is necessary.

Childcare Decision-Making Challenges

Every family situation is unique, and conflicts may arise regarding childcare arrangements, especially when competing parental interests are involved. Understanding your rights and how custody impacts decision-making can help alleviate potential disputes:

Disputes Over Care Providers

If you choose a childcare provider, your ex-spouse may want to have a say, especially if they have joint legal custody rights. Open discussions or mediation can help reach a consensus that respects the opinions of both parties.

Extra-Curricular Activities

Decisions about enrolling children in extracurricular activities can become contentious. If both parents share joint legal custody, both have a say in these decisions, which can lead to discussions about costs, schedules, and care providers during activities.

Modifications to Custody Agreements

If your ex-spouse wishes to change the custody agreement or has concerns about childcare arrangements, they may petition the court for modifications. In such instances, the court will consider the children’s best interests.

Incorporating New Partners

The involvement of a new partner by either parent can complicate childcare arrangements. Open and honest communication about household dynamics with your ex-spouse is crucial to ensure a stable environment for the children.

How a California Certified Family Law Specialist Can Help

Navigating custody arrangements can be daunting, especially when tensions arise between parents. Having a skilled family law attorney like Judy L. Burger can help you understand your rights and responsibilities better. Judy offers:

Expert Guidance: With extensive experience in California family law, Judy can help you understand the nuances of your specific situation, including custody rights and obligations.
Mediation Services: Should disputes occur, Judy can serve as a mediator to facilitate discussions, helping both parents reach mutually beneficial agreements regarding childcare.
Court Representation: If litigation becomes necessary, Judy can represent your interests in court, ensuring that your voice is heard and that any agreements put forth are fair and just.
Modification Assistance: Life circumstances can change, and if you need to modify existing custody arrangements or childcare decisions, Judy can help navigate the legal process effectively.

Frequently Asked Questions about Primary Custody

Can my spouse challenge my sole legal custody decisions?

Yes, your spouse can file for a modification of the custody order if they believe it’s in the child’s best interest to change the current arrangement.

What happens if we disagree on childcare providers?

If both parents have legal custody, it’s essential to communicate openly and may require mediation to resolve disagreements amicably.

Can I choose a childcare provider without consulting my ex-spouse?

If you have sole legal custody, you likely have the right to make this decision independently, but collaboration can foster a better co-parenting relationship.

Help with Primary Custody Childcare & Other Decisions

Navigating custody and child care decisions can be complex and emotionally charged. However, with the proper guidance and communication, you can create a fulfilling and supportive environment for your children. Contact Judy L. Burger for expert legal assistance tailored to your unique family situation.

California Divorce, Spousal Support

Why Is Spousal Support a Critical Consideration in a Graying Divorce?

November 10, 2025 TRIWriter

As life expectancy increases and societal norms shift, divorce among older adults, often referred to as “graying divorce,” is becoming increasingly common. According to the Pew Research Center, the divorce rate for adults aged 50 and older has doubled since the 1990s. In California, this trend has significant implications, particularly for financial security and spousal support (also called alimony).

Understanding Graying Divorce

A graying divorce refers to the dissolution of a marriage involving couples aged 50 and older. This demographic often faces unique challenges that differ significantly from younger couples seeking divorce. Older couples may have been together for decades, accumulating assets, retirement savings, and usually children who are already adults. The decisions made during this phase can have lasting repercussions on the financial well-being of both parties.

Divorce at an older age frequently occurs after a long history of marriage, leading to complexities not only in emotional terms but also in financial considerations. When couples split after years of being in a partnership, the question of alimony—or spousal support—becomes critical. Given the potential disparities in earning power and the significant life changes that come with divorce, spousal support takes on heightened importance for older divorcing couples.

Why Spousal Support Matters in a Graying Divorce

Financial Security Post-Divorce: Unlike younger couples who may have time to rebuild their financial situations, older adults may have fewer years to recover financially. Spousal support can provide essential support during a period of adjustment, ensuring that neither spouse faces undue financial hardship.
Income Disparities: Often in graying divorces, one spouse may have been the primary breadwinner while the other may have focused on homemaking or caregiving. In these situations, the non-working or lower-earning spouse may struggle to maintain the same standard of living after divorce. Spousal support can help bridge that gap until they can secure employment or reach financial independence.
Retirement Considerations: Retirement benefits and pensions are often significant assets in a graying divorce. If one spouse did not participate in the workforce during the marriage, they may be at a disadvantage when dividing these assets. Spousal support may serve as a compensatory measure, offering financial stability in place of shared retirement benefits.
Health Care Coverage: As individuals age, health care issues may become more prevalent, and medical expenses can increase significantly. Spousal support can help cover health insurance costs or other medical expenses that one spouse may struggle to afford on their own after the divorce.
Finding a New Normal: Divorce at any age is challenging, but for older adults, the emotional toll can be compounded by a sense of lost identity or loneliness. Spousal support provides not only financial support but also helps alleviate some of the stress associated with starting a new chapter in life. It grants both individuals the breathing room they may need to adjust and plan for the future.

How Judy Burger Can Help You Navigate Spousal Support Negotiations

Understanding Spousal Support in the context of a graying divorce requires careful consideration and knowledge of California family law. A California Certified Family Law Specialist like Judy L. Burger is uniquely qualified to help you negotiate the best spousal support agreement tailored to your needs. Here’s how Judy’s expertise can benefit you:

Comprehensive Assessment

Judy takes the time to carefully assess your financial situation, considering all aspects, including income, expenses, retirement accounts, and potential future needs. By having a clear picture of your financial landscape, she can negotiate effectively for a spousal support arrangement that provides adequate support.

Experience with Complex Cases

Given the complexities of dividing marital assets and establishing spousal support, Judy’s extensive family law experience ensures your interests are protected. She understands how to navigate potential pitfalls that may arise in higher asset divorces or those involving retirement benefits.

Customized Solutions

Every divorce is unique, and Judy focuses on crafting personalized solutions that reflect your specific circumstances. Whether you seek temporary support during the transition or a long-term agreement, Judy’s client-centric approach ensures you receive the guidance you need.

Mediation and Collaboration

Often, resolving spousal support issues through negotiation rather than litigation is preferable for older couples. Judy encourages mediation and collaborative solutions, helping both parties reach an agreement while minimizing the emotional and financial toll of hostile court battles.

Long-Term Stability

Judy’s goal isn’t merely to secure an agreement but to ensure that the arrangement fosters long-term financial stability and peace of mind, allowing you to embrace your future without the burden of unresolved financial concerns.

Graying Divorce FAQs

What is the average duration of spousal support for gray divorce cases?

Spousal Support duration varies based on numerous factors, including the length of the marriage, the financial needs of the recipient spouse, and the paying spouse’s ability to support. In longer marriages, spousal support may continue for a longer duration or even indefinitely in some cases.

Is spousal support automatically granted in a graying divorce?

No, spousal support is not automatically granted. The court considers various factors, including the length of the marriage, the standard of living during the marriage, and the financial situation of both parties.

Can I request a modification of my spousal support agreement later?

Yes, spousal support agreements can typically be modified if there is a significant change in circumstances, such as a substantial change in income, employment status, or health.

What if my spouse refuses to pay spousal support?

If a spouse refuses to pay spousal support as ordered, the recipient can file a motion with the court to enforce the order. Legal representation can be vital for navigating this process and ensuring compliance.

California Spousal Support Negotiations In a Graying Divorce

Negotiating spousal support in a graying divorce is a critical component of ensuring both parties are treated fairly and equitably. With expertise and experience, Judy L. Burger provides essential guidance and support, empowering individuals to secure their financial future following divorce.

If you or a loved one is facing a gray divorce, consider reaching out to Judy and her team to explore your options and secure the best possible outcome.

California Divorce, Property Division, Property Division

How Can Retirement Benefits Complicate a CA Divorce Property Division?

November 4, 2025 TRIWriter

Divorce can be one of the most challenging experiences a person can face, not only emotionally but also logistically and financially. One of the most complex aspects of a divorce in California is the property division, particularly when it comes to retirement benefits. Understanding how California law governs property division, as well as the specific complexities associated with retirement accounts, is crucial for anyone navigating this difficult terrain.

Understanding California Property Division Laws

California is a community property state. This means that, generally speaking, any property or earnings acquired during the marriage are considered joint property, which must be divided equitably upon divorce. However, this seemingly straightforward rule becomes significantly more complicated when it comes to assets such as retirement benefits.

Retirement benefits often represent a substantial portion of a couple’s total assets and can significantly impact the outcome of property division. The following types of retirement benefits are commonly encountered in a divorce:

Pension Plans: These are often employer-funded retirement plans that promise a specific payout upon retirement, contingent upon factors such as years of service and salary.
401(k) Plans: These employee-established savings plans allow workers to save for retirement with tax benefits, often featuring employer matching contributions.
IRA Accounts: Individual Retirement Accounts can be traditional or Roth, each with unique tax implications and rules regarding withdrawals and transfers.
Profit-Sharing Plans: These are retirement savings plans in which an employer contributes a portion of the company’s profits to employee accounts, often based on a predetermined formula.
Employee Stock Ownership Plans (ESOPs): These are retirement plans that provide workers with ownership interests in the company by allocating shares.
Defined Benefit Plans: These employer-sponsored retirement plans provide a predetermined monthly income to retirees based on factors such as salary history and years of service.

Contributions made to a retirement account and the service credits accrued from the date of marriage until the date of separation are considered community property. The non-participating spouse is entitled to an equal share of this portion.

The Complexity of Dividing Retirement Benefits

The division of retirement benefits in a California divorce can be particularly intricate for several reasons:

Valuation: Unlike more straightforward assets, the value of retirement benefits isn’t always apparent. Pensions must be actuarially calculated to determine their present value, a process that requires specialized insight and expertise.
Types of Accounts: Different types of retirement accounts have varying rules for withdrawals and distributions. For instance, early withdrawals might incur significant tax penalties. Therefore, understanding the mechanics of these accounts becomes vital.
Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDROs): For certain retirement plans, a QDRO must be drafted and approved by the court to allow for the tax-free division of retirement benefits. This legal order can be complex and requires the expertise of an attorney to execute properly.
Post-Divorce Considerations: Retirement benefits may continue to grow even after the divorce is finalized, further complicating matters. Understanding how and when to divide these benefits can impact the long-term financial stability of both parties.
Negotiating Settlements: Spouses may choose to negotiate the division of retirement assets rather than leaving it strictly to the court’s decision. This requires careful consideration of both current and future financial needs, adding complexity to the negotiation process.

How Judy Burger Can Help

Navigating the nuances of retirement benefits in divorce requires a skilled attorney with expertise in California family law. As a California Certified Family Law Specialist, Judy L. Burger possesses the knowledge and experience necessary to guide clients through the complex landscape of property division.

Judy’s approach is comprehensive and client-focused. She prioritizes understanding her clients’ individual circumstances, ensuring that each client feels heard and supported throughout the legal process. With her extensive understanding of retirement benefits, Judy is proficient at negotiating favorable outcomes for her clients, protecting their rights and interests.

Judy has long-standing relationships with forensic accountants who understand family law and draft QDROS to ensure that the division of retirement benefits occurs without unnecessary taxes or penalties. Judy is dedicated to providing clarity amid confusion, enabling her clients to move forward with confidence after divorce.

Retirement Benefits Property Division FAQs

Are retirement accounts divided equally in a California divorce?

Yes, as a community property state, California generally mandates an equitable division of retirement accounts accrued during the marriage, although certain factors may influence the final distribution.

What is a QDRO, and why do I need one?

A Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) is a legal order that allows for the division of certain retirement plans without incurring tax penalties. It’s necessary for administering the division of retirement accounts, such as pensions or 401(k) plans.

Can I access my ex-spouse’s retirement benefits after a divorce?

If a QDRO has been established, you may have the right to access a portion of your ex-spouse’s retirement benefits. It is essential to follow the terms outlined in the QDRO.

What happens if my spouse had a retirement account before we got married?

Only the portion of the retirement account that accrued during the marriage is typically considered community property. The value at the time of marriage is often viewed as separate property.

How can I ensure I receive my fair share of retirement benefits in a divorce?

Engaging a qualified family law attorney, like Judy L. Burger, is critical. She will help you understand the value of the retirement benefits involved and negotiate a fair outcome based on your specific situation.

Protect Your Retirement Benefits in a Property Division

Handling retirement benefits during divorce can be a daunting task, but with the right guidance, the process can be manageable. Understanding California’s community property laws and the nature of retirement accounts is essential. Having an experienced attorney like Judy L. Burger by your side can make all the difference in securing your financial future post-divorce. Don’t hesitate to contact her office for guidance tailored to your specific situation.

Property Division

Confirming Separate Assets in a CA Property Division

October 31, 2025 TRIWriter

Dividing property in a divorce can be complicated. In California, property division is governed by community property laws, which dictate how assets and debts acquired during the marriage are handled. However, distinguishing between separate assets and community assets is critical for ensuring an equitable division. Understanding these concepts can significantly impact the final agreement at the time of divorce.

Let’s review what constitutes separate assets, guidelines for determining them, and how experienced CA Family Law Attorney Judy Burger can assist you through the property division process.

What Are Separate Assets?

In California, separate assets refer to property owned by one spouse that was acquired before the marriage or through certain means during the marriage. Examples of separate assets include:

Property Owned Before Marriage: Any real estate, investments, or personal property that one spouse owned prior to the marriage is considered a separate asset.
Gifts and Inheritances: If a spouse receives a gift or inheritance from someone other than their partner, this property is likely to be classified as separate.
Certain Personal Injury Awards: Compensation received for personal injury claims, not including lost wages during the marriage, is considered separate.
Property Acquired with Separate Funds: If one spouse uses their separate funds to acquire additional property, that property can remain separate.
Income from Separate Property: Income generated from separate assets, such as rental income from property owned before the marriage, is treated as separate, unless commingled.

Guidelines for Determining Separate Assets

Identifying separate assets amidst community assets can be challenging, and understanding the distinctions is crucial. Here are some guidelines to help confirm separate assets during property division:

Documentation: Maintaining records of asset ownership is essential. This includes deeds, bank statements, and documentation of gifts or inheritances. Clear records can help support claims that certain assets are separate.
Tracing Funds: In cases where separate and community funds have been mixed, it may be necessary to trace the roots of the assets. A financial expert can assist in differentiating community property from separate property by examining account histories and transaction details.
Legal Definitions: Familiarity with California’s legal definitions is vital. California Family Code Section 770 details the characterization of separate property. Consulting legal statutes helps provide clarity on what qualifies as a separate asset.
Marital Agreements: Pre-nuptial or post-nuptial agreements can define the nature of certain assets as separate. If you have a marital agreement in place, it’s essential to review its terms closely.
Community Property Presumption: In California, all assets acquired during the marriage are presumed community property unless proven otherwise. This presumption means that one must provide sufficient evidence to establish the separate character of the asset in question.

How Attorney Judy Burger Can Help

Navigating the complexities of property division requires a knowledgeable and experienced attorney who understands California’s laws. Judy Burger, a Certified Family Law Specialist, has extensive experience in handling property division matters, and her expertise can greatly benefit you in several ways:

Comprehensive Knowledge: With her in-depth understanding of California family law, Judy provides accurate legal advice on asset categorization, ensuring you know which of your assets may qualify as separate property.
Strategic Planning: Each divorce case is unique, and Judy takes time to develop a tailored strategy that considers your situation. She helps clients gather necessary documentation and develop an effective approach to demonstrate their claims over separate assets.
Expert Negotiation: Judy’s practice involves negotiating terms that can lead to a fair settlement. Her skilled negotiation techniques can help resolve disputes over property division without the need for lengthy court interventions.
Litigation Experience: If negotiations fail and your case goes to court, Judy’s litigation skills come into play. Her familiarity with court procedures and effective advocacy can yield better outcomes in asset division disputes.
Resource Networking: Beyond legal assistance, Judy has a network of financial experts and appraisers. This collaboration can enhance your case in terms of valuing assets accurately and proving their separate nature.

FAQs About Separate Assets

What is the difference between separate and community property in California?

Community property refers to assets obtained during the marriage, while separate property belongs solely to one spouse, often acquired before marriage or through gifts and inheritances.

How can I prove that an asset is separate?

Proof usually involves providing documentation showing ownership before the marriage or demonstrating that it was received as a gift or inheritance. Tracing funds can also establish separation.

Can my spouse claim my separate assets?

Generally, no. However, if separate assets are commingled with community assets, it may be more challenging to prove they remain separate.

Is income earned from separate property considered separate?

Yes, unless the income has been significantly invested into community property, in which case it may complicate the distinction.

What role does a prenuptial agreement play in separate assets?

A prenup can clearly define certain assets as separate, helping to protect them during a divorce. If you have a prenup, it is essential to review its terms with an attorney.

Experienced CA Property Division Lawyer

Understanding separate assets and their distinction from community property is crucial when navigating a divorce in California. Having an experienced attorney like Judy L. Burger by your side can ensure you receive the guidance necessary to protect your rights and your assets. With her expertise, personalized approach, and negotiation skills, you can work towards achieving a fair division that respects both your interests and those of your family.

If you’re facing a divorce, contact The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger today for a consultation to discuss your property division concerns.

Restraining Order

Can a Certified CA Family Law Specialist Defend Me Against a Restraining Order?

October 24, 2025 TRIWriter

Facing a restraining order can be a daunting experience, especially in the emotionally charged realm of family law. Whether you’ve been served with a temporary restraining order (TRO) or are navigating the complexities of a permanent order, the significance of having a knowledgeable advocate in your corner cannot be overstated.

A Certified California Family Law Specialist, like Judy Burger, possesses the relevant expertise and skills to mount a robust defense against restraining orders, ensuring that your rights and interests are protected throughout the legal process.

Understanding Restraining Orders

Restraining orders are legal orders issued by a court to protect individuals from harassment, abuse, or threats. In California, there are several types of restraining orders, but they typically fall into the following categories:

Domestic Violence Restraining Orders: These orders protect individuals from abuse or threats by someone they have a close relationship with, such as a spouse, partner, family member, or cohabitant.
Civil Harassment Restraining Orders: These orders offer protection against harassment from individuals who do not have a significant relationship with the victim, such as neighbors, acquaintances, or strangers.
Elder or Dependent Adult Abuse Restraining Orders: Specifically designed to protect elderly individuals or dependent adults from abuse or neglect.
Workplace Violence Restraining Orders: These orders can be issued to protect employees from threats or violence in the workplace.

Reasons for a Restraining Order

There are various reasons one might file for a restraining order, including:

Domestic Violence: Allegations of physical harm, threats of violence, or psychological abuse.
Stalking or Harassment: Continuous unwanted contact or surveillance that causes distress or fear.
Child Custody Issues: Concerns about a parent’s behavior affecting the safety and well-being of a child.
Threats of Harm: Verbal or written threats that create fear of imminent harm.
Substance Abuse: When an individual’s substance abuse issues pose a threat to themselves or others.

While these orders are intended to safeguard individuals, they can be based on misunderstandings, miscommunications, or false accusations. Consequently, facing a restraining order can significantly affect one’s personal life, professional relationships, and even parental rights.

The Importance of Legal Representation

When you are served with a restraining order, it is crucial to seek legal representation immediately. There are several reasons for this:

Understanding the Legal Process

Restraining orders involve complex legal procedures. A family law specialist can help you navigate the system, ensuring that you meet all necessary deadlines and follow all required protocols.

Crafting a Defense Strategy

A knowledgeable attorney will help develop a defense strategy tailored to the specifics of your case. Whether you aim to contest the order or seek modifications, having professional guidance can significantly influence the outcome.

Navigating Emotional Turmoil

The experience of facing allegations can be intensely stressful and emotionally taxing. Having a seasoned attorney by your side can alleviate some of this stress, allowing you to focus on your well-being while they handle the legal minutiae.

Representation in Court

If the case proceeds to a hearing, having a legal advocate who understands courtroom dynamics and is skilled at presenting evidence and arguments is crucial. They can present your case effectively and aim for a favorable ruling.

Protecting Future Rights

An order can have long-lasting implications, including impacting child custody arrangements or professional opportunities. A family law specialist will work to protect your rights and reduce adverse consequences.

How a Certified Family Law Specialist Can Help

A Certified California Family Law Specialist, like Judy Burger, brings specialized knowledge and experience that is invaluable in defending against a restraining order. Here are some of the benefits of working with a specialist:

In-Depth Knowledge of Family Law: Judy’s certification indicates a significant level of expertise in family law, including the specifics related to restraining orders. This enables her to offer personalized advice and representation tailored to the nuances of California law.
Experience with Restraining Orders: Understanding the intricacies of restraining orders requires an attorney who is well-versed in past cases and has successfully employed defense strategies. Judy’s experience equips her to tackle your case effectively.
Personalized Attention: Judy takes the time to listen to her clients and understand their unique situations. This customized approach ensures that your specific circumstances and concerns are addressed in the development of your legal strategy.
Mediation Skills: A family law specialist is skilled at conflict resolution. In cases where there could be room for negotiation, Judy can help facilitate productive dialogue aimed at resolving issues amicably.
Emotional Support and Resources: Beyond legal services, Judy recognizes the emotional strain that accompanies such cases and can connect clients with additional support resources, including counseling and support groups.

FAQs About Restraining Orders

How long does a restraining order last in California?

A temporary restraining order lasts until the court’s hearing, usually about 21 days. If a permanent restraining order is granted, it can last up to five years, with the possibility of renewal.

Can you contest a restraining order?

Yes, a person served with a restraining order has the right to contest it in court. A skilled attorney can help prepare a defense and present evidence to challenge the order.

What evidence is needed to support a restraining order?

The petitioner must provide evidence demonstrating a credible threat of harm or harassment, which may include testimony, photographs, police reports, or witness statements.

Can I communicate with the person who has the restraining order against me?

Generally, no. Violating a restraining order can result in legal consequences. Always consult your attorney for guidance on permissible communication.

What happens if a restraining order is violated?

Violating a restraining order can lead to criminal charges, fines, or imprisonment. It is essential to comply with the order while seeking legal advice.

CA Restraining Order Defense Lawyer

Facing a restraining order is a serious matter that requires immediate legal attention. With the help of a Certified California Family Law Specialist like Judy Burger, you have a better chance of crafting a strong defense, protecting your rights, and mitigating the potential impacts on your life.

Don’t navigate this complex process alone—reach out for professional legal support that understands your unique situation and can advocate for your interests.

California Divorce, Debt, Property Division

What Are the Nuances of “Graying Divorce?”

October 17, 2025 TRIWriter

As life expectancy continues to increase, more couples in their 50s and beyond are finding themselves contemplating divorce. Dubbed “graying divorce,” this trend highlights a unique segment of divorcing couples, whose legal and emotional challenges often differ significantly from those faced by younger individuals. For those navigating this complex process in California, the guidance of a skilled attorney can make a tremendous difference.

What Is Graying Divorce?

Graying divorce refers to the phenomenon of older couples, typically those over the age of 50, seeking divorce after many years, or even decades, of marriage. According to statistics from the National Center for Family & Marriage Research, this trend has been steadily increasing since the 1990s. Often, these couples face a host of issues that can complicate the dissolution of their marriage.

Unique Challenges of Graying Divorce

What makes graying divorce more challenging?

Division of Assets: Unlike younger couples, graying couples often have more substantial assets, including retirement accounts, pension plans, real estate, and other investments. Determining the equitable distribution of these assets can be complex, especially if one spouse is nearing retirement or if there are significant changes in asset values due to market fluctuations.
Retirement Plans: Many older couples have built their financial security on joint retirement plans. In a gray divorce, considerations regarding Social Security benefits, pension plans, and retirement accounts become incredibly important. It is crucial to fully understand how dividing these assets may impact future financial stability and retirement plans.
Health Issues and Care Needs: As individuals age, health concerns may arise that can significantly impact divorce proceedings. Issues such as long-term care requirements or medical expenses must be factored into asset division and alimony discussions, as one spouse may require more financial support if they have chronic health conditions.
Spousal Support (Alimony): The support that one spouse may provide to another post-divorce can differ greatly for older couples. Unlike younger couples, the duration and amount of spousal support can become contentious, particularly if one spouse knows they may not have the time to increase their earning potential due to age or health issues.
Emotional and Psychological Impact: Older couples may already have deep-rooted emotional connections and shared histories that make the process of separation particularly painful. Additionally, the fear of loneliness, financial insecurity, and anxiety about starting over in later life can create emotional turmoil that affects both parties.

How Judy Burger Can Help

At The Law Offices of July L. Burger, we recognize the unique challenges that graying divorce presents. Our team is dedicated to providing tailored legal support that addresses the specific needs of our clients. We understand that this stage of life comes with its own set of concerns, and we work diligently to ensure that our clients navigate the process smoothly and with clarity.

Thorough Asset Evaluation: We provide comprehensive evaluations of marital assets, ensuring all possessions are accounted for and fairly valued. Our expertise enables clients to understand their rights regarding retirement benefits and other complex financial matters.
Advising on Retirement Implications: Judy Burger is well-versed in the intricacies of how divorce affects retirement plans and Social Security benefits. We will help you analyze your options, helping ensure you maintain financial security in your later years.
Emotional Support Resources: During this challenging time, we recognize the emotional burden our clients bear. We can offer resources and referrals to counseling services to support you through this difficult transition.
Negotiation of Spousal Support: Our firm will advocate for your best interests in negotiating any spousal support arrangements, focusing on the long-term financial stability of our clients post-divorce.
Mediation and Settlement Options: Recognizing that not every divorce must go to court, we explore alternative dispute resolution options, including mediation, to reduce the strain of adversarial proceedings.

FAQs About Graying Divorce

What constitutes a “graying divorce?”

A graying divorce typically involves couples over the age of 50 seeking divorce after a long-term marriage, often with complex financial and emotional circumstances.

How does asset division differ in a graying divorce?

Older couples typically have more substantial and diverse assets, including retirement accounts, pensions, and real estate, which necessitate careful evaluation and equitable distribution.

What should I consider regarding spousal support?

Factors such as the duration of the marriage, discrimination in earning potential due to age, health issues, and the financial needs of both spouses will influence spousal support agreements.

How do retirement benefits factor into a graying divorce?

Retirement benefits are a major consideration, as dividing them can impact your long-term financial security. It’s essential to work with an attorney who understands the intricacies of retirement benefits in divorce.

Can mediation be effective in graying divorces?

Yes, mediation can be a fruitful alternative to traditional court proceedings, allowing for a more amicable resolution that can save time, money, and emotional turmoil.

Certified CA Family Law Specialist for Graying Divorce

Graying divorce is a significant reality for many couples opting to part ways later in life. With the right legal guidance, such as that offered by The Law Offices of July L. Burger, individuals can navigate the complexities of this process with confidence.

Whether you’re just considering the possibility of divorce or already in the midst of proceedings, having knowledgeable support by your side can make all the difference.

California Divorce

How Can a Certified CA Family Law Specialist Help Me When Divorcing with Children?

October 10, 2025 TRIWriter

Divorce can be an emotionally taxing and complex journey, especially when children are involved. Navigating the legal and emotional complexities of family law requires expertise and compassion. Certified California Family Law Specialist Judy Burger possesses the necessary qualifications and experience to guide families through this difficult process, aiming for the best possible outcomes for both parents and children.

The Complexities of Divorcing with Children

Divorce brings a myriad of challenges, but the presence of children introduces even greater complexity. Parents may face disputes over child custody, visitation rights, child support, and the overall well-being of their children.

In California, family law emphasizes the importance of the child’s best interests, making it essential for parents to prioritize their needs amid the emotional turmoil.

Custody Battles: Determining where the child will live and how much time they will spend with each parent can lead to contentious disputes. California recognizes two types of custody: legal custody (decision-making rights) and physical custody (where the child lives). The complexities involved in these arrangements require careful consideration of the child’s needs and the parents’ capabilities.
Child Support: Parents are usually obligated to provide financial support for their children, and calculating child support can be a complicated process. Factors such as each parent’s income, the child’s needs, and additional expenses, including healthcare and education, must be considered.
Emotional Impact: Beyond the legalities, divorce profoundly affects children’s emotional health. Maintaining stability and continuity in their lives is crucial, requiring parents to approach the situation with sensitivity and care.
Parental Alienation: In high-conflict divorces, one parent may inadvertently or deliberately try to alienate the child from the other parent. A family law specialist can help mediate these situations to foster healthy relationships and ensure that the child’s welfare is prioritized.
Co-Parenting Arrangements: Establishing a workable co-parenting plan is vital for the children’s stability. This involves clear communication, mutual respect, and frameworks that accommodate both parents’ schedules and responsibilities.

How a Certified CA Family Law Specialist Can Help

A Certified California Family Law Specialist like Judy Burger brings a wealth of knowledge and experience specifically tailored to handling cases involving children. Here are some ways in which her expertise can be invaluable during a divorce:

In-Depth Knowledge of Family Law: Judy Burger’s certification indicates a high level of proficiency and comprehensive understanding of family law in California. She is well-versed in the intricacies of custody arrangements, child support calculations, and the latest legal precedents. This expertise allows her to provide sound legal advice and strategies tailored to her clients’ unique situations.
Personalized Approach: Every family’s situation is different. Judy takes the time to understand your family’s dynamics, the emotional needs of your children, and your goals as a parent. This personalized approach helps to create a legal strategy that focuses on the best interests of the children while also supporting parental rights.
Conflict Resolution Skills: Divorce often comes with high emotions that can complicate negotiations. A Certified Specialist like Judy can help mediate disputes and facilitate constructive dialogue between parents, focusing on collaborative solutions that minimize conflict and prioritize the children’s welfare.
Resources and Support: Navigating a divorce is not just a legal process; it’s an emotional journey. Judy Burger can provide resources or recommend counseling services to help both parents and children navigate this transition.
Court Representation: If your case goes to court, having a knowledgeable attorney by your side is crucial. With experience in courtroom procedures and litigation strategies, Judy can represent your interests effectively, advocating for custody arrangements and support terms that align with your children’s best interests.

FAQs About Divorcing with Children

Here are five frequently asked questions (FAQs) concerning divorce when children are involved:

How is child custody determined?

Child custody is determined based on the child’s best interests. Factors considered include the child’s age, health, emotional ties with each parent, and the parents’ ability to provide care and a stable environment. Courts prefer arrangements that allow children to maintain relationships with both parents.

What if my spouse and I can’t agree on custody?

If parents cannot reach an agreement regarding custody, the court will intervene. It may be necessary to mediate to help parents reach a mutually agreeable solution. If mediation fails, the case will be taken to court, where a judge will make the final custody determination.

How is child support calculated in California?

Child support in California is calculated using California’s statewide formula that takes into account both parents’ incomes, the time each parent spends with the child, tax deductions, and healthcare expenses. The goal is to ensure the child receives sufficient financial support from both parents.

Can I relocate with my child after the divorce?

Moving with a child post-divorce typically requires approval from the other parent or court permission. Courts assess the reasons for the move and its impact on the child’s relationship with the non-moving parent and overall stability.

What should I do if I suspect parental alienation?

If you suspect that your child is being alienated from you, addressing the issue promptly is crucial. Document any instances of alienation and consult a family law specialist who can provide legal advice and mediation services to address and rectify the situation.

Choose a Certified CA Family Law Specialist

Divorce is undoubtedly a challenging experience, especially when children are involved. However, with the guidance of a Certified California Family Law Specialist like Judy Burger, families can navigate this turbulent time more effectively. Leveraging her expertise ensures that parents can focus on what truly matters—the well-being of their children—while moving toward a brighter future for their family.

If you’re facing a divorce with children, consider reaching out to The Law Offices of Judy L. Burger for professional support and guidance tailored to your unique situation.

Grandparent Rights, Grandparent Rights, Grandparent Rights

What Are the Legal Rights of Grandparents in CA?

October 7, 2025 TRIWriter

As families evolve and undergo significant changes such as divorce or separation, the role of grandparents often comes into question. The bond between grandparents and their grandchildren is invaluable, and many grandparents find themselves seeking ways to maintain this relationship amidst family turmoil.

In California, grandparents do have specific legal rights regarding visitation and custody of their grandchildren. California Certified Family Law Specialist Judy Burger examines these rights, the applicable legal framework, and the process of establishing and protecting them.

California Family Law

California law recognizes the importance of maintaining relationships with family members, including grandparents. The relevant statutes can be found under the California Family Code, specifically Sections 3100–3105. These laws outline the procedures for grandparents to seek visitation rights with their grandchildren and the conditions under which such visitation may be granted.

Visitation Rights Post-Divorce: In cases of divorce, grandparents may petition the court for visitation rights. The law prioritizes the best interests of the child, and the court will consider several factors, including the existing relationship between the grandparent and the grandchild, the child’s needs, and the impact of any visitation on the child’s welfare.
When Grandparents Can Petition: According to California Family Code Section 3102, grandparents can seek visitation under specific conditions:
When the parents are divorced.
When one parent has passed away.
When the parents are unmarried and have never been married.

However, if the parents are still together and are not prevented from being visited, then grandparents cannot petition for visitation rights.

Types of Visitation: Similar to non-custodial parents, grandparents may seek either scheduled visitation or reasonable visitation, which provides flexibility depending on circumstances. Courts encourage arrangements that are in the child’s best interests while allowing grandparents to maintain meaningful connections with their grandchildren.

Establishing Grandparents’ Rights

To establish visitation rights, grandparents must follow a legal process involving several steps:

File a Petition: Grandparents seeking visitation rights must submit a request to the court. This petition outlines their relationship with the grandchild and the reasons for seeking visitation.

Service of Process: The grandparents must serve the petition on the child’s parents, providing them with notice of the request and an opportunity to respond. This step is crucial for ensuring that the parents are informed about the case.
Court Hearing: After the petition has been filed and served, a court hearing will be scheduled. At the hearing, the judge will assess the information presented, which may include evidence and testimony regarding the relationship between the grandparents and the child, as well as how visitation may benefit the child.
Ruling: The judge will make a determination based on the evidence presented. If the court grants visitation rights, it may outline a specific schedule to facilitate the visits.

The Role of a Certified Family Law Specialist

Navigating the complexities of family law can be daunting, especially for grandparents seeking to maintain their rights. This is where an experienced family law specialist, like Judy Burger, becomes essential. Here’s how a specialist can assist:

Expert Guidance: A Certified Family Law Specialist has in-depth knowledge of the intricacies of family law and can provide guidance tailored to the grandparents’ specific situation. This includes understanding both legal rights and the emotional aspects involved.
Negotiation Skills: The ability to negotiate effectively with parents or other family members is crucial. An experienced attorney like Judy Burger can advocate for the rights of grandparents while fostering an amicable approach that prioritizes the child’s best interests.
Legal Representation: Should the matter escalate to court, having a knowledgeable legal representative ensures that the grandparents’ case is presented forcefully and persuasively. This includes collecting necessary evidence and preparing witnesses if needed.
Conflict Resolution: In contentious family situations, tensions can run high. A family law expert can play a vital role in mediating disputes and finding common ground that allows for constructive arrangements while preserving family unity.

FAQs on Grandparents’ Rights in California

To further clarify grandparents’ rights, here are some frequently asked questions:

What rights do grandparents have regarding visitation?

Grandparents can petition for visitation rights if the parents are divorced, one parent has died, or the parents are unmarried. The court will evaluate visitation requests based on the child’s best interests.

Can grandparents seek custody of their grandchildren?

Yes, grandparents can petition for custody, primarily when the parents are unwilling or unable to care for the child. The court will consider factors like the child’s safety and welfare.

What is required to file for grandparent visitation or custody?

Grandparents must file a petition with the court outlining their relationship with the child and the conditions that warrant visitation or custody. Proper legal representation can streamline this process.

How does the court determine the best interest of the child?

Courts consider various factors, including the child’s emotional needs, the existing relationship between the child and the grandparents, and how any changes to visitation may impact the child’s well-being.

What should I do if parents deny my visitation rights?

If visitation is being denied, document each instance and consider consulting with a family law specialist. Legal action may be necessary to enforce your visitation rights.

Help for Grandparents Seeking Their Rights to Grandchildren in CA

Grandparents play a pivotal role in children’s lives, and California law provides avenues for them to maintain meaningful relationships with their grandchildren, even amidst familial changes. Understanding the legal rights surrounding visitation and custody can empower grandparents to act in their grandchildren’s best interests.

Seeking guidance from a Certified Family Law Specialist, such as Judy Burger, ensures that grandparents receive informed representation and support throughout the process, advocating effectively for the rights of both the grandparents and the children they cherish.

Contact our offices today to schedule a confidential consultation near you!